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Male Dominant, 49, Cleveland ohio, Ohio
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Male Submissive, 21, Saskatoon
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Male Dominant, 27
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About thesadistician
WARNING: Any individuals or institutions using this site or its associated sites for projects - You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action. ( I suggest the rest of you post this notice)
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Hello,
I hope to make a connection with you based on an accurate understanding of each other... This profile will hopefully be a starting point for our conversation... :)
Sex is just one part of my life; albeit a very significant and valuable one. I see kink as a journey, one which involves changing people, places, environments and ideas. My objective is to explore the inner world of kink deeply to make powerful connections with others, make personal progress and ultimately reach liberation.
It all started when I was very young. One day, I felt a powerful sense of excitement and pleasure- something electric and undeniable. Somehow I had gotten hold of a magazine of kinky cartoons depicting women bound and tormented. It made sense to me even at the age of four that a woman might enjoy that and I have been particularly drawn to submissive, masochistic women and erotic art ever since.
By the age of fifteen I was a voracious reader of erotica, illustrated sex manuals and books like *My Secret Garden* by Nancy Friday. Thus enlightened, I found that I was a natural Dominant in bed because I felt perfectly at ease with a girlfriend at university who needed to be taken, used, abused, whipped, spat on, degraded, humiliated, "raped", forced to endure pain and a long list of other kinky delights. Since I was the dominant partner in the relationship, naturally I endeavoured to stay ahead of her flowering sexuality and to satisfy her submissive needs.
One of my early ambitions was to travel the world so I embarked on a career in finance and spent ten years abroad. Along the way I explored D/s relationships with partners who lived in places I wanted to visit, this establishing a pattern of travel for kink. Due to my work schedules most of my kinky friendships have been forged online and Alt.com was a big part of that time. After a long on and off relationship with that site I could count more wins than losses but was fed up with travelling across the globe to visit subs who interested me.
I am pleased to have developed friendships with local kinksters and am always interested to understand people and their inner workings. Although I do not enjoy play in public very much because I mostly get off on intimacy, I do enjoy seeing kink done well by others.
I enjoy my role as a Dominant and there is nothing more intimate than holding a submissive in your hand, watching her bloom, submit and ride on a wave of inner bliss. That sense of release approaches the spiritual and resonates with other aspects of my life. Being a Dominant also allows me to express my philosophy of life and my ideals of what it means to be a man and a woman (in terms of roles, rather than biology). I recognise the potential power a submissive can develop and the possibility of an equal and opposite D/s dynamic and encourage submissives to explore that.
**My strong interests include:**
*Making people feel comfortable
*Erotic art
*Human Sexuality
*Sadism and Masochism
*TPE
*Humiliation
*Dilation
*Medical kink
*Fetish photography
*Collecting and using whips
*Learning about the art of bondage
**Avoiding drrrama*- not interested in rude assholes of any persuasion- you know who you are..
**If you bump into me at an event, you should know that:**
*I am very open minded and am interested in most kinks so long as they are legal and safe.
*I am looking for friends in the UK, specifically in London and Kent where I divide my time.
*I will be attending munches and events and I get on with most people who are friendly and kind natured.
*I am very much opposed to current legislation criminalising kink.
*I am also an advocate for a much more organised and united front against those who casually or intentionally demonise those who are active in kink.
*I am also very much against abusers who are wearing the masks of kinksters.
I look forward to meeting you all- say hi even if you only know me from my brief profile.
Play hard, play safe.
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