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I am a 40 year old straight male. Im 6 tall and 185-lbs. I stay in shape with running, cycling and weight training. I have short brown hair. I travel frequently for my career.



I am submissive, but can switch in the right situation. I am very intelligent and can comfortably carry on a conversation on nearly any topic. That also means I learn most things pretty fast. I am a responsible person in all areas of my life.



I am not looking for 247, but I am open to a long-term, serious relationship. My partner must be appropriately discreet and discriminating. Primarily, I am looking for a partner with substantial shared interests with whom I can experiment and play (in the true spirit of the word). It could be a casual relationship, but hopefully it would last a good period of time.



One of my fantasies would be to act as a naughty pool boy for a Lady and perhaps some of her female friends. Hopefully it would be a very private pool area, where she and her guests could be as uninhibited as they please.



Broadly, I am most interested in teasing and denial, cock bondage, light CBT, nipple torture, anal training, strap-on sex, forced exercise, forced milking, anal and vaginal oral service, role playing, and finally pering on command.



I have mentioned my interests and fetishes in the spirit of full disclosure, but I hope to be trained in the interests, fetishes and tasks that please my partner. I would like to understand the desires she would use me to fulfill.



I am happy to share pictures with a lady who appears to be a possible match. If I initiated contact, I will likely have provided you with a picture already.




8/13/2008 12:39:12 PM
Anal Training Progress Report

I was lucky enough to have a very sexy mistress begin training me in February. It took her a little while to decide exactly how she wanted to train me. I was trained to her liking in oral and personal service, CBT, NT and anally. This progress report focuses on her anal training program.

I have enjoyed anal play for many years, but it had been a long time since I experienced receiving any. In the past I was able to take something around 1.5" in diameter with some effort. I could never take muh more than one finger without getting worked up to it.

The first time she played with my ass she just flipped me over her lap on the bed and started fingering my ass first with one lubed finger, then she worked in a second after ten minutes. I moaned like a whore the entire time. I loved it. She did a great job hitting my prostate. She loved how she could make me moan so loudly and constantly just by fingering my ass. This is when she decided she really wanted to take control of my ass.

Shortly after that night she explained how she wanted to train my ass. I thanked her profusely. I confessed my desires to be her strap-on butt slut. She loved the idea of pounding my ass with a thick plastic cock strapped to her body. She's in very good shape so I knew she could probably work my ass with the strap-on for quite some time. I also confessed to her that I'd used my rather thick cock (a little under 2" thick) to take many girls in the ass and wondered what it would be like to be taken with a strap-on of the same size or a little bigger. She was eager to train me to take something "at least that big."

I quickly found myself buying some toys at her 'request.' I was instructed to buy a leather cock and ball harness, a 2" leather ball stretcher, the Tantus Ryder butt plug, the set of five plastic Anal Dilators (Rectal Dilator Kit). She bought a lockable leather collar and leash for me. I order all of these items from Extreme Restraints. I quickly found my ass filled with something on a regular basis. I was pretty much constantly wearing a pair of nipple clamps (I already owned them) and one of the leather toys around my cock and balls. In addition, she would _always_ make me wear my collar, when we played.

Many times she would have me stroke my cock while I viewed naked pictures of her sitting in my chair with the plug or a dilator in my ass. She never let me orgasm except in her presence, so I was terribly horny the entire time she was training me. I also had to lick up each and every drop of pre-cum that leaked from my slutty cock. Withe the amount of teasing and denial she did, this was a very large amount over the training period.

I would wear one of these for anywhere from 15 minutes starting out to around 4 hours on average when she was almost done training me at a specific size. I wore the Ryder plug to bed one night and slept fine with it stretching my ass. That was about 11.5 hours total. By that point I could slip the lubed Ryder (1.5" thick) or medium rectal dilator into my ass in under 5 seconds.

She trained my ass consistently for about 8 solid weeks, before her career began to interfere (hours & a relocation). At the end I picked another couple toys, the Tantus A-bomb and the Suction Cup Anal Initiation Kit (three suction cup dildos). I have not been able to get the A-bomb into my ass, but that was her objective for me so that she would know I could easily take a 2" thick strap-on dildo as rough as she wanted to give it. She knew I was an anal slut and used that knowledge to control me and push my limits regularly. At the end of each session, which was at least twice weekly I would provide her with a detailed training report via email.

Near the end of her training, I stuck the smallest of the suction cup dildos (1.5" x 5.5") on a chair and was able to ride it up and down from tip to base for 10 minutes. I moaned like a whore again the whole time. I wished I was riding her strap-on, while she pinched & clamped my nipples, stretched my balls and talked dirty to me about how I was her obedient slut.

I haven't progressed much beyond where I was, when she stopped providing me training assignments. I am proud to say I have not regressed either (so far). I'll summarize my current level of training. I can take a lubed 1.5" thick by 6" long object in about 5 seconds. I can take a 1.75" thick object with some effort, but I can only take about 4" of it today. If she hadn't stop training me, I think I would easily be taking on of the 2" thick toys with little effort.

Occasionally, I still practice a little self prescribed anal training. It's not the same as having my sexy domme assign it or do it herself. I would love to find another sexy domme to complete my anal & other training.
3/20/2008 5:05:38 PM
My Poolboy Fantasy

One of my fantasies would be to act as a naughty pool boy for a Lady and perhaps some of her female friends. Hopefully it would be a very private pool area, where her and/or her friends could be very uninhibited.

I would love to have my Mistress pick out an appropriate outfit for me. Perhaps she would have me wear a tight pair of speedos, a very tight pair of trunks, or may be something more scandalous like a cock-ring, butt plug and nipple clamps.

I would bring the towels, rub tanning oil onto them, fetch drinks and attend to any other requests of the lady and her friends. If I had no other orders, I would busy myself cleaning the pool and maintaining her pool area/patio.

Then after a few drinks, the ladies would want some more intimate attention. I might be asked to give a massage, towel someone off, or help someone take a quick shower or swim to cool off. Should I fail to please her or her friends with my service, I would expect to be disciplined appropriately.

Maybe a little later, my Mistress would ask me to perform for her by stroking my oiled cock, or working a dildo in and out of my ass for her enjoyment. Or maybe, she would like to take me with her strap-on under the hot sun to entertain her friends. Perhaps they would rather enjoy some relaxing oral from me as they lay in the warm sun.

12/20/2007 3:18:13 PM
Thoughts on Anal Training

I am not a sissy, nor am I interested in becoming one. I am not gay or bisexual and not curious about men.

But I am very interested in having a Domme or Mistress train me anally. I think there are two primary reasons for this interest. First, I enjoy the sensations of anal play. Second, I enjoy the power exchange associated with a Domme using your ass for her pleasure or your training.

I have never had the good forture of being taken with a strapon and that is one of my biggest fantasies today. I have been with several woman that enjoyed playing with my ass, so I have had their finger, their tongues, beads, plugs, vibrators, dildos and even my own fingers at their command in my ass. If I am lucky enough to cum, they are always incredible orgasms. In particular, I liked it when one woman would have me insert a butt plug into my ass and then have vaginal sex with her in the positions she dictated. It was an out of this world experience to feel all the stimulation on my cock and prostate at the same time.

I am also enjoy giving anal play as much as I do receiving it. Much of my initial experimentation with receving anal play came from my partners' and my curiosity about my response to being on the receving end. I was surprised to find I really enjoyed it, when done correctly.

As I mentioned, I would love to find a beautiful Domme to fuck me with her strapon until I shot my cum all over myself. It's been quite some time since I have been lucky enough to receive any kind of regular anal play. I know that my body need to be trained to re-accept most of the items I was able to take in the past.

I must confess I have fantasies about anal training and anal dilation as well as taking a strapon. Sometimes I think about a Domme working me up to taking something larger than my own cock in both length and thickness with little or no warm-up before hand. I would really love to find a Domme who is extremely creative and playful to take me through such an experience.

12/16/2007 4:39:53 PM
My CBT Experiences

I keep my pubic hair well trimmed and shave my balls. I have found that both vanilla and kinky girls love the feel of my shaved scrotum skin. They all love to touch it and lick it. I really enjoy all the extra attention I get to my scrotum and balls just because I started shaving my scrotum daily.

I enjoy having my scrotum and balls played with as part of teasing session or a teasing and denial session.

I love it when women use my scrotum and balls as a leash or handle to move me in and out of position as they desire. Sometimes vanilla girls do this as part of fellatio, which I find pretty exciting. Something very similar to this that I love is using some type or cock and/or ball restraint to attach to a leash and lead me around.

I wish I had a kinkier woman that wanted to use bondage on my cock and balls more often. I really enjoy the feeling of restraint on them as we play, especially if it's part of a long teasing session.

I've also been made to use ball stretching device on an irregular basis. I fantasize about being made to regularly stretch my balls, but I also wonder if I will be happy with the result after a few years of daily stretching. So, I probably want to be made to use the ball stretcher more often, but not enough to result in serious modification to their appearance.

I really enjoy when a woman uses cock and ball bondage or a ball stretcher to add additional challenge to a scene or position. For example, if she has me bent over for a spanking she might add the ball stretcher with some weights to give my scrotum and balls a little stimulation from the swinging weights.

It's also very interesting to use ball bondage or a ball stretcher to make me inflict strain or pain on my scrotum and testicles in an effor to accomplish some task or order that was given to me. For instance, she might put the ball stretcher on me and tie it to a heavy object like a bed and then lay at a distance that strains my scrotum and balls and have me orally pleasure her.

Lastly, I really fantasize about the use of cock and ball bondage or a ball stretcher to introduce antagonistic pulls into a bondage situation. For example, she might apply the ball stretcher and tie it to a spreader bar between locked my legs without enough length for my legs to fully extend, while at the same time applying nipple clamps that are attached to something above my head. There would be no comfortable resting position in this circumstance.

So far I haven't gotten too far into the realm of the torture aspect, but I do really enjoy light spanking, slapping, squeezing, scratching, cropping, and whipping of my cock and balls.

lildevil8
 
 Age: 27
 Kenosha, Wisconsin