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Pan Female Submissive, 29,  Kansas
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Dargo GHOSTRIDER2000 sweetye118 ThomasCrown11299 Knight7788

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Last Online:


 Submissive Female


 Willing to Relocate

 5' 3"






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Domme/Dom Couples

Friends Only

Online Romance

 Lives For:

 Musical Theater (Expert)

 Horseback Riding

 Collars (Expert)

 Leashes (Expert)

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay (Beginner)

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Show Tunes


 Movies (Expert)

 Renaissance Faires



 Breast Binding/Play (Expert)


 Chastity (Beginner)

 Corner Time (Beginner)

 Corsets (Expert)

 Knife Play (Beginner)

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control

 Role Playing

 Vibrators (Expert)

 Wax play


 Horror Movies (Expert)

 Puzzle Games

 Role Playing Games (Expert)



 Writing (Expert)

 Alternative Music

 Eighties Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 New Age Music

 Rock Music



 Amusement Parks (Beginner)

 Antique Shows

 Art Galleries (Beginner)

 Bar Hopping (Expert)


 Coffee Shops  (Expert)

 Fine Dining (Beginner)

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales


 SCA (Beginner)

 Travel (Beginner)

 Volunteerism (Expert)






 Anal Play (Expert)

 Canes and Crops

 Fire Play

 Gags (Beginner)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)


 Massage (Getting)

 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage (Beginner)

 Sensory Deprivation


 Speech Restrictions (Beginner)


 Theatrical Scenes (Beginner)


 Arcade Games (Beginner)

 Board Games


 Comedy Shows

 Cybering (Expert)


 Online Chatrooms

 Online RPGs (Expert)

 Science Fiction (Beginner)

 Simulation Games

 True Crime

 Web Surfing


 Body Art







 Goth Lifestyle

 Classical Music

 Country Music

 Electronica / EDM

 EMO Music

 Folk Music


 Industrial Music

 New Wave



 Pop Music

 Punk Rock Music





 Auto Racing



 Horse Racing


 Fishing (Beginner)



 Body Worship

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Serving as a Maid/Butler




 Card Games (Beginner)

 Historical Shows

 Romance Novels


 TV News




 Blue Grass

 Hip Hop Music


 Nineties Music



 Curious About:

 Beachcombing (Beginner)


 Opera (Beginner)



 Martial Arts


 Scuba Diving



 Wind Surfing


 Blindfolds (Beginner)

 Electrical Play (Beginner)

 Exhibitionism (Beginner)

 Eye Contact Restrictions (Beginner)

 Local BDSM Community (Beginner)

 Foot Worship (Beginner)


 Medical Play


 Needle Play


 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap

 Public Play


 Vacuum Stimulation

 Candle Making





 Soap Making



 1950s Household

 Gorean Lifestyle (Beginner)


 Victorian Household


 Kick Boxing


 Sky Diving




 Fisting (Beginner)

 Gas Masks (Beginner)


 Masks (Wearing)

 TV Sports

 Conservative Politics


 Liberal Politics

 Libertarian Politics

 Political Activism





 Seventies Music






 Ice Hockey




 Street Hockey






 Hoods (Beginner)


 Hard Limits:



 Computer Expert

In this fabulous world of Kink, i go by the name of kitty-cat. i have been interested inthe world of BDSM since long before i should have even known of its existence. i have studied this lifestyle for over 10 years, albeit most (but not all) of my experience is from on-line situations. i also have the opinion that no matter how much O/one knows or has experienced, there is always more to learn, explore, and experiment with. To me BDSM is so much more than just a physical aspect. It is a way of life, a thought process, and a way to just “be”.
When it comes to a simple explanation to “what are you” no matter the context, my answer is this: i am simply a person. A person with likes, loves, desires, needs, fears, dislikes and hates just like any other living person. What makes U/us all unique is what those are for each one of U/us.
i have known for a long time that i’m a submissive. One Dom i knew informed me that i was a true submissive. i look for approval with most things i do in the world: vanilla or kink. i have a large heart that looks to try to please E/everyone, and putting T/them above myself when the situation allows. i have no interest in being a switch or a Domme. However if S/someone is not truly Dominant i tend to turn the tables, and in such i do have the characteristics of sometimes being a brat sub, hence why i seek S/someone who can take a firm hand with me and not let me get my way all of the time. Take that for what it’s worth or not.
i have a lot of interests both in vanilla and BDSM parts of my life. In the BDSM world i have a lot of interests and i have strived to explore and at least read almost anything that i could get my hands on. i have even gone so far as to explore the Gorean world. And though i am not into Gorean, i feel it was something good to learn. The things i enjoy most are power exchange, bondage, servitude, role play, and rape play. There is more but to me it also would probably depend on W/who I was with while experiencing this, for it has been different with E/everyone i have been with thus far. i also enjoy having my limits pushed so even something's that i don't like, i would enjoy being pushed into doing.
For the vanilla part, i am a college student currently and i’m studying computer science. i have a love of computers, and Y/you could say i’m a bit of a geek. i also love animals. i have a wonderful border collie and two cats, and no matter W/who i might meet and decide to start a relationship with at some point, T/they must realize that those are no different than kids for me and they will be with me until time for them to cross the rainbow bridge. i also love to read, and enjoy writing stories. i also enjoy live theatre, and of course movies, and intellectual conversations.
i do not have many limits, for most things i feel O/one cannot say that T/they are against it if T/they haven’t experienced it. Things that i am uncomfortable with, i would like to work through that with my confidence level with my Dom after said Dom has collared me. However i do have a few hard limits. Those consist of kids, scat, and golden showers. i am not a fan of humiliation either, but sense that can have different definitions attached to it; i won’t put it as a hard limit.
Though i know i have already written a fair amount in this recently updated profile, i might as well put a bit more about myself in case S/someone has read this far. I’m a 5’3” red head, with EE breasts. i have 18 piercings, which includes both nipples, hood, and the Christina as well as other non-sexual piercings. i have 2 tattoo’s which are shown in my pictures. A Celtic sun and moon. i have a slightly gothic style, though that has toned down now that i’m no longer 21. i am rather shy, and can be insecure. i am also compassionate and defensive of my friends(i stand up for O/others far more than myself), for i do not like to see A/anyone suffering (that is of course unless that is what they are wanting! wink).
Now the million dollar question: “What is it that i am looking for”. i am looking for F/friends, C/companions, and possibly more. i am looking for S/someone who can teach more about this world and myself. S/someone who can cherish, protect, and love me. i am possibly looking for 24/7, but would be content as long as the hunger for this lifestyle was satisfied. i need S/someone who can provide a firm yet gentle hand and push my limits. i am looking S/someone who understands that submission is a gift, as well as understand what it means for a girl to place her life and chance for happiness in her Dom’s hands. i have seen profiles in the past that scoff when a girl says they are not a door mat. Well, sad to say, i’m not a mouse or a door mat, and that is because i do have feelings, i do have desires, and just like i wish to satisfy and please my Dom, i feel that it’s the Dom’s responsibility to meet the submissive’s needs as well (even if those needs aren’t what she thinks she needs). At this point in my life, i know for the most part what it is that i want and what i don’t want, but i also choose to have those lines done in gray instead of black and white. If i close all the doors, something worthwhile has the chance to just pass right on by.
What i know i am not looking for is S/someone who only wants a girl just so they can use and throw aside until next time T/they need a fuck. i probably have spent too much time with my nose in a book but i’d like to say i have something of a decent intelligence and so i like to use my mind... i am self-sufficient, and am striving for a decent career in the computer world. So i am not looking for S/someone just so T/they can pay my bills and i do nothing but leach off of T/them, nor am i looking to take care of A/anyone as a financial relationship (i have to say that cause to me it seems like that’s what some P/people expect!).
i do have an age limit, though again i won’t set it in black in white because a lot of it has to do with how the P/person is. i know some P/people who are 20 and act 50 and vice versa. And of course there is no age limit involved with friendship and/or a relationship based on learning. i also in time could be willing to relocate, but that would not happen right away. It takes time to get to know if P/people are right for each O/other, and everything i know is here, however i have no desire to stay where i am at either.
i have probably bored Y/you enough with my now fairly long profile, but how can S/someone decide if i am someone worth knowing if T/they do not know anything about me? If anything else is desired to be known, ask, and i’ll answer to the best of my ability. >^.,.^<

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