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Male Submissive, 37, Indianapolis, Indiana
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About TheObsceneTouch
Know this I am addicted to you. I have tasted your mind, and I cannot forget its flavor.
-Unknown
Personality
Im an introvert by nature (INTJ, Love language Physical Touch), as such, its sometimes hard to crack myself out of the shell and go about introducing myself to others. I tend to have a habit of sitting in the sidelines and tie anyone and anything that will come to me, but without the drive to walk a round and introduce myself.
In many ways, thats why i think my biggest kink fits me the best. Rope is like a self advertisement of skill, competency, and, since everyone wants to look beautiful, others who see people wearing my work, will come seek me out for the same.
Dont get me wrong, I am a dominant by nature, and rope, while my main kink, I enjoy multiple different kids of play, and enjoy the powerful aspects of Ds, I just enjoy the deeper more intimate bonds of one on one time.
Kink
I love rope. Kinbaku, Shibari, western rigging, human macrame, whatever you want to call it. I love rope more than any other kink. I crave rope. The feel, the texture, the sense of control. I love how the art forces my mind to picture the wraps, the binding, the angles as it plays against someones skin. I adore the artistry, the passion, the shear creative eroticism that can be made by nothing more than the blank canvas of skin, and a length of rope.
About 90 of the time I see a woman, a portion of my brain is thinking about how they would look in rope, calculating how many strands I would need, which color would be best. I would contemplate which of the positions she could do, and craft a vision in my mind, a tableau of her, and my rope, perfectly tied.
Dont get me wrong, i have other kinks that i adore to revel in, rope is just my primary.
Sex
I have discovered in my, shy of a decade, journey in the kink world, that kink and sex isnt absolutely entwined for me. Frankly, most of my kinks, the kinetic play, fire, cupping, wax, etc, and what not, isnt really compatible with the way that i enjoy my sex.
I think thats because i dont do casual sex. I identify as a heteronormative sapiosexual.
Your body might attract me, might catch my eye, your aesthetic, your look might be beautiful...but its your mind that will turn me on. Its your intelligence, your humor. Its that amazing spark that is living behind those eyes, that is what will make be burn in passion for you.
So considering i have to get to know you quite well before that sense of desire burns, like i said before, i dont do casual.
Relationships
ive been blessed to be in love with my long term girlfriend, a vanilla with sprinkles, while i am a full bowl of chocolaty kinky goodness. Over this past year, she and i have opened our relationship, and, all tho this is not my first rodeo with poly, this is her firsts go around, so i have a tendency to be delicate.
Right now, were looking for someone(or someones) for us to date as a couple. Primarily for me to find a play partner and submissive. And for her, to find a best friendgirlfriend.
We are also always open to friends, gaming partners, and event buddies.
Kinks
Shibari
Bondage
Flogging
Cupping
Fireplay
Wax Play
Canes
DDlg
Collars
Forced Orgasms
Hard Limits
Blood
Needles
Piss
Scatt
Vomit
Gapeing
A note on anal play Im not into anal, not that i wont do it, if requested, its just not something i even think about, and honestly not something that i have any serious desire or enjoyment from. Now, if my bottom enjoyed anal? Then that is a different ball of yarn. I do like doing things my bottoms enjoy. Altho, to be noted, my ass is totaly off limits. Dont licky, dont sticky, dont pokey.
Note. I seem to defy labels. Primal Sadist Daddy Rope Top Master Sensualist are all titles that fit with my kinks, desires, and various practices within BDSM.
Results from bdsmtest.org
100 Dominant
100 Rigger
100 MasterMistress
100 DaddyMommy
100 Experimentalist
100 Primal (Hunter)
100 Non-monogamist
99 Owner
99 Sadist
97 Exhibitionist
95 Voyeur
90 Ageplayer
48 Primal (Prey)
47 Degrader
38 Pet
5 BoyGirl
3 Brat
2 Vanilla
1 Submissive
1 Masochist
1 Slave
0 Rope bunny
0 Degradee
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