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theGrimReaper

Male Dominant, 37, Asheville Area, North Carolina
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About theGrimReaper

Searching Again

SIngle Dom Male looking to find that special someone.
Im looking for someone who is willing to be real and not a player. also someone who is wiling to grow within a relationship and willing to share my interests and be open and honest

Vacation time yaahhh, now to find someone to spend it with

Well its been more than a year since my last entry here and i decided not to activly search here anymore due to the lack of serious replies.

I have come to the conclusion that for the most part this is a player's site and most here aren't truly looking for a relationship and i am not someone who is not a player myself nor do I do one night stands.

 

But my decision also comes from that i have grown accustomed to being single and unnatached. now i'm not closing the door forever on the possibility of starting a relationship with someone, just not going to go chasing something that just isn't happening here

Just came home to fine that my new slave had decided not to be faithful and moved out just leaving a note and her collar behind.

looks like she wasnt real after all
Wondering where the real people are.

going through my messages i noticed a lot of the fakes that contacted me are a bit on the light side. i somehow doubt your going to be real weighing it at only around 50-55 Lbs

(most of these i beleive to be spam anyways and mostly from overseas)

but yet others who i have sent hellos to i noticed have 'deleted unread' marked on them and these ones claim they want friendship/conservation first but pine away when they dont get it? and then complain about not finding someone that matches what they are looking for when they delete unread messages. you may never know what you have passed up.
ok i want to clarify a couple things,


1, just because i dont have any experience listed in my profile dosnt mean i lack it, i had recently been critized but someone on this site that had never had any contact with me claim that i lacked it and was informed by another he convinced of this who only had contact through a few email promises to chat.
Don't Judge someones experience or lack of it because they dont list it, i dont list it because its a secondary concern


2, its trust in a relationship that most important, not experience or technique,. wthout the trust its best not to play. If someone feels they need a chaparone during a play session then i feel that they failed to build a trust and therefore put play first.


3, communication is also important if you want to have a chance to build on trust in a partner. Without that your just leaving a partner hanging. in short if planing to end a relationship, or if you decide you dont have interest in someone you promised to get to know, Tell them and do it yourself.


ive recently had the experience to encounter some on here that apparently dont beleive in the above, 2 of which i now see for the players they are
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