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Hetero Female Submissive, 41,  Houston, Texas
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Apparently it's time to add some things, and accept that my profile will be out of commission for the review process. First, NO, I will not be relocating. What does this mean for you? Well, if you're not in Houston, don't bother. Email from people who are not local to me will be ignored. Second, I have zero interest in men who are younger than me. Yes, this means you kid in Canada who constantly tells me that I look like fun. I am fun, but not for you. Third, my profile says straight because I am (shocker!) straight. This means no couples. Yes, this means you couple in Texas who sent multiple emails asking if I was "ready" to change my sexual orientation. Fourth, lots of people play video games. While I understand that there are (generally) fewer women than men who partake in this past time, it means sending me a message that says "hey, I'm a gamer and I like sci fi" isn't going to be enough. Yes, this is directed to you guy in Georgia. Lastly, to the self titled "Profile Detectives" that have messaged me shocked and outraged that there is an old photo of me with a wedding band on my finger. Yes, at one point I was married. Amazingly enough, it IS possible for Ethically Non Monogamous relationships to exist, and divorce is a thing too. You aren't impressing me by going over my photos with a magnifying glass, my profile says single because I am single. Deal with it. I am a BEDROOM SUBMISSIVE. I do NOT do 24/7, I am NOT a slave, and these things will NOT change for you. I don't want a collar, or ownership. Commence with original profile: Youd think it would be super easy for an English major to write interesting profile text, wouldnt you? Jokes on you then, I majored in reading, not writing. In all seriousness, or as much as I can muster, were just here, taking up space, checking everyone out. Thats what the internet is for right? Anonymity and porn?

So, for the record, submissive, to me, does not mean doormat. I am not looking to be collared or owned or any other synonym. I like to be tied up and smacked around on occasion, and Im not looking for anything more than that. That being said, Im not one to just hop into any old bed. Sorry, youll have to work a little bit for it.

A bit more about me, I eat, sleep and breathe sports, football (American) first, hockey second (go StL! *Edited to add The Rams are back, so St.L can suck it...especially since the Blues traded the Deuces to Washington*). After sports, Im the biggest geek on the planet, Star Wars and Star Trek (Picard over Kirk), video games, dice with too many sides, and books. I dont have too many requests or requirements when it comes to people I hang out with. Please be a decent human being (yes, that is subjective. DONT BE A DICK! Better?) with maybe a few manners, at least semi-fluent in sarcasm, and dont take yourself(ves) too seriously. Looking forward to hearing from most of you!

So I keep getting little notes from people wanting to know why there isnt more written about my sexual preferences. Well, to be frank, DUH, Im into BDSM! Thats why I am here. Theres this whole checklist thing that they ask you to fill out that has all of my preferences highlighted with levels of enjoyment! Ive already SAID all of that. I figured that people might actually be interested in my other interests. What was I thinking!?












 Submissive Female



 5' 2"

 180 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant male

 Lives For:



 Musical Theater





 Body Worship


 Breast Play

 Canes and Crops



 Rear End Play

 Being Massaged


 Hair Pulling

 Masks (Wearing)

 Massage (Giving)

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Sensory Play






 Arcade Games

 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction

 TV Sports

 Body Art


 Cross Stitch




 Intellectual Discourse

 Eighties Music

 New Wave

 Football (Expert)


 Art Galleries

 Fine Dining



 Horseback Riding



 Erotic touch


 Wax Play

 Board Games

 Card Games



 Online RPGs

 Puzzle Games

 Romance Novels


 Web Surfing







 Alternative Music

 Classical Music

 Country Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Folk Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Nineties Music


 Rock Music

 Show Tunes

 Ice Hockey



 Going to the Opera

 Renaissance Faires


 Martial Arts



 Masks on Partner

 Sensation Play


 Public Play



 Online Chatrooms

 Simulation Games



 Online Auctions










 Blue Grass



 Heavy Metal Music

 Industrial Music


 New Age Music

 Opera Music


 Pop Music



 Seventies Music





 Street Hockey


 Antique Shows

 Bar Hopping



 Coffee Shops

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales










 Housework Service

 Horror Movies

 TV News



 Conservative Politics

 Liberal Politics




 Paranormal Phenomena

 Political Activism


 1950s Lifestyle

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Victorian Lifestyle

 Working Out


 Punk Rock Music


 Curious About:

 Ultimate Frisbee


 Electrical Play

 Fire Play

 Gas Masks

 Outdoor Bondage

 Role Playing

 Suspension Bondage

 Theatrical Scenes

 Art Collecting


 Candle Making


 Soap Making

 Libertarian Politics




 Domestic Service

 Orgasm Control

 True Crime





 Hard Limits:




 Scuba Diving

 Skate Boarding


 Surf Boarding


 Wind Surfing



 Corner Time



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 G-spot Stimulation

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Foot Worship



 Medical fetish play

 Mental Bondage

 Modern Primitivism

 Obedience Training



 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Speech Restrictions









 Female Sovereignty






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