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Male Dominant, 51, Lehigh Valley, Pennsylvania
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Male Switch, 27, Northern Ireland
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Male Switch, 21
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About themaninthehouse
"The secret waits for the insight, Of eyes unclouded by longing; Those who are bound by desire See only the outward container."
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I'm seeking a harmonious long-term relationship with a naturally submissive woman who would thrive in a traditional household.
Several years ago I had such a relationship and it was very successful. She did the grocery shopping, cooking, and cleaning. I paid the bills, bought her clothes, and complimented her meals. We played five-chess and scrabble, read books and went camping. When she got mad she wouldn't talk to me. When she really got out of line, I spanked her. In a year, that happened twice, and both times she was grateful.
It worked so well b/c we were Yin and Yang -- a notion that defies Western thinking where people marry their "best friends" (and then divorce them). She was "all heart" and I'm a big brain. But she was also very smart, and I was always gentle. (Water, after all, will grind away stone, while sticks are easily broken.)
Yes, it's strange to seek such a relationship in this graveyard of human convention, but it seems to me that traditional relationships are about as easy to find these days as a G.B. Shaw novel. So here I am.
That said, I don't want a slave, a pain slut, or anything you'd find in a Japanese subway. I also won't bother with anyone who lacks a brain, "needs" a man, or requires equestrian equipment to remain focused. The woman I'm seeking simply prefers to play a traditional role in untraditional times, a Yin to my Yang (and vice versa) if that's not too trite.
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"These two come paired but distinct by their names. Of all things profound, Say that their pairing is deepest, The gate to the root of the world."
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Let's see if this site turns up anything interesting. So far I see women who want owners and seek training. Yet ownership (of anything) is a burden and the owner is often the slave. Meanwhile, anyone who's been the boss in real life would rather let someone else deal with the training.
I'm also skeptical of the masters. What have they mastered? Mastery, to me, is a path, not a status:
If you work by the Way,
You will be of the way;
If you work through its virtue,
You will be given its virtue;
-- Tao Te Ching, 23
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