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Male Switch, 30, kissimmee, Florida
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Male Dominant, 39, SAN DIEGO, California
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Male Submissive, 33, Göteborg
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About ThereAreTimes
There are times, more often than not, when I long to experience the feeling of being possessed and valued by a dominant woman. Would I lose myself? I can see that as a possibility.
The one thing I am clear about, is that, except for a brief submissive experience which left a deep imprint upon my soul and has haunted me over the past twenty plus years, I’m completely inexperienced as well as confused.
While one day I hope to serve to the betterment of the woman I was meant for, I know I need to find that special lady intellectually, emotionally and physically attractive to my being alone. I’ve always appreciated the presence of a dominant woman who knows what she wants, how to get it and is comfortable making all final decisions, thereby relieving me of that weighty responsibility. While I feel certain enforced chastity and orgasm control would better promote my interest in serving in whichever capacity would gain the favor of my Mistress at any given time. After that, it becomes confusing to me. Do I have slave potential? Am I a submissive? Am I bi? Am I a sissy? Am I a cuck? Or am I just a male who has sexual fantasies of becoming taken over by a wonderful, dominant woman based on that lone experience of two decades plus past?
Hard Limits? I become physically aroused by certain thoughts but by no means does that indicate I would be able to oblige my Mistress’s wishes as to the situations I've never been in before. I simply have no way of knowing until such time as any perceived limit no longer exists. I do not believe I would be the type to welcome and/or endure great amounts of pain and would never knowingly do things which would require Mistress to physically punish me. While some profiles have suggested that I should contact a Pro Domme to schedule sessions so I could better define myself after determining what my capabilities are, that’s something I know I could never bring myself to do. To me, that doesn’t interest in the slightest as I wouldn’t feel connected, possessed… owned! I feel I need that.
Yes, I'm older and a bit of physical mess which can be easily remedied by the motivation of a special woman's interest. Still, I believe many will find me to be a reasonably attractive, intelligent male with much to offer and while I see my relationship with my Mistress as vanilla to the outside world, I am very open minded should Mistress deem otherwise would be in our best interest. I am capable of handling any household chore which includes routine vehicle maintenance, yard work, snow removal, etc. While I’m willing to relocate for the right situation, I am not looking to be kept as I can and would expect to hold a position within the community in order to contribute financially, as well as emotionally, to the relationship.
One female profile I happened upon warned that over 99% of those here who claim to be dominant are fakes or just, “lazy, overweight, lifeless women looking for what they can't find in real life...a man who's interested in them.” As such, I will require proof that you are real and who you say you are. I, of course, will be happy to reciprocate as required by you. It has also been stated that true dominant women will make me feel free to ask many questions and that I should expect answers. This, too, is not a one way street. In short, while I am older, inexperienced and confused at this early stage in what I hope to uncover about myself and fully develop relationship wise, please respect me thereby allowing me to respect you.
Going back over the above, I'm not sure I’ve even scratched the surface of all I hoped to convey. Still, I hope there is enough contained within which will allow you to determine if there is interest on your part in offering advice and/or in looking into the possibility of developing a future relationship with one another. If so, please make your interest known as I really wouldn't know how to approach.
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