R-E-S-P-E-C-T
You deserve it!
Just because you have submissive desires doesn’t mean someone has a right to treat you like a doormat! Unless that’s what YOU want.
As a Dom, of course I want your respect, but how can I expect your respect, if I won’t give you the respect you deserve?
A good Dom/sub relationship is all about balance, whether it’s balancing your wants and needs against my abilities and vice-versa, or if it’s simply the normal give and take of any good relationship.
Are you looking for this kind of balance in your life? Do you yearn for someone who will inspire you to want to fulfill his needs because he is always working towards fulfilling yours? Let me be your guide.
Are you looking for someone who wants to EARN your trust, not simply demand it? You’ll find this with me.
Are you looking for someone who wants to see you succeed and grow in everything you do? This is what I do.
Are you looking for someone who can capture your heart and captivate your mind? I can do it and I’m right here, all you have to do is write to me.
Let me share a little more about myself with you. I’m an emotionally secure, even tempered, single Dominant with many passions looking for a very special lady to share a one-on-one long term relationship with.
You'll find me to be a loyal, kind and very compassionate man with a great sense of humor. I have an inner strength and sense of purpose that you will find soothing and comforting.
My inner person is also a very open and honest communicator who highly values the same behavior in others. You will see for yourself that I am able to remain calm and collected if and when life throws a curve ball at us.
You will experience firsthand the nearly limitless imagination and creativity that I am able to use to bring our fantasies to life, safely and sanely.
I know how to blend our very special relationship in with the realities of everyday life. After all, friends and family will be an important part of our life together and there is no reason for them to know about our lifestyle choice unless we chose to share the existence of it with them.
I have many years of real life experience as a safe and sane Dom. I'm a gentle and patient teacher when dealing with someone new to the lifestyle.
Although I was raised Catholic, I consider myself more of a spiritual person with a leaning toward Christianity.
A submissive's limits and safewords are not meaningless to me. Some people say they aren't needed, but these are probably the same people who refuse to wear seatbelts while driving!
What am I looking for?
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Someone who can share some or all of my interests and passions and who will share her's with me.
Someone who realizes that life is not perfect and that we need to be pliable enough to accommodate each other’s commitments and obligations.
Someone who wants to be treated with respect and who knows how to return it in kind.
Someone who really wants a one-on-one relationship (I'm not interested in sharing or being shared).
Someone who is drug and STD free and a non-smoker. (Or someone who smokes, but would welcome my active support and encouragement to become tobacco-free).
Someone who is down to Earth and values people for all the good things that are inside them.
Beyond that, being local to me would be a big plus, I’m not really looking for a long distance or weekend only relationship.
Well, that’s it... add an extra fifty points to your scorecard for being so special and getting this far (most people don’t - their loss!). Now all you have to do is stop hesitating and write to me.
C’mon, I won’t bite (well at least not hard enough to break your skin! *wink*) and besides, I’m anxiously awaiting a note from the special person that I know you are!
Oh, by the way, when you do write (and why shouldn't you?), if your profile has a picture, I'll forward one of mine. If your profile doesn't have a picture but you send me one of you, I'll send mine. Otherwise we can talk about the right time to exchange them, okay?
Thanks for looking at my profile and have a good day!
