TheSimon

My appetite for ongoing alternatives is something that I am pursuing privately and discreetly outside of my marriage.

I am tallish with grey hair that is thinning in a distinguished way (yeah). Not ugly but would hardly become a film star rapidly. I am a little on the hairy side so for those waxed and polished fetishists out there - sorry! Pity really because I really like a waxed and polished body myself!

I am an outwardly respectable, assertive and educated guy who is looking for submissive or experimentally minded girls who wish to further their experience when I am in Auckland or Christchurch (which is quite frequent). I do travel to other towns regularly too. I am looking mainly for people with imagination and wishing to push their boundaries a little (or a lot!). Someone in my position with the need for discretion is my ideal.

Ideally you will be married/attached so that we can relate and keep things in perspective, but prove yourself to be discreet and a single girl would be considered.

If there are couples wanting to explore BDSM with a genuine and experienced guy without embarrassment or hangups then maybe I am your man.