Theresa31

Change is inevitable, growth is optional.

Looking only for friends in the lifestyle right now. I was in a D/s-poly relationship and have recently come to the realization that to open myself up and trust someone was a huge mistake on my part. This has been a big set back for me.
I am married to a wonderful man. We are still exploring the poly lifestyle. Learning what works for us and what doesn't. He is always aware of what I am doing and who I may be involved with.

I do have some good friends who have helped me through some tough times. You do find out who your true friends are when you hit tough times! So to those of you who contact me and keep up with how I am doing Thank you and I appreciate you so much!


As a submissive or dominant learning and practicing tolerance is a must. You will meet many people on your journey who will be completely different from yourself and by employing tolerance you stand a good chance of not only broadening your horizons but deepening your understanding of dominance and submission. Not one of us was born with the knowledge of how to be a submissive or a dominant, and only by keeping our minds open can we expect to better ourselves. Tolerance is not about agreeing with others or forcing ourselves to think as they do. It is about respecting people's right to their own opinions, ideas, and way of life. It is an honorable and desirable trait every submissive and dominant should learn and utilize. Remember, there is no "one true way" to be a submissive, a dominant, or practice D/s, and a closed mind never benefits from life's necessary lessons.