In this fabulous world of Kink, i go by the name of kitty-cat. i have been interested inthe world of BDSM since long before i should have even known of its existence. i have studied this lifestyle for over 10 years, albeit most (but not all) of my experience is from on-line situations. i also have the opinion that no matter how much O/one knows or has experienced, there is always more to learn, explore, and experiment with. To me BDSM is so much more than just a physical aspect. It is a way of life, a thought process, and a way to just “be”.
When it comes to a simple explanation to “what are you” no matter the context, my answer is this: i am simply a person. A person with likes, loves, desires, needs, fears, dislikes and hates just like any other living person. What makes U/us all unique is what those are for each one of U/us.
i have known for a long time that i’m a submissive. One Dom i knew informed me that i was a true submissive. i look for approval with most things i do in the world: vanilla or kink. i have a large heart that looks to try to please E/everyone, and putting T/them above myself when the situation allows. i have no interest in being a switch or a Domme. However if S/someone is not truly Dominant i tend to turn the tables, and in such i do have the characteristics of sometimes being a brat sub, hence why i seek S/someone who can take a firm hand with me and not let me get my way all of the time. Take that for what it’s worth or not.
i have a lot of interests both in vanilla and BDSM parts of my life. In the BDSM world i have a lot of interests and i have strived to explore and at least read almost anything that i could get my hands on. i have even gone so far as to explore the Gorean world. And though i am not into Gorean, i feel it was something good to learn. The things i enjoy most are power exchange, bondage, servitude, role play, and rape play. There is more but to me it also would probably depend on W/who I was with while experiencing this, for it has been different with E/everyone i have been with thus far. i also enjoy having my limits pushed so even something's that i don't like, i would enjoy being pushed into doing.
For the vanilla part, i am a college student currently and i’m studying computer science. i have a love of computers, and Y/you could say i’m a bit of a geek. i also love animals. i have a wonderful border collie and two cats, and no matter W/who i might meet and decide to start a relationship with at some point, T/they must realize that those are no different than kids for me and they will be with me until time for them to cross the rainbow bridge. i also love to read, and enjoy writing stories. i also enjoy live theatre, and of course movies, and intellectual conversations.
i do not have many limits, for most things i feel O/one cannot say that T/they are against it if T/they haven’t experienced it. Things that i am uncomfortable with, i would like to work through that with my confidence level with my Dom after said Dom has collared me. However i do have a few hard limits. Those consist of kids, scat, and golden showers. i am not a fan of humiliation either, but sense that can have different definitions attached to it; i won’t put it as a hard limit.
Though i know i have already written a fair amount in this recently updated profile, i might as well put a bit more about myself in case S/someone has read this far. I’m a 5’3” red head, with EE breasts. i have 18 piercings, which includes both nipples, hood, and the Christina as well as other non-sexual piercings. i have 2 tattoo’s which are shown in my pictures. A Celtic sun and moon. i have a slightly gothic style, though that has toned down now that i’m no longer 21. i am rather shy, and can be insecure. i am also compassionate and defensive of my friends(i stand up for O/others far more than myself), for i do not like to see A/anyone suffering (that is of course unless that is what they are wanting! wink).
Now the million dollar question: “What is it that i am looking for”. i am looking for F/friends, C/companions, and possibly more. i am looking for S/someone who can teach more about this world and myself. S/someone who can cherish, protect, and love me. i am possibly looking for 24/7, but would be content as long as the hunger for this lifestyle was satisfied. i need S/someone who can provide a firm yet gentle hand and push my limits. i am looking S/someone who understands that submission is a gift, as well as understand what it means for a girl to place her life and chance for happiness in her Dom’s hands. i have seen profiles in the past that scoff when a girl says they are not a door mat. Well, sad to say, i’m not a mouse or a door mat, and that is because i do have feelings, i do have desires, and just like i wish to satisfy and please my Dom, i feel that it’s the Dom’s responsibility to meet the submissive’s needs as well (even if those needs aren’t what she thinks she needs). At this point in my life, i know for the most part what it is that i want and what i don’t want, but i also choose to have those lines done in gray instead of black and white. If i close all the doors, something worthwhile has the chance to just pass right on by.
What i know i am not looking for is S/someone who only wants a girl just so they can use and throw aside until next time T/they need a fuck. i probably have spent too much time with my nose in a book but i’d like to say i have something of a decent intelligence and so i like to use my mind... i am self-sufficient, and am striving for a decent career in the computer world. So i am not looking for S/someone just so T/they can pay my bills and i do nothing but leach off of T/them, nor am i looking to take care of A/anyone as a financial relationship (i have to say that cause to me it seems like that’s what some P/people expect!).
i do have an age limit, though again i won’t set it in black in white because a lot of it has to do with how the P/person is. i know some P/people who are 20 and act 50 and vice versa. And of course there is no age limit involved with friendship and/or a relationship based on learning. i also in time could be willing to relocate, but that would not happen right away. It takes time to get to know if P/people are right for each O/other, and everything i know is here, however i have no desire to stay where i am at either.
i have probably bored Y/you enough with my now fairly long profile, but how can S/someone decide if i am someone worth knowing if T/they do not know anything about me? If anything else is desired to be known, ask, and i’ll answer to the best of my ability. >^.,.^<