Theslavetrainer

Male Dominant, 25, Einhoven

Female Submissive, 52, Longmont, Colorado

Male Submissive, 34, cape town

This is a recent conversation I've had. written to me: thank you for your journal post, about what it means to be a slave... i have borrowed it, but given you credit, in my own... in response: You are very welcome. It has not done me much good, I hope it does you better. well those words were very true... but i also feel that the taking care of your slave so it will be useful etc. is so important... some men forget to do that and to make it clear to the woman before things get serious whether or not they're willing or capable of showing, feeling love etc. and or even not asking things that would destroy one in some way True, the care of a slave is very important to their upcare* and continued use. And as with a family pet, one can love a slave or servent. And men do forget to mention whether they can or will be able to love that which they own. I know that I can and would after they have served me well for a while. But service, for me, must come first before feelings become involved. I think that is what I find most difficult, many women want feelings first and then service. Where men want the service first first. I guess that even in the world of BDSM one sex is from Venus and the other from Mars. LOL Yes, that is very true about venus and mars. I think that the problems arise when one does not bother to at least try to understand the other. My point in posting this is that it's nice to see that I'm not alone in my thinking about servents and slaves.

Some call it what I seek a total power exchange, some call it an absolute power exchange. Some may even call it Gorean. Reguardless this is how I am and what I seek.

It seems that some people don't even know or comprehend what being a slave is. What it entails to be someones property. It's not to be loved as so many naive women seem to think. If you're looking for the man of your dreams you need to wake up. This is not the Dating Game. You don't love your car, it's a car. You use it for what you need to and that's it. That does not mean you don't take care of your car. You maintain it correctly and it continues to be usable for you. The same is true for a slave.

Male Dominant, 59, NJ / NY / London, New Jersey

Male Dominant, 51, Lehigh Valley, Pennsylvania

Female Dominant, 33

Male Dominant, 43, Westboro, Massachusetts

Male Dominant, 39, Westchester/NYC, New York

Male Switch, 30, kissimmee, Florida

Male Submissive, 26, Dubai

Male Switch, 27, Northern Ireland

Male Dominant, 52, las vegas, Nevada

Male Dominant, 48, London

Male Dominant, 30, Mumbai

Female Dominant, 23