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Hetero Male Dominant, 31,  Loudon, Tennessee
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I am a Dominant in Knoxville, TN. I have a lovely submissive but am still looking for kinky friends to chat with So to make is clear I'm only stay on here to make new friends with in the bdsm community
I enjoy many aspects of play, But what I love most is creating my own toys as you can see from my pictures 90 of the toys I have, I have made myself with love in my heart fire in my soul and with my own two hands.

My door is always open to those willing to learn, Be it about how to make toys or anything within the lifestyle in general if you have any questions simply message me.

One thing I do not do is online domination or anything of the like so dont bother asking











Last Online:


 Dominant Male



 5' 8"

 215 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Flea Markets (Expert)

 Garage Sales (Expert)


 Objectification (Expert)


 Amusement Parks (Beginner)


 Movies (Expert)

 Begging (Expert)

 Cane / Crop Discipline

 Collars (Expert)

 Corsets (Beginner)

 Local BDSM Community (Beginner)

 Public Exhibition (Beginner)

 Being Massaged (Expert)


 Gas Masks (Beginner)

 Hoods (Expert)

 Masks (Wearing) (Expert)

 Mental Bondage

 Munches (Beginner)

 Orgasm Control

 Outdoor Bondage (Beginner)

 Pantyhose Fetish (Expert)

 Plastic Wrap Bondage (Beginner)

 Sensory Deprivation

 Shibari  (Beginner)


 Stockings (Expert)

 Strap-Ons (Beginner)

 Suspension Bondage

 Vacuum Stimulation (Beginner)

 Vibrators (Expert)

 Wax Play (Expert)

 Whips (Beginner)



 Goth Lifestyle (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Antique Shows

 Art Galleries (Beginner)

 Museums (Beginner)

 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires



 Anal Play

 Blindfolds (Expert)

 Breast Play (Beginner)


 Chastity (Beginner)

 Corner Time

 Crossdressing (Beginner)

 Dilation (Beginner)

 Electrical Play (Beginner)

 Fisting (Beginner)

 Hair Pulling

 Housework Service (Beginner)


 Masks on Partner

 Massage (Giving) (Beginner)

 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Speech Restrictions (Beginner)

 Theatrical Scenes

 Tickling (Beginner)

 Uniforms (Beginner)




 Intellectual Discourse





 Curious About:


 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining

 Going to the Opera



 Body Worship (Beginner)

 Enemas (Beginner)

 Eye Contact Restrictions (Beginner)

 Domestic Service (Beginner)

 Erotic Hypnosis (Beginner)

 Fire Play

 Foot Worship

 Humiliation / Degradation

 Knife Play

 Medical Play (Beginner)

 Needle Play

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play  (Beginner)

 Role Playing (Beginner)

 Rubber Fetish (Beginner)





 Conservative Politics

 Liberal Politics




 Hard Limits:

 Maid / Butler Service

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Journal Entries:
11/13/2017 9:10:43 PM
Trying to get into your heart not do your pants Why is it so hard to find a submissive on this site you know it's not like there's a shortage of people on here Answer the point where every time I get a new messages either from a scammer or robot When someone messages you I'd rather not get a wallet text personally the way you break the ice is with a simple hello how was your day or how are you doing can you open up something called dialogue with a person get to know them On this site that's all I've ever done I believe in netiquette I don't start a message off by saying trucks your fucking knees and start sucking it's too rude And I have replied this in the past due if the person had something I was not looking for I would reply with a simple no thank you but thank you for taking the time out to write me a message All I want is someone to share my life with someone who I share interest with and they share interests with me someone who as a couple as a dominant and submissive who can grow together But why must you be so hard I mean it's not like I'm a chud anything I've been told by many people I'm handsome The things I make are amazing I know protocol like the back of my hand But all of it it's pointless without someone to share it with

8/3/2016 9:12:33 AM
my dream

what i want most in life is to be free odd to say here but its true, the way i want to achieve this is by making my own toys at least as a part time or side job

to have a large home with lots of land with no one for miles around so if i wish i could walk out side naked as the day i was born

but i want to build this with a good submissive by my side she help me build and act as my model for toys

toys made with love toys made for bdsm by two people who love bdsm

there are times i do get a little down i look at the toys i made just hanging on the wall
collecting dust waiting to be used  to make someone feel good

but then i steel my resolve to find that someone who will stand by my side
who show me love who will love me as deep as i love them who will see me for who i am scars and all

2/14/2016 8:46:42 AM
Why I wear the ring Its not a wedding band or a simple piece of jewelry it's a promise to myself into my future submissive I am a DOM one cannot just simply call himself a DOM or a master it takes work it takes patience it takes time I worked very hard to become a DOM and someday I like to be called master The ring's on my finger every day It is a physical reminder my goal

5/30/2015 2:37:32 PM
another year gone

today is my b day and i am 28

today was good all but one moment when i had to deal with a asshole at work but all good

here is to another year maybe i will find someone with in the time

5/24/2015 5:56:38 AM
another boring day at work its not hard from my mind to drift into bdsm fantasy thinking what this or that co worker would look like in nothing but a hog tie and a nice big cock shoved in to there holes then i snap out of it and go back to work but oh the thought is always there in the back of my mind

5/20/2015 3:57:26 PM
i am in a rut
work home work home work home ect ect
i need something to brake this

9/9/2011 5:06:40 PM

ok  i i want to start this off saying this

if you want to get to know me talk to me send my a message i am always happy to meet someone new but if your shy or overly Cautious (given how some fokes are now a days that isn't necessary a bad this ) 

so i am using my journal to let you get to know more about me as a person as a Dom

and more


i have a dark since of humor that reflects not only in my personality but in my bdsm life as well other then that i am a sweet guy but i am a fair dom but i am a sadist so yeah i can be very fun


i love to make my own toys and i am very adapt at pervrtable  heheh

they way i describe my sexuality i am in flux male and female it really doesn't matter

meat is meat wither it has a penis or tits attached what matter is whats in side

the outside should be as clay  malleable from its base into the shape one desires  until it is a work of art


well that's all for now

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