thejourneymaker

Male Submissive, 23, nw chicago burbs, Illinois

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To all of you young submissive ladies out there i would share some thoughts that may change your life or enlighten you to what you feel and why its so hard to feel fulfilled even when you have given yourself to a man and serve him well. Before I start I know some of you who call yourself master may read this and i know you are going to want to tell me how wrong i am. Stop and think...if you're offended.....Why Now back to you precious young ladies out there who need these words. Imagine you are walking down the road and at the end of the street there are two houses with fenced yards, and in each yard there is a dog. One very very small, and one very very big. Which one is making the most noise? Yes, the little one. Ever thought why The little dog needs to make a lot of noise to be noticed. He need to use what ever he has within him to gain your respect or more to the point your fear, because who he is alone is not enough to command your respect and he walks around in a world struggling to be taken seriously. The big dog on the other hand doesn't need to make any noise at all. He knows that you know, he is something to be respected. He doesn't need to make himself big and powerful.......because he is. In your life i am sure you have met men who by their presence alone make you want to please and serve them. You seek their approval and attention, and you want to be seen, and respected by these men. Their natural command of personality, confidence, the way people respect and listen to them draws you in and you feel safe when you know they are in charge. In truth the submissive is really seeking that. Approval, affection, to serve one who appreciates them, to feel safe and loved in a very confusing world. These men are the big dogs of the world, the natural masters if you would. To the young submissive they seem so out of reach, so flawless and not at all in need of what they have to give yet so capable of filling the needs within them. Speaking as one of those men i must tell you you are wrong. But first let me go on and it may become clear to you. Many many women who do not see themselves as submissive go from one abusive relationship to another. They are attracted to men who put them down, hurt them, belittle,degrade them,and seek to make them small through crushing their will and hope. These women are in fact submissive and don't know it, much in the way men like this call themselves masters, in this world of ours, who in fact are not. These are the little dogs. They call themselves masters but in truth they are insecure angry men who need to make everything around them small so they can feel big. Make you wrong so they can feel right, and make you fear them so they can feel respected. Respect is not fear, its admiration. The submissive has a need to give, to gain approval through service, and to please. She also though has the need to be loved, protected, and appreciated. To put someone into service to take these things from them and not give back what is needed by them. That is not a Master sub relationship at all....that is simply abuse. I the real realm of the master and submissive no one takes anything from the other, they in fact both give of themselves to make the other whole. The submissive gives the most precious Gift she can, her obedience, her love and her desire to please to a man who she calls master there by bestowing on him the honor and trust that we all seek in our lives. He cares for this gift with honor and gives to her the freedom to be fulfilled in her service to him, the safety of his command, the appreciation of her service, and together they are both made whole. You see in the end, they both have wholes in their spirits. Both have the need to give. The master the need to care for one who is fragile and the sub the need to be cared for. It is the most intimate of things.

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