i have always thought that anyone can whip, flog, cane or hurt others and call themselves a dom but very few can pull off being a good daddy dom. why? bc being a daddy dom is a longer game. a bigger investment. it takes a while to get to that special dynamic but once there, there is nothing like it. whether you think you can call me a daddy or not, as long as you like someone who is sweet, caring, mentoring, nurturing, tactile and affectionate, we should talk.
if i email you, please write back. if you are not interested, let me know. it happens and i can handle it. because chances are that if i like your profile, i will email you again. you never know if someone is just overwhelmed or something else.
i am sweet most of the time but not always. i do love to s p a n k. i am a strict disciplinarian and punish mostly to correct behavior. i will hold you accountable for all your actions. if you like structure, training, guidance and discipline, that is a great start. if you like to be in charge in your vanilla life yet you wish to turn your mind and brain off when with your man, that is even better. i love smart women who have their act together and if you do not, i will help you....but i expect progress and improvement. the bottom line is that my ideal sub is someone who thinks of herself as a pet or a lil girl, who loves to adore and be adored by her daddy or master.
i am a different type of dom. happy, sensual, romantic, thoughtful and passionate. i am also strong, strict, stern, demanding and fair. i am polite and respectful to a fault but i am always in charge and i like things a certain way. i do not shout or bark orders to prove anything. i am big on communication and trust. if you are able to relay your thoughts, desires and limits, they will always be taken into account. we will not play till trust is established and i am patient and willing to train. my interests run from mild to wild. from tender age-play to serious total power exchange. i am interested in what makes you tick and i will do my best to make it happen. we do not have to like and engage in all our listed activities. we just need enough commonality to keep this interesting and eshingly kinky. i love slapping, s p a n k i n g and otk. i give and expect a lot. i will give you support, structure, comfort, direction and guidance. i will expect commitment, dedication and loyalty. i have a lot of interests and i love life. i am a very positive person and i never take myself or the lifestyle too seriously. it is all about the journey. i am real and looking for a special person. i hope you are too.
personal faves
healthy and clutter-free living, nyc, nyt, dc, wash post, npr, mtp, 60minutes, the knicks (great season tickets), the us tennis open (arthur ashe passes every year), music (used to dj and i have amazing playlists), broadway, the local library, world affairs, ethnic food, movies, truffaut, almodovar, clint eastwood, netflix, google maps, google news, trader joe, costco, france, the mediterranean, hammocks, lazy mornings, good conversation, good company and great service.
if you like basketball, it will be a big plus. i have knicks season tickets.
not sure why it is that i have been listening so much to older r & b. love the groove.
i cannot get all of me out of my head. love the tiesto version.
i cannot stand shy, tentative and indecisive people.
i love charles bradley.
what a story. a singer toiling in anonymity all his life who finally gets his first album out at 62. and all he wants is to move out of the projects in bushwick.
Thank you for the message and it's nice to get an email from someone who is showing interest in me.. I don't come on this site much because i am busy and i have been on this site for 3 months but nothing serious. I'm in South African right now and i will be back to the state before Christmas.My late father visit South Africa 20 years ago for business.. So when he was going back to Germany.. He found 50,000 acres of land at cheaper rate and he bought it.. His plan was to sell it in near future to make good profit.. Now that he has died.. I want to sell the land and use the money to set up hotel and restaurant business in the STATE... So if you are interested in getting to know me more before i come back to the state, here is my email lisaweisner@yahoo.com and you can also add me on yahoo messenger.. Hope to hear from you soon
i love making a woman who has never been with a daddy dom and who swears that she will never call me daddy or go braless in public do those very things.
every woman has an inner lil girl busting to get out and wanting to be protected, cherished and adored.
saw a stupid movie on showtime this week that has a strong element of bdsm, after fall, winter.
great communication skills and etiquette are paramount.
i've seen amazing chemistry and dynamic lose out to horrible communication abilities.
watching the girl with the dragon tattoo trilogy, swedish version, for the second time.
love it.
if you cannot talk on the phone and meet within 7-14 days from first contact, you are not for me. frankly, i don't have the patience nor the desire to get too invested before that first face to face test.
i love darude for high energy trance music, james brown for funk and soul, and bruce for down home rock but nothing moves me like some good ol' blues.
nothing says fake profile like the ones that have a first and last name in the handle. it's just funny.
after a serious emotional and physical uncluttering and cleansing, it feels great to start a new year with a clean slate.
that santacon was a blast saturday night.
going to see my beloved lakers play my slightly less than equally beloved knicks tonight.
go lakers.
wait. go knicks.
scratch that. the lakers need a win.
forget it. the knicks need to stay on top in the east.
go knicks. i think.
i love movies.
i want to see argo again. and so many others that i have already enjoyed.
anybody going to the u.s. tennis open this thursday?
i will be there all day.
not sure why i love Pink and blow me one last kiss so much.
maybe it's the attitude and confidence.
wait, i just realized. it's a female rocker thing.
jeremy renner rocks.
how many makeup artists and musicians can do kick-ass action like he does?
wow.
you should see this 6-minute trailer of a new tom hanks movie coming out in oct.
being consistent and having good communication skills is so fundamental to me.
i don't care if you consider yourself the best sub in the world. if you cannot relay your thoughts to me at all times, and if you are not reliable, i am not interested. bc it will not work.
i've said it before but it's worth repeating on this day.
this is my life philosophy.
every day is thanksgiving day.
every day is valentine's day.
every day is mother's day.
and every day is father's day.
wow. i've just watched the road we've traveled by davis guggenheim.
check it out.
my birthday is coming up and all i want is a good lil girl. or a bad one. i'll take care of the rest.
"reasonable people adapt themselves to the world. unreasonable people attempt to adapt the world to themselves. all progress, therefore, depends on unreasonable people." george bernard shaw
i always thought of myself as a reasonable person. now, i know better.
love working out. could not do it without pandora and the elliptical.
love lil girls who are big in all the good places.
i'm cute, and i know it.
adele,
i love your voice.
go knicks...
if you like foreign movies, it's a big plus.
just watched tell no one and enjoyed it the second time as much as the first.
what a movie.
my ideal sub is:
a lil girl/pet
smart
sweet
communicative
a decent nba fan or at least enjoys going to games
the first 2 qualities are musts and the others are wants.
if you have all 5, pls contact me. i will be your rock, anchor, center and your biggest fan.
can't wait for the nba season to start.
i will be at the first home game against the celtics on national tv.
watched 2 movies in bed today...a sofia coppola followed by a woody allen movie. love to take it easy and have a lazy sunday.
i saw duran duran at the garden last night. i was most impressed by the look of the lower level after the renovation. cannot wait for the whole place to be done and those sky bridges are going to be awesome.
siri is smart and funny but i would trade everything for a sweet lil girl.
love being a daddy dom.
i love working out, building up a sweat and leading a healthy lifestyle.
it's amazing how much difference a pre-workout glass of 1% milk and some good music make.
hello cm, missed me?
i was gone for a month. for a sub.
i am back and looking to meet a special one. smart, confident and kinky.
some people here absolutely crack me up. come on, folks. REALLY!?!
you want me to write you an essay or a long message before responding? will that make you feel special?
keep it simple. if i approach you, it's an invitation for you to check out my profile. it has everything you need to know about me. i should not have to repeat it in an individualized email. we still have to meet in person to check for that elusive physical chemistry. so let's not go overboard with all that pre-meeting stuff if it could all be for naught. now, if we meet and hit it off, we can take our time getting to know one another. more sensible, non?
i cannot stand stupid people...
i LOVE the blues.
R.I.P., pinetop perkins. thank you for the sweet music.
wow...
i just took a 2 week hiatus from cm.
nothing ever changes here.
take some good music, add good food, good conversation and a good sub....and it all adds up to a lot of good.
on some days, i just love good rap...
jay-z is awesome. pitbull cracks me up. but eminem rules.
rihanna is doing in music for s and m what tarantino did in movies.
thank you, guys.
btw, i love them both but i prefer the bardot to the birkin version...original always wins.
i have always liked rihanna and her s and m video is hilarious.
i wanted to but could not make it to the party last night.
this will give you an idea about me.
every day is thanksgiving day.
every day is valentine's day.
every day is mother's day.
and every day is father's day.
also, if you cannot get into it, get out of it. and if you cannot get out of it, get into it.
if you are looking for someone to be everything for you, we should talk.
i love to be your anchor, your rock, your friend, your lover, your coach, your mentor, your trainer, your confidant, your cheerleader and your biggest fan.
if you make the effort, i will take care of the rest.
is it just me or is anyone else equally annoyed by the local members collarme notifications that won't stop no matter how many times you unsubscribe?
the Seven Romantic Virtues:
Wisdom
Pride (self-confidence)
Magnanimity
Passion/Sensuality
Enterprise/Self-reliance
Chivalry/Grace
Gallantry/Charm
i have enough of #1, 3, 6 and way too much of #2, 4, 5 and 7.
i love a girl who can drum...like the cutie with the neon trees. or one who can fix a car...because i can't.
i also love anna kendrick, laura linney and julianne moore.
i am not usually very patient...except when i need to be.
tonight, i hope hate loses.
i hope prejudice loses.
and i hope tolerance wins.
ouch...the game was just cancelled due to asbestos debris on the court..
going to see the knicks play the magic tuesday night.
love the nba.
usher is really cool...jay-z too...and let's not forget justin t...but it's also cool to be me.
i LOVE npr...and tissues with lotion.
here's my d/s philosophy at its most basic.
i take care of you. you obey.
it's simple. it's clear. it works.
i don't understand why so many so-called subs are on this site when all that they are really looking for is a vanilla bf who might be into a little kink.
i am a real dominant and will not apologize for it. i know what i like. i know what i want. i will go for it. i will try to make it happen. i like to be in control. i like to know what is going on. i like to take care of you. i will give you all that you need. i will make your life simpler and easier. you will love it.
why do they call it common sense when we all know that it's not very common, especially around here?
i am very verbal and a conversationalist.
it's sad how many wonderful people i meet who are smart and interesting but who cannot put a few words together to articulate their thoughts. it's frustrating and i end up giving up.
i have been to nba finals and all star games, various nfl games and plenty of other sports events...being at a penn state football game with 100k people today is an experience i will not forget anytime soon.
woody allen should do a movie about the women of cm who don't know what they want and the doms who love them.
my pet peeve of the day: endless emailers.
in my experiences here, most women are just as clueless as men when it comes to communicating.
if you are smart enough to think it, you should be able to relay it. and the more delicate the subject matter, the more important it is to share your thoughts.
just want to say...despite all the bs here, i love collarme. yes, it is the best out there.
on some days, when the sky is just the right shade of blue, there is nothing funnier than collarme. the profiles, the chats...the excuses.
why is it when you ask people from cm where they live, they give you the name of their county? it's annoying. when it could be 100 miles from one end to the other. and if i don't live in your state, i have no idea where those counties are.
i am often asked why i am so impatient. i am not in a hurry to play...just for a first meeting.
it's spring and i love the kink in the air.
i love to help, guide, train, mentor and mold but also protect and care for my sub.
ok...here's the deal...d/s to me at its most basic.
i take care of you in more ways than you know...and you do what you are told. and trust me, you will love it. i will free you from all the shackles in your life.
there are 2 french movies in the city i want to see.
i saw "from paris with love" last night. it's by one of the most interesting french directors around.
john travolta is so funny.
ayyy...so many without a clue.
please be real.
i saw 3 great movies this week...vicky cristina barcelona, no country for old men (again) and by far the sweetest movie in a long time, the band's visit, a first effort by a promising director.
i am a stickler for good spelling, punctuality and keeping your promises. and of course, good manners.
