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TheLover09621

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About TheLover09621

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Smaller BBW Just exploring right now.

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I do not meet nor will I respond to persons who have no profile pictures, or are not completely 100% local...meaning...You must be located somewhere on Long Island. I will not meet or respond to anyone in NYC sorry.

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Looking for (possible) LTR and someone REAL.

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About Me:



As Far as fetishes...and my likes and dislikes, I am evolving...evolving...
...and doing more Evolving XDD...I have been an ONLINE Domme, an ONLINE sub, an ONLINE gorean slave and an ONLINE babygirl, lol. I am at a place right now after having "tried on" many hats, that I would like to not only try them in the real world, but find one in which I feel the most comfortable, and enjoy. Though I currently see myself, and most probably am a switch...I think it would be nice to find that one cozy little spot, instead of forever changing and confusing myself, LOL. If anyone wants to help me figure this and myself all out...I'M ALL EARS!!! LOL.


Update:




What to put, what to put lol...So many things I could put here. Guess you could say I am a VERY diverse person. My fetishes are endless and I like to try new things....but that is within reason.



I am very new to the lifestyle although I have been curious about it for the past couple of years.



As you can see from my profile status's above, I might be in the middle of a mid-life crisis, lol...I have always been bi and I have always been submissive in my vanilla long term relationships...but I recently found another side of me, and so I guess I am here to explore that and rly all aspects of myself at the moment. Find where I really belong in the grander scheme of things.



I love talking to a wide variety of people, exchanging kinky ideas and even vanilla ones. There is so much fun to be had in this lifestyle and I am looking to explore some of that ;) ...again, within reason. :)



I would love to add a list of fetishes to my page, but for right now I find I am always changing and exploring new ideas and things, so for now I think it's best to leave it blank.


I am not sure if here is exactly the right place to be looking for love, but of course I am single so I do want it. If I found it here, that would be an added bonus! I just had a conversation with a friend and we concluded that most relationships either start strictly kinky or strictly vanilla...we observed that the vanilla ones, always includes romance and that perfect connection but eventually only to find later that the person you love so much is not at all kinky or into the same things as you ....or it starts out all kinky...based on fetishes, sexual preferences etc...and then that takes over, the romance gets kicked to the curb and that special "connection" is lost or lacking. So the conundrum at the moment is how to find both and what is the best way to find it? ...lol some food for thought. Maybe some people are just lucky.






Hugs to all the good Daddy's out there. :)




Some Wise Quotes:



"Those who know others are intelligent; those who know themselves are truly wise . Those who master others are strong; those who master themselves have true power." -Lao-Tzu


"A goal is not always meant to be reached, it often serves simply as something to aim at." - Bruce Lee


"Defeat is not the worst of failures. Not to have tried is the true failure."
- George Edward Woodberry


"No kind of sensation is keener and more active than that of pain; its impressions are unmistakable." - Marquis de Sade


"Realize deeply that the present moment is all you ever have." - Eckhart Tolle


"All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another."
- Anatole France


"Be universal in your love. You will see the universe to be the picture of your own being. Complete and total perfection will come about only when we feel that our perfection is no perfection as long as the rest of humanity remains imperfect. If we call ourselves children of God, then others are also children of God. If we do not share with them what little we have, then what right have we to call them our brothers? They may be traveling a few miles behind us, or they may be fast asleep. But they must reach the Goal before perfect perfection can dawn on earth." - Sri Chinmoy


"It's easy to have faith in yourself and have discipline when you're a winner, when you're number one. What you got to have is faith and discipline when you're not a winner."
- Vince Lombardi


"War will exist until that distant day when the conscientious objector enjoys the same reputation and prestige that the warrior does today." - John F. Kennedy



"Big jobs usually go to the men who prove their ability to outgrow small ones." - Theodore Roosevelt


"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy."
- Martin Luther King, Jr.


"The more significance you give the moment, the more the moment has the opportunity to be significant." - Author unknown


"To undertake a genuine spiritual path is not to avoid difficulty but is to learn the art of making mistakes wakefully, to bring to them the transformative power of our heart." - Jack Kornfield


"I don't want to be a product of my environment, I want the environment to be a product of me." - (Movie) The Departed


"Before success comes in any man's life, he's sure to meet with much temporary defeat and, perhaps some failures. When defeat overtakes a man, the easiest and the most logical thing to do is to quit. That's exactly what the majority of men do." - Napoleon Hill


"A man is not old until regrets take the place of dreams." - John Barrymore


"Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently." - Henry Ford


"As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them." - John F. Kennedy




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