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Male Submissive, 34, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
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Male Dominant, 34
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Male Dominant, 39, Sheffield
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About TheHomeDespot
*Disclaimer* I am in a poly relationship with my girlfriend, who is my submissive and my slave. We live together in an amazing 24/7 relationship. If you are not ok with this, please, move on. While she is bi, when I am finding playmates, I am NOT looking for playmates to share. We prefer to find those together when we seek them. As such, while you may meet her as a friend, you will likely not meet her if we are actively playing that day (i.e. you and I get together to play, my gf will not be there, will not take part, etc...). Yes we have shared play partners together, both as threesomes or as separate couples, but no, we are not looking for this.
*Notice* All photos within this profile were taken by me or of me. Any ropework shown within these photos was done by me. You do not have permission to use these images elsewhere without my direct permission. Thank you.
Alright, disclaimer out of the way, good afternoon. I am a white male in my mid thirties with dom/top/master tendancies (varies based on the playmate as to the specifics). I have been active in the lifestyle off and on since before I was 18 (do the math). The last few years however I have lived it much more consistently, a large part of that being due to locations I've lived as well as mu current relationship.
Other personal information you might find handy, I am a medical professional and possess a college degree plus a real world education. I've spent much of my adult life travelling, and have finally (at least for now) settled in Seattle (since April 2011). I am a geek, a gamer, a hiker, a writer, dog owner, a social drinker, a wanna-be guitarist (I suck, horribly suck... if you teach, it would be a big plus!) and so much more I can't squeeze into a few short lines.
Kinkwise, I have a very broad range of interests, many varying based on my play partner. Bondage, crops, floggers, electrical play and consensual non-consent are my biggest kinks, but I am always exploring and have a wide variety of things that I have done and would gladly do again. I have very few hard limits (seems like the usual ones - animals, children, body wastes and illegal activities), and if you have something in mind that I haven't mentioned... I'd likely be willing to give it a try.
I identify as straight, but lately I have become a bit more orally bi-curious. For me, a woman would have to be in the mix for this. The thought of a guy alone, just doesn't do it for me. I would love to find a couple with which to explore this... it could be a more vanilla type or kinky with me in charge.
Hopefully this is enough information to get you interested... talk to you soon.
BTW, I do have many more pictures available once you contact me. Thanks! |
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Just an aside... just because I send you a note or because you send me one, does NOT mean I am going to pay you for anything. Not for 'services', travel, gas, or anything like that. I don't care how beautiful, submissive, sexual, whatever you are! My profile is listed as male and single... not STUPID!
Thank you :) |
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Alright! Flagstaff is getting better. Found myself a nice little playmate and a pleasant way to stay warm these late nights.
I don't suppose anyone could suggest any toystores in Flag/Sedona/VV that might carry a little more than Sweet Nothings could you? |
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Wow, what an interesting few months. A whirlwind tour of the west coast, spending time in Pismo Beach and San Fran, and now somewhat settled in Flagstaff until the spring thaws (April). All this moving makes it tough to keep up with things. I am looking for play partners though, even though I'm not finding much luck beyond the vanilla here. If you are interested, lets talk! |
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Well, my time in Seattle is coming to a close. Thank you to all that I have met in the city, it has been a blast. If I find my way back I will have to catch up with many of you. In the meantime, I have now accepted my next position which is just a few hours away, across the mountains in Spokane. Hopefully I'll have as much fun there. I'll be there starting next weekend until the middle of May, oddly enough ending my assignment on my birthday (ended this one on valentines day.. what a coincidence) |
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Several months in the city now, and I am still loving Seattle. If I was looking to settle in a location, this has moved towards the top of my list. It feels like home, and I don't think I've ever had someplace feel like home to me before.
Of course I know it's not meant to be yet, life is still out there, lots to do, lots to see. But I will enjoy every second of Seattle... and hopefully I'll get lucky and enjoy some nights soon with something warmer then my heater in bed with me..
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I am now in Seattle! just got into my new place in South Lake Union on Saturday, and so far I love the way the city looks and feels. I'm off to do some wandering, but feel free to drop me a line if you want to talk. |
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I am an amateur photographer and love to take pics of people specifically. If you are in need of this, for this site or otherwise, drop me a line. As they are digital, they cost me nothing but the time it takes to see you. I prefer working with women and couples, and while allowing me to 'join in' is appreciated, it is not required by any means.
(yes this is what I typed at the end of my profile, just putting it here so you it's easier to find) |
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