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About theLarzz
Ok, new photo, new me, new friends.......
Hopefully this one does not scare girls away....LOL
Life is short, live every day like it's your last. One day you will be right!
Hi, thanks for visiting. This is a work n progress and I will add to it on a regular basis.
I am an older, experienced, northern educated gentleman who has been in the lifestyle for 20 plus years. I am newly un-partnered and loving the single life. I would like to find a partner to play with, enjoy life with, and have fun with, not necessarily in that order.
I have been in Florida for the past 5 years and have the luxury of time on my side. I can travel for the right situation and love to go to kink events as often as possible. So far, the best are still in Fort Lauderdale.
In any event, I will go for now and be back shortly.
Ok, back again. Here goes
Ah yes, the profile essay. I remember back in the day when essay’s were the bane of my existence. They were difficult at best and down right impossible at times. And yet, we all survived.
I am Larzz. The “the” part made it easier to get an email, that’s it in a nutshell.
Moving right along. The vanilla me is an older (yep, approaching 62) northern educated gentleman. For most, the age things seems to be a stumbling block. I have not quite determined why that is, since it is a number, yet, for many, it is one of those things that they just cannot get past. They often forget that they are catching up each and every day. Regardless, it is what it is.
I grew up outside of Philadelphia, was raised a Christian, Catholic actually, and had a fairly normal childhood with the exception of an alcoholic mother. I presume many reading this may have horror stories of their own to share as I think it was much more pronounced in our homes back then than any of us would lead on. I know I was one of those kids who thought I was alone in the world living with a drunk. I also know that there are probably more drunks in our kink world than we could imagine.
Anyway, I only mention the Catholic part as it was good for the guilt emotion for a long long long time. Guilty as charged seemed to be the mantra for years. To make matters worse, my father died at 14 leaving me with a sister and a drunk mom. The sister abandoned ship 21 months later and here I am with the drunk mom. Oh well. Many many people have been dealt much worse cards than I.
I went to an all boys, private, Christian brother high school and learned more from these guys than any place else in my life. One of the mantras of high school was “Boys will be boys but LaSalle boys will always be gentlemen”. Absolutely holds true to this day. As the past love of my life used to say, Nice is free. Being a gentleman is also.
I went to college at Penn State U. Yep, got the priests and Gerry Sandusky as role models. Christ. Anyway, my mom died while I was a sophomore in school leaving me an orphan. I was one of the lucky ones as I had Godparents who cared and responded. Immediately. Also a role I take serious as a heart attack.
Moving along, I graduated, worked for a bit, and then started my string of businesses. I am an entrepreneur at heart. I got married at 28 with the sole intention of making a family. Funny how back then I was strictly looking for the best mom on the planet, not even paying attention to my particular kinks and needs, but that comes later.
I will state unequivocally that I was certainly not the best catch at the time given the baggage of my youth, but, we made it 33 years and raised two great kids. Life does go on.
My kink proclivities have seemingly been a part of my life forever, even at a young young age. I would assume that most people on this and similar sites have known about their particular persuasion for a long time, but never acted on it. I for one know that I loved seeing women in bondage by 6, and was tying girls up playing cowboys way back then. Unfortunately, like so many kinksters, I thought I was alone as well as strange.
As I approached marriage, this was not part of the deal. Silly me thought I could get over it. Like a zebra cannot get rid of its stripes, this never left me, which created a huge problem. I lived a double life for all of my married time. Not a fair thing, but a survival thing, in my opinion.
I will say I was very successful in business for the majority of my married life, right up till 9/11 happened. This was a day that changed my life and my perspective. As I watched the towers fall down right in front of me (sitting in a construction meeting in Manhattan facing the towers), that nagging voice that is in the back of our heads (yes folks, we all have one), I kept hearing “are you having any fun yet?”
Truth be told, while I was successful, making more money than I deserved, I was not happy. All the toys and trappings are great, but happiness and money are not necessarily related. Money is great to have. My philosophy has always been if you have it, spend it. Never saw a Brinks truck following a hearse. Also, as the new Pope has said, a shroud has no pockets.
Following 9/11 I was on a mission to ensure that I did not leave this world without experiencing the nectar of life. My father died at 54 and I was going to make damn sure that when that age happened to me, and I turned around and looked back, I would not be moaning I wish this and I wish that. If you are doing that today, you better change.
And so, a year or so after 9/11 I met a woman on an alternative web site and my world changed. We chatted for a while and ultimately met in person. That day, again, changed my life. I had met my soul mate. Wow. We spent an afternoon in a dungeon is kinky bliss. Bondage was the order of the day and we played for hours.
Fast forward to 10 years later and we are not we any longer. Sadly, that relationship ended for many reasons. I don’t think the reasons are important any longer and know that my life is better because of that relationship, just like my marriage.
I will state for the record here that I am not a sadist. I have met girls over the years who profess that they need to be beaten and bruised. If that is your proclivity, I am not the guy.
I find a girl who will endure discomfort during play incredibly sexy and satisfying. Nipple clamps, flogging, caning, and other forms of discomfort during a scene are incredible enhancers, but, to me, the kink is intense, delicious foreplay, even though it may last hours or even days.
I love to tie a girl up and do everything in my power and imagination to blow her mind. Forced orgasms are, again in my opinion, the best. Watching a girl struggle to stop the pleasure as she thrashes in tight bondage, biting down on a ball gag in her mouth, literally screaming with sensations that continue to wrack her body with synapse firing excitement is something that I enjoy tremendously.
I have also played with more dominant women than I can count. We have had remarkable sessions and, while I have not done so in years, I am also not afraid to admit that I have tried most everything over the years. That’s what happens as we age. Furthermore, I find it impossible to know how a submissive partner feels if you have not felt that way yourself. Maybe someday I will find someone who can explain that to me.
I love going to kink events, and while I find it fun to be unattached, I prefer to have a partner with me. I love bondage, harness gags and any kind of ball gag, public play, kinky attire, boots, high heels, corsets, and all the rest of the materials, clothing and accessories that go along with kink.
I find living in Florida gives all of us the best availability of these events and have been participating for over 10 years now.
I am not one for formalities, generally speaking although I have great respect for everyone who is in the lifestyle and is able to be honest with themselves and others about it. I also am not one for titles. I am certainly a jack of all trades, but when it comes to Mastering, that is a very special and specific relationship, in my mind. While I am confident, educated, and experienced, I am also caring, attentive, and understanding. I do not look at a girl who wants to submit in any way inferior to me in any way.
To me, kink is supposed to be fun, and fun is something that I am all about. I cannot deal with all the drama that seems to be permeating most people’s lives today. Which brings up the next topic – trust.
Getting one’s self into a situation in a kink relationship where you give yourself over to another, body, mind and soul demands an incredible amount of trust. I try to create that with my partner by always standing by the assertion that I will never do anything to them that I would not allow them to do to me. I doubt many of my brother dominants will make that statement. I personally think it separates those that get it from those that do not. Not all people work out with others. That is a fact. In the kink world, I think it is infinitely more complex when mixing proclivities of two or more people into the mix of life.
Not sure what else I can add to this at the moment. I’m sure over time I will come up with some new things as this needs to be a work in progress. Hopefully I can and will find a new soul mate that connects with me as my last partner did. Life is full of ups and downs and I try to keep mine on the up side always.
Larzz
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