thelastcookie

Hi there,

I'd have to say I'm a complete newbie to this, at least in real life. But I've chatted with a lot of kinksters, and I know what I like, and my limits.

Chemistry, trust, and mutual attraction feel the most important to me..as long as those are in place, or built, I feel I could be happy being flexible and fluid in other areas of our exploration together...as far as limits and kinks go.

Hurt and comfort play. Good aftercare.

How I am as a sub also depends on our dynamic..and my mood;)

I do prefer to feel innocent and sweet, or bratty and feisty. Sometimes you'll catch me in a really 'slutty' mood. But that's only for my special someone <3

My main fetish is being SPANKED long and hard, and all the mental foreplay that comes along with it..

I love being mentally seduced and DOMINATED too..stuff like being told off, teased, dirty talk, threats and warnings are oh so hot to me. Feels like I can sink right into sub space by just the right words. I like a man who cares about me and shows it, but is in control.

Also love ass play. Being punished. Being Daddy's good girl. Being Daddy's bad girl ;)

I like age play, and I'd say I would pretty comfortably identify as a 'little' if the dynamic allows it...but I could also be happy being Daddy's big girl too. You don't have to be a Daddy Dom per se, but I do find it very sexy to call my Dom that.

I obviously could not do this with someone I didn't like, and this being so intimate and intense in nature for me, I'd prefer to play with someone who's looking for more than fwb. To fully feel free to let go and go there, is anything but casual to me.

I'm a private person.

I don't like sharing my man. But feelings can't be forced, we either develope them or don't. I'm picky. So maybe if you're fun and hot and sweet, we can just feel good together. Not impossible, but it's just rare that I can feel both that good and detached from a person at the same time. Someone OPEN to more is ideal.

Hard Limits: hardcore degradation, dehumanization, objectification, being spit on, choked, and being treated impersonally. I like my D/s dynamic to feel intense, bonding, personal, and deep...not impersonal, cold and mean, like I'm being used.

While I feel there's a little range in the type of Dom I could connect with, if I had to paint an ideal of what I'm looking for, I'd like to find a Dom who is respectful and respectable as a person. Preferably ages 20-45. LOCAL. You don't have to be a roman statue, but there needs to be mutual physical attraction. Physically in-tune with me, and hopefully mentally too. Someone sensual, sweet, affectionate, nurturing and loving, but with a firm, strict hand. Maybe can offer some guidance. Instructions are fun. Someone who can take me and my bratting and what nots in stride, meet me turn for turn, and won't crumble or hesitate to pull me over his knee for a sound spanking ;)