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theredbull

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theredbull - Male Dominant, San Francisco California | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About theredbull

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Isnt sexuality so... mysterious?

Before, my interest in kink was pornish. I had no idea why I was so turned on by girls in bondage. when I first got opportunities to act out my fantasies, there was no doubt that the sex was mindmelting. (I mean, it always is for horny young dudes). But why, exactly, was I so turned on by girls squirming, or restrained, or humiliated, or in pain, or just completely surrendering.... control?

beyond that.

I realized that the fetishes I enjoyed were just mechanisms. they act to service the dynamic between the dominant and submissive. BDSM is of course about the power dynamics, of pushing each other out of our comfort zones to be the strongest dom or the strongest sub we can be, and helping each other grow. At least, thats what my flavor of it is.

Kink is something I really want to share with someone, someone real, stable, intelligent, and beautiful, someone that wants to push forward. I want a sub thatll challenge me, since dominance is something earned. It makes the payoff, the intensity of the domination, that much more rewarding when its a battle to be won.

My personal favorite dynamic is guiding submissive girls through their sexuality, through their urges to please, and turning them into craven, insatiable sluts. Sluts that become more confident in their submissive sexuality, knowing there is a caring, controlling dominant thats embracing their sexuality, insecurities, and dreams. But aside from this sort of sirslut dynamic, I have experience with lots of flavors of DS and DDLG. Yes, Im a sadist. Naturally, the most important thing is about the chemistry. The exact nature of the dynamic is often quite fluid, given the chemistry and bonds we make.

Beyond kink... Im a New Yorker whos an amateur Californian, having just moved to San Francisco this summer. Well read, well traveled, well spoken, and an all around lover of all things good fun. 511 and a beardy motherfucker. Careerist, and probably more concerned with my identity being revealed here then I should be. Sorry in advance that my pictures are vague.

And all the more beyond kink... Im looking for a subslut that I can be normal with and show off to each others friends and all! And our friends will kind of have a feeling that we have just a little too much fun in the bedroom, but we wouldnt spoil the mystery for them, would we?

Are you looking for something real, and spectacular? Are you looking to be a good girl?
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