TheShadows

Hello, dear reader. My name’s Harley. I’m a 28 year old Sadistic Mistress. I’m married to Jacob, a 34 year old Sadistic Master. We’re seeking connections with single, compatible slaves who’re interested in forming a real-time committed relationship or play-partnership, with a serious, experienced, and caring couple.

We’re both geeks and get along best with those who identify similarly. (Think Star Wars, LOTR, Indiana Jones, Anime, RPGs, Family Guy; books, movies, and games that are of the SciFi/Fantasy/Horror variety, eclectic taste in music, crude sense of humor, etc.) Outside of the dungeon, we enjoy the bar scene (for karaoke, pool, darts, and beer), dining out, casual get-togethers with family and friends, tattoos, body piercings, traveling, sight-seeing, camping, swimming, and many other leisure interests. Jacob’s a technical professional and I’m a full-time student studying Medical Laboratory Technology. ONE VERY IMPORTANT POINT: Please have your life together. We do. You should be more than capable of caring for, and carrying yourself, as an adult. We don’t desire a live-in slave at this time, so if you’re running from your screwed up vanilla life, the law, or any other type of dramatic silliness, please pass us by.

We have a stable marriage (8 years), source of income, and residence. The two of us are interested in forming a Leather Family centered on friendship, strong bonds, and Family of Choice. We’re not swingers and have absolutely no desire to engage in NSA “meet and beats” or casual sex. We don’t identify as Polyamorous. Sexual and romantic relationships with a slave are of tertiary importance to us. Our Household walks a traditional Leather path, slightly modified for the sake of practicality. Honor, Honesty, Community, Trust, and Integrity should be prominent descriptors of your personal values and ethics. We’re childFREE, which is very different from childLESS, and require a slave who is free of the responsibilities of rearing children. We’re as out as possible with our friends and family, and our slave will not be treated as a dirty little secret. We would expect the same consideration.

We’re open to petitioners between the ages of 21 and 35 years of age. Compatibility of personalities, interests, and goals are more important to us than looks. (Intelligent, Street-Smart, Laid-Back, Self-Aware, Adventurous, Fun/Funny, Emotionally Mature, Loyal, and Honest are a good start.) Physically, we *prefer* our slave be relatively healthy and active. We’re not interested in overly-thin or vertically-challenged individuals, for S&M purposes. Good personal hygiene, as well as provably disease free, is a must. Gender and sexual preference are unimportant; though we’ve found that we are not compatible with males who’re interested in forced feminization or crossdressing, or with females who‘re ultra-femme.

We’ve been active in our local and regional real-time communities for the better part of 10 years each. We’re RACK players with a good reputation and will provide references upon request. We’ve attended many hours’ worth of workshops, seminars, and hands-on demonstrations in an effort to learn our history, stay informed on the latest techniques, and keep up-to-date on safety precautions. Our main interests in BDSM are: Impact Play, Rough Body Play, Medical Play, Fire Play, Verbal and Physical Humiliation, Knife Play, Body Modification (Temporary and Permanent), Bondage (Physical and Mental), Watersports, and Clamps/Clips.

As far as M/s, we’ve been called “strict, but fair” Owners, and enjoy both standard and protocol-oriented service. Eye-contact and voice restrictions are a favorite, as well as cooking, light cleaning, and boot-blacking. From previous experience, we click best with those who have at least 3 years of real-time experience with BDSM and service under their belt. Our slave would be expected to accompany us to events and get-togethers, so great social skills and an out-going nature are a must. An intuitive, motivated, masochistic slave, with a strong desire to please, who knows what they need and want, is who we’re looking for, in a nutshell.

If you feel you would be a good fit for a relationship that falls somewhere along these lines, please send us a well-written, well-thought-out letter of introduction along with access to a NON-X-RATED picture of yourself, if not included on your profile.

If *we* have contacted *you*, we‘ve observed a possible connection from reading your profile. Rest assured, you will never receive a form letter or rude advance from us. We’ll be glad to correspond with you before moving to IM, phone, and face-to-face for coffee or some other type of mutually agreeable beverage.

In Leather,

~Harley NightShadows~
Mistress, House of NightShadows