TheTeachingOne

Dominant Couple, 50, galveston, Texas

Male Dominant, 48, Nashville, Tennessee

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"I'm just out to find the better part of me." The above is from a song, of course. But I know that finding the better part of yourself, or of someone else, is difficult. The emotional and mental aspect of taking a woman and turning her into an extraordinary being - the one she always longed and dreamt she could be, is what separates men from Dominant Men. There is more to this, but I will need to organize my thoughts more to continue.

Had a wonderful lunch with someone yesterday. I enjoyed the time we spent together. It was easy to talk, easy to listen. Not sure what will happen now - we shall see...

Was thinking about this after work this morning. 50 Shades of Grey has really captivated some people. I heard a co-worker asking if she had read it. She said she did, but skipped the graphic sex scenes. Why? She said she didn't want to fall into liking it. Curious that...

Week one of the NFL season is over. Some good games, some bad ones, too. I miss not having a pet to be there. Partly as halftime entertainment, partly as someone to hold. This feeling caught me by surprise, I must admit. It was during the night game. Oh well, no pity. In other news, these crisp, clear days are refreshing. Sleep has come easy with the windows open!

Dreary, cool day in Central Ohio. The kind of day just made for snuggling up to a pet, playing with my muse a bit, or for learning and discovering new things, ideas, inventions, conventions. A little role play, maybe?

I now know that someone - actually a few - fine individuals read what I write here. I am grateful. There is something nice and warm about that. So, I promise not to blabber on about my day, how my foot hurts, the number of pieces of junk mail I received, etc. But pie. Now pie is delightful. I may go on about that at times. As a way of knowing a little more about me, (one could always ask), I have a desert-dry sense of humour. If you get it,I am so much more apt to like you. Liking you, however, is certainly not all about grasping my humor. Finally, I still search for the one who wants to learn at my knee, in my classroom, and one who wants and desires to absorb the lessons, do the homework, and free herself to be the woman she had always desired and dreamt she was created to be.

Another Friday evening soon to present itself. I won't ramble on here about being alone, or wishing someone was there. I will say that I am attending a vanilla function in Columbus this evening. I will also say that my mind really needs someone, if just to feel another human - soft, warm, inviting. Sensual over sexual. The interplay of minds. Learning about someone. Noticing the smallest nuances. How does she react? How many different types of smiles does she have, and what do they mean? Do her eyes widen when you offer her a lesson? Oh, and she really should like pie, too. Pie is wonderful.

Sometimes, I wonder what comes of effort. Seems the scientific avenue isn't always true - that actions produce equal and opposite reactions. Well, maybe for different forces other than human effort, to be sure. I found lately that there hasn't been the equality for effort, and hence, it seems to diminish the initial undertaking. Pessimism to be sure. But, maybe, the effort is just being lost, and needs redirected to someone who will thrive and accept it. So, we are back to square one - alone, void of one to teach and have. Sometime, every now and then, I get tired of just knocking days off of the calendar. But, it is fine. Inner strength prevails, and we march on, and that is good, genuinely good.

Someone, quite easy on the eyes and with a good, descriptive profile, sent an interesting question on religion to me this afternoon. I like thinking, so it was a pleasure to reply.

Here is something I have been thinking about this morning: I find that there are two types of people, those who add to your life, and those who take life from you. I am the former. I really want to add to someone's life, and have my life added to. That's it, not too much more to add today. Maybe it is the lonely feeling this sunny morning. But, this will pass.

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