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Male Dominant, 36, BC
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Male Switch, 33, Chicago, Illinois
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Male Dominant, 40, Beach, Virginia
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About thefireinme
Hi, i'm a northerner transplanted to Tennessee because of being in a relationship with my longtime ex, a soldier based at Ft Campbell here.
I was introduced to BDSM by an officer I became friends with here. We had an on again off again relationship for more than two years that was very intense and taught me so much.
For now I am not seeing him. I am staying here because of work but considering moving back to Ohio too.
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OK, I think I need to be honest. After just being here a day, I already know this was where I needed to come and I am already feeling connected and as if I am heading toward the place I need to be...owned and controlled by someone who understands all my dark twists and turns.
So I don't want to hide my bad parts.
1. I have been diagnosed as having bipolar disorder and perhaps PTSD. The latter and maybe both could come from childhood abuse i suffered way too young. But i have a god doctor and have been in therapy again and it helps and i am getting very good at paying attention to my health and mind and knowing when to back down and watch myself and keep from going over edges.
2. I no longer do any drugs other than what is subscribed to me. I do drink but try to stay in moderation. I will smoke weed if it's around, I dont buy it for myself. If I go out partying i make sure to have a friend with me so i dont get out of control. I do smoke cigarettes but very moderately nd lightly unless i'm partying or feeling very anxious. I do want to quit and will when i have someone helping me/guiding me/controlling me.
3. My parents are no longer alive. I dont want to talk a lot about that.
4. Yes I prefer older people, i don't analyze it deeply. It is my comfort zone and I feel more relaxed and myself and find I dont relate as well sexually with those in my age group.
5. I am not shy. So there, i want to be clear especially to someone I care about a lot. |
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