Why is it so many are afraid to just talk? It won't hurt, might you learn something, you may just meet a friend. Always willing to have an intelligent conversation, so just stop and say hi.  

What do i look for in a girl: first compassion, she has to be a kind person;

secondly she has to get along with others to know that as a poly Master,

who has a live in girl.  I am not looking to replace her, anyone else must 

realize they are joining an existing relationship consisting of two individuals.

third compatibility i am an astrologer and know that certain signs are not going to mix

well and no i don't mean sun signs so if i ask about your birthday it is because

i want to my due diligence my research into your personality.

I will no longer accept that oh i think you would be a good master;

to often that means i want you for myself. 

Intelligence, do you read for pleasure, to enhance your knowledge,

to open your world views?  We do and if you don't get turned on

by a library with five bookcases full of books then you wont be turned on by us.

that being said if you think you are interested then come and talk to us, not just me.     

part two of "i am an asshole"

xtremeamerica x.a.

now we know he is not well educated

he sends my girl a message saying

make it more clean fuckhole???

what??? speak english dumbass

your penis isn't big enough to get in

more then an inch; what will you make clean?

and how??

now you all know why girls flee this site

this is a Dom?

xtremeamerica sees my girls picture

send her a pic of his teeny tiny penis

and says he would love to own her

of course she said Vana'she please

so i responded to the asshole read her profile

then you will know that

A. she is owned

B. her Master monitors her account

C. you will be exposed as an idiot

There are many out there who say, I am looking to be relocated.

I want a master to take me for the rest of my life.

In my opinion a 24/7 365 TPE relationship

is impossible with a submissive;  a submissive is allowed choices

in where and when she is submissive.

That is not 24/7 365, that is not TPE.  This makes girl a slave.

Ask yourself this, are you worth that investment?

Who determines that ? not a slave girl. not a submissive.

you may have beauty, you may have talents

what makes you think you are worth that investment ?

You want a Dom to prove himself; he wants a girl to prove herself.

A Master/Dominant who enters a 24/7 365 relationship

has to consider many things; is she suitable to me?

to my nature? Does she have life goals compatible with mine.

Am I willing to support this girl and provide for her

in the event of our relationship's dissolution.

Am I a worthy Master/ Dominant?

don't ask me, ask those who have served me;

there is where the truth lies.

any Dominant who will not/cannot refer a slave/submissive to

one of his priors for comment on the relationship

should be looked at in a harsher light

amazing, when i sought women i found none

when i let them seek me out,

i found two diamonds in the rough

one my slave, one my submissive

i have been viewed by both sexes,

by couples, by domme's and subs

am i that unique, my girls seem to think so 

what is going on in the world out there

i will be here watching and being myself

waiting patiently to see

the love of your submissive is a wonderful thing, to have two love you is amazing

i have been blessed with two beautiful women who love me and adore each other

everyone may not understand this or how it works and can be possible but it works for us

thank you my darlings

i am amused by the women on here,

but i will not seek any of them

zen and I have found a perfect  submissive to share our home 

welcome justine

another fail.

another oh i need can you give me money?

looks around for who ever is that stupid

you come here seeking a master when you are desparate is that it

do you not think i have standards

have you earned this just by saying "oh master i want to be yours"

please get real

there are soooo many scammers here it is unreal

and this younger generation with their need for instant gratification

learn patience, and maybe you will find what you truly seek

"I don't think there is anything particularly wrong in hitting a woman, though i don't recomend you do it the same way that  you hit a man."
Sean Connery

"Give me five minutes to talk away my ugly face, and I can bed the queen of France"

Voltaire

"I live for myself and  answer to nobody"

Steve Mcqueen

"A gentlemen is simply a patient wolf"

Lana Turner

"Men are beasts and even beasts don't behave as they do"

Brigitte Bardot

"Whenever I call upon a woman, I never fail to take with me a little whip."

Nietzsche

slave, definition:

a person who is the legal  property of another and is forced to obey them

a person who is the property of and wholly subject to another

a person who is entirely under the domination of some influence or person

one bound in servitude as the property a person or household

as a slave you do not make demands nor do you have choices,

what is so difficult to understand in that.

therefore, in BDSM it behooves you to know what your master is like

before choosing to enter slavery

if someone seeks me and i am not here they can find lordpeace2 on yahoo

50 shades  this trilogy is soft porn and not an instruction manual for BDSM.

It is poorly written,badly edited, and a bit of a travesty. (not only my opinion but shared by many submissives including my own)

To those submissives who think this is what they want then good luck.

It no more is the quintessential book on BDSM,

then is The Story of O; or the John Norman Gor series.

While books like these may interest you, and/or get you interested in the lifestyle;

don't let them be your only guides, or determine how you interact with others in the lifestyle.  BDSM has as much variation or more then vanilla life.

Who you are, what you need, and how you want to receive it;

determine your role in the lifestyle. Whether you want to be private or share with the community is up to you.  Whenever i see a profile that makes reference to 50 shades I cringe and hope that is not the only thing you have read.

Seek one of the sites written by Dominants and submissives and check their reading lists.

purchase some of these books and read them i myself am partial to Miss Abernathy's and to John Warren's books. There is a wealth of solid informative books on the lifestyle take the time to read some of them please.

Hmmm i need a slave slut/servant

what I offer

Dominance, yes; honesty, yes; structure, yes; discipline, yes;

caring, yes; stability, yes; training, yes; ownership, yes.

what you offer

Submission, yes; honesty, yes; respect,yes; attentiveness,yes;

obedience, yes; devotion, yes;caring, yes.

on the side,

devotion, could be; love, possibly; forever; remains to be seen.

The Sadist speaks to her

(he lies somewhere within my soul)

Yes,  I will make you cry,

so that i can lick your tears;

I adore the fact that you cry for me.

Yes, I will whip you till you bleed,

So I may suck your blood;

Wasn't it you who said you would bleed for me?

I will give you pain,

that will make you shriek enough;

But isn't this where you wanted me to start

I will tie you tight,

I will leave bruises on your skin;

and when they are faded, begin with you again.

I will love you til I die,

And I will never leave you;

But didn't I promise this too you too?

copyright@ Lordpeace 2011

A female Dominant? 23 new to the lifestyle and got interested by reading fifty shades.

really? My girl was hysterical when she read that. You know who you are and I hope you survive; because honey you will be eaten alive. I offer you some advice, and I am a creep?

I am not hitting on your skanky butt, just trying to save you some grief.

I modfied my profile because frankly it didn't say much about me as a person

so now it speak of me as a dominant and as a man  i may add more as i think about it

The question arose, "Who has it easier the Dominant or the submissive?"

First understand it is a relationship, even like a friendship it must be worked at.

And just as  in a vanilla relationship between lovers;

if it is to succeed both parties have to make an effort.

However (and you may assume my viewpoint is biased)

the Dominant has to work harder because he/she has to work ,

to be worthy of the submissive's  gift.

Again my viewpoint being a Dominant is biased that way:)

What a girl searches for is her business, and I always hope she finds what she needs. What I offer is my business and I know what I do.

Master's Rules

Some may find this a bit arrogant, to them I say; my girls are respectful,

knowledgeable, submissives and always a credit to their Master.

1. It is Master's will always.

    Girl has given her will over to Master and is bound to do as he says,

     without question. If girl doesn't understand something Master says,

     or a task he has given her; she is to ask for clarification;

     so that she may understand fully.

2. Master's interpretation of a girl's submission

    If  girl is not ready to give master total control over her behavior and body; she    

    should not submit.  While Master expects his girls to have their own minds 

    and think for themselves; it is in the context of their submission,

    again to Master's will.

3. there are three words that Master feels are essential to a loving D/s

    relationship and there is no compromise.

    Humility,  Master is for a girl's well being and growth, respect that;

    and humble yourself accordingly.

     Honesty, just as Master is honest with his girl he expects complete honesty

     from her. A lie of omission is still a lie. This is a lesson Maser learned the hard

     way; do not learn that way yourself.

     Trust, within trust is faith and belief in Master  and his teachings. Knowing he will

      always have he health and best interests at heart; even when he has to discipline 

       his girl.

4. Girl is to treat Master with the respect, love and adoration he deserves as her Master

     Failure to do so will result in punishment.

5. Girl is to treat Master's F/friends with the same respect she gives Master,

    This also applies to O/others in any room she may visit online.

     One never knows when Masters F/friends may be around and the chances are

     T/they will report any negative behavior to Master.

6. When given a task, or assignment, girl is to complete it by the deadline given by 

     Master.  If no deadline is given, girl is to complete it as quickly as possible. Master

     has allowed consideration for a girl's work and present family situation.

7. Girl is to make sure her words and actions show good behavior, as girl is a

    direct reflection on Master and his teachings.

8. Pay attention to everything Master says when teaching.

    Ask for clarification if needed and note anything girl needs for future reference

     as Master does not like repeating Himself.

9. Beg for Master's forgiveness for any wrongdoing she may have done either  

    intentional or not. In the event of punishment; accept it with grace and humility,

    and thank him for giving the punishment, as it was obviously needed.

a submissive doesn't understand sometimes how she capture's her Dom's heart

For me it's like a three week old kitten, so cute you can't help but adore it.

You know you have to train her and be a stern disciplinarian,

but understand that our job is sometimes not easy yet we have to do it.

awww damn she is so adorable lol

Understand my journal is going to be filled with thoughts,

i have had over the years as a Dominant.

They represent my views and thoughts;

but are not in any chronological order.

They are my own writings and represent me

I am who i am

I can't pretend to be someone else

I am a mix of compassionate sensitive poet

And the stern, yet loving Dominant.

this is who I am.

I am a lifestyler in the sense that a D/s relationship with me,

extends outside of the bedroom.

If this is not what a girl wants  I am no right for her

I expect a girl to communicate with me, as i will communicate with her.

Feelings are something that have to be discussed in this type of relationship;

I am not a mind reader, I do read body and emotions.

But, If a girl won't tell me what she wants and needs how can I provide it.?

I understand that this is not always easy

Yet I will always strive to help a girl; even if it means pushing her to speak.

Sometimes it causes confusion.

Some think a Dominant has to be cruel; that I am not.

Some think a poet has to be soft; that I am not.

Yes i will give a girl leeway ( a lot sometimes when in love)

this sometimes leads a girl to not speak her mind for fear of hurting the poet

Master can handle the pain.

Pain, even emotional pain can be handled and will eventually go away.

I have experienced  every kind of pain in my life; and know I will experience more.

This does not frighten me, even when it brings out my emotions.

I do not, will not, ever strike a girl out of anger or pain.

I have learned the hard way that,

If you expect truth;

you must always give truth.

If you want trust ,

you must give trust

If you want communication,

you must be willing to communciate

How do i explain my love for you?

By hooking my finger in the "D" ring of your collar; and kissing you deeply?

By holding you and seeing the light in your eyes, as you realize a girl is owned?

By knowing you love He who is your Master and loving you back?

By being there for you when you need me to be;

whether it is in good times or to tell a girl she has to behave.

Knowing you so well, that you sometimes don't have to ask a question for me to answer it.

Or binding your wrists  so that the kiss is that much more intense?

Or, is it as simple as saying "Te amo, mi amor"

I am sure I will be ostracized by some submissive's, for how I respond to them. However I do respond and i try to give you constructive criticism when i do.

Please read what I am saying and be intelligent enough to read between the lines

I well know what I require from my girl, how to present that to her.

on occasion someone has asked me why?

or commented that this is the 20th century

and my answer so? i am what i am i will not hide that

i believe in man's dominance over woman

i believe in woman's submission to her man

Let us be straight, this is not the bully beating the woman;

because he is drunk or insecure in his manhood.

This is the male exerting his natural Dominance over the female

The pact between the dominant male and the submissive female

it is the greatest gift; I, or any man has ever received,

a common choice between two consenting adults.

This gifting from the submissive to the Dominant

fulfills needs for both partners;

and leads to the most intense and satisfying relationships

I have ever known.