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About thestratosman
Hello Atlanta!
I am moving from California to Atlanta in late September/early October! I am meeting new friends here so I have people to invite to my house-warming party once I move!
I am a Dom who is looking for friendship/relationship first, developing into a D/s relationship. I am a positive, upbeat person with clear goals for myself in pretty much every aspect of my life. Integrity to others and to my goals are very important to me, as are the ability to laugh (even at myself) and to enjoy life. I enjoy the outdoors (waterskiing, fishing, hiking...), jazz music and (being an extrovert) hanging out with, meeting and helping out friends.
BDSM in romantic relationships provides a safe place for my sub (I am monogomous here) to release control in and out of the bedroom. My approach is to get to know my sub, and determine her needs, then focus on those with BDSM. Often there is mutual or exclusive climax for her that is built through anticipation and increasing stimulation (duration and intensity) under my control. I know most subs also have a need to please, which I also orchestrate as needed. I am always safe.
I have also had a platonic relationship also where a sub needed to be held accountable in certain areas of her life. We built trust first, then implemented goals with celebrations and consequences. I am open to new platonic relationships also.
To me submission is something that is a gift to a Dom, earned with trust when the sub knows a Dom has her best interests foremost. Once she dedicates/promises her submission to her Dom, a wonderful world opens up for her where she benefits from giving up control. I keep hearing about "Doms" who mandate submission as some sort of right for his pleasure, even without knowing the sub. While this may be very satisfying for one (or even both) in the short-term, I have not heard about these relationships lasting or being that meaningful.
I am employed, fun, clean and safe.
Let me know if you want to chat and would like to see a picture.
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