TheeBigBadWolf


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	About TheeBigBadWolf I am a Dominant male from Tampa Bay, and active in the community. I am currently taking a lil break from throwing parties. But rest assured, I ll be back next year to throw the biggest party this town has ever seen. For the time being, I am working on my photography, my websites, and movie production. One thing I like to say right off is I am a real time person, and not into this cyber domination. I do get a kick out of the profiles where one says they are collared by another, and they have never met, and live hundreds of miles apart. Come on... how fulfilling is that really? I am looking for submissives obviously. I am an Alpha Male. I do not demand your respect, as I will earn it by my actions. Trust and honesty are far more important than anything else. Without it there is nothing. Also interested in the friendship of other Dominants. So basically anyone who is looking for friendship only. There are a few things about the BDSM scene that bothers me. One are Doms and Dommes who really do not know what it is all about. Typically you have doms who believe that beating a woman, abusing her, and degrading her spirit is BDSM. No, that is what is called abuse. Then you have Dommes who are man haters and take their frustrations out on men. That also is called abussive. There are a lot of weak people out there who will subcome to this kind of abuse. They think that is right, therefore don't know better, or just deal with it silently. Finally, this is prevelant in females, and that is the financial Domme. She is only in this for one thing, and that is financial gain. Take away the money, and she is no longer interested. Call it what you want, but that is prostitution. These are the kinds of people that give the BDSM scene a bad name. It gives the real pro dommes a bad name. You gotta love what you do. I know I sure do. The Dom/Sub relationship is a special one, and therefore intended for a special person. My belief is the Dom is there to look after, and protect the sub. The sub in turn makes sure that the dom is taken care of and his needs are met. The two working together, create a common balance and harmony, making for a great relationship. It is a give/give relationship. Both offer something the other desires, and gives freely. Give/Take relationships never last long. One cannot always give while the other only takes. It is like at work, your co-worker does nothing, while you do all the work. They recieve credit for the job getting done, but do they deserve it? No! They may be able to run a smoke screen for a while, but they are always discovered and cut loose. What do I look for in a sub? She is one that is beautiful throughout. What I mean by that is that her personality is that without approach. She is confident in herself. She dresses well and carries herself in such a manner. One of my fetishes is clothes, so I would expect her to always dress her best when we are out in public. I love to shop and buy her clothes and dress her up extremely sexxxy. I do not believe in double standards, so therefore you won't see me dressed in public anything less. Being dominant does not mean that you are not affectionate. As much as I enjoy bondage and other things, I also relish the times spent cuddled together. Romantic evenings with all the bells and whistles. Do not mistake my kindness and generosity as a weakness. This is something someone has to work at daily, and anything you have to work at, is not a weakness. It is the strength that I feel seperates me from others. If there is anything else you would like to know, feel free to ask.

Up Coming Events

Friday Feb. 8 at Flirt Night Club.. Fetish Party featuring my Bondage ViXXXens.

March 29- April 1-- Exxxotica Miami Beach-- Also featuring the Bondage ViXXXens live on stage with hundreds of porn stars.

Friday April 13th-? The Tampa Erotic Ball

The Craziness of Life.. I am back now, as I had a journey to undertake.? A journey of self awareness.? I kind of lost my mind towards the end of last year, and took that to realize what was important in my life.? Now having realized that, I am so much better off now and the happiest I have been in a long time.? All my hopes and dreams are becoming a reality fast.? Doesn't pay to give up hope!

SCORE ONE FOR THE BDSM SCENE VS PORN INDUSTRY

This past weekend... Myself and my Bondage ViXXXens had the honor of being the first fetish group to perform at the Nightmoves Adult Entertainment Awards Show and Caravan of Stars. Even though the DJ screwed up and cut our set in half.... We put on a fabulous show that blew them away. It was baffling to see the porn stars running downstairs and rushing the stage with their cameras to take pictures of us. I was told countless times that we put on the best show of the weekend.

We are gaining ground in acceptance of the mainstream world and opening people's eyes into our world. Slowly breaking the bounds that have us stereotyped by the media and Hollywood as a bunch of people with emotional issues or childhood trauma. I was approached by many porn stars saying that it was amazing and how they want to get into the fetish world.

Together, we all are doing great things for our lifestyle that we love so dearly. I am loving every minute of it. Sometimes it is extremely hard work, but very much worth the effort.

ATTN: Pro-Dommes
To whom are living in Florida, primarily the Central Florida area. I am starting a Pro-Domme referal service/website. Seeings how I have gotten god knows how many emails of people looking for good ones, I figured I might as well.

Now there won't be any cost to you for this. I just have to know that you are a real Domme, and not some cheezy ass hooker with a whip. You have to have your own play space, or access to play space. Have your own equipment other than a riding crop and a ball gag.

This service is for people who are looking for real Dommes, and is completely professional. And shall remain that way.

So what is next for me?

Well, It is hard to say. But I would like to start a munch of sorts. But not like your typical munch. Those are very VERY boring....... I would really like to start one to where we don't go to a diner or sports bar and just sit around and eat and make small talk for a hour or two. I am thinking more of real outtings. Such as Busch Gardens, Bar B Q's etc. But also include some workshops. Ones where those who are new to the scene can feel welcomed and unintimdated. Where they can learn and grow in a proper enviroment..... Everyone has something to offer. Those who have been in the lifestyle for years can share what they have learned with the new comers. Fuel some new lifeblood into the scene. Even novices have something to teach those of us who have been around for awhile. And we all can learn and grow from each other.........

This town has been forever divided. And that has to change if we all are to grow as a community.

I am stuptified by this website. One thing I cannot understand, nor probably ever will. How in the world can one say that they belong to someone, are collared by someone when they have never met them?

I think that the term "Collared" has become used and abused so bad that it doesn't have any meaning any longer. To me that term is a sign of commitment and dedication to another. Not a term to be used loosely by someone you have never met.

Then there are the ones that say they are moving clear across the country to be with their new Master is at times shocking too.

But the most stuptifying is the ones on here saying they are "allowed" to create a profile to find sister slaves. Or that my Master reads all my emails. That shows lil trust on the Master's level. I would never demand to read my sub/slave's emails. If she volunteered, I still don't think that I would. Just for the simple fact that is a violation of the trust factor. If I collar a lady, that is the ultimate sign of trust.

I hear quite often that Dom/Dommes come on here(mostly Doms) and start calling the woman names, demanding rediculous things. Just cause you can be an ass doesn't make you Dominant.

Ok. I am done... I have lots more to say but I think I hit the main points.

I just read one of the most profound profiles I have ever come across. It is ByteMeOk. I would suggest everyone read what she has to say. She has a lot to say and it is powerful.

She touches on so many subjects about the lifestyle and nails it right on the head.

Don't take my word for it.. Go read it now!!

I haven't written anything in here in a lil while. Just been slammed busy with several projects at once. Number one being my up and coming Bondage ViXXXens website.

Im here at Fetish Con now, just taking a lil break. It hasn't even officially started yet, and already I need a break!!

Ahhh the new year. I love that it is has started off so grand and full of hope. I will be moving this week and have a great new roommate. She is a gorgeous, blonde Dominatrix. You can count on us having a few get togethers at our house. You know, Bar B Q's, some fun in the dungeon, etc.

This is a year full of hard work that is going to pay off. I am looking forward to throwing some really great parties and putting on some very unique shows. Next up, the Tampa Erotic Ball tampaeroticball.com on Feb 17th. I am very much looking forward to watching RubberDoll do her thing. That is one extremely gorgeous and extreme woman.

My website bondagevixxxens.com should be up and running in a couple weeks. After that I am looking forward to the opening of my clothing store.

Big things abound for this year. I look forward to getting to know so many this year. I wish everyone a very blessed and happy New Year.

This subject has come up in many emails, so I thought I would write about it. It seems that there are a lot of Doms and Dommes that really have no clue what domination is all about. To which there are a lot of submissives on here who are new to the scene. It is a travesty when these two get together. For one, an inexperienced Dom/Domme can seriously hurt a sub. Sometimes physical damage is not as bad as psychological damage.

Yes, there are some who derive their pleasure from pain. But everyone has their limits and need to be respected. Some tips I would like to provide would be
* Upon starting a new relationship, much conversation is crucial. Find out what makes the other person happy and what their pleasures are.
* Find out what their hard limits are respect them.
* When playing for the first time, establish safety words. Never should during new play, should the sub be gagged. I don't care if you think you are an experienced dominant or not.
* When you have reached the level of gagging, one should establish safety signals.

Basic social ettiquitte
* Respect- this goes for all situations
* Don't touch the property of another without permission.
* Property includes a dominant's property. To some Dominants, they do not like for other Dom/Dommes to converse with their sub. Me personally, I usually do not have a problem with this. Some do. I know where my sub is going later.
* When someone is in a scene, do not disturb them. This is one of my biggest pet peves. do not go talk to or try to involve yourself in it without being invited. More than taking control of her body, I want her mind free and clear and focused on me and what I am doing. Like I said, this is probably my biggest pet peve.

As you can see, in a social enviroment, and in your personal life, the most important thing is respect. Respect is something that has to be earned by your actions. Just because you are a dominant, it never gives you a right to disrespect anyone at any time.

Most of all, play safe and have fun.

Some fetish party info:

Saturday Sept 17 Mimi and Heather's Fetish Party at the Brass Mug located on Fletcher Ave.

Sunday Sept 25. Sodom and Gomorrah's Repentance Fetish party at Tanga Rays. Tanga Rays is located on Nebraska Ave. just South of Bird Street/Waters Ave. Just a side note.. the front door will be locked and the outside sign will be off. This is to ward off any riff raft and make this a private party. There is an entrance in the rear. This is not a strict dress code event, so wear whatever you like, or don't wear anything at all. This is a very relaxed atmosphere perfect for those who are new to the scene and would like to learn more. There are 2 for 1 drink specials all night long, and cover is only 5.00. Doors open at 8 and goes until whenever.

Sodom and Gomorrah Fetish is putting together the 2nd Annual Spanksgiving Fetish Ball. This will be on either November 19th or 20th. Some of the biggest names in the fetish industry will be performing at this event. More info will be posted shortly.

I am currently looking for a few more fetish models. I have had several requests for a variety of different types of women.

Also, anyone interested in doing movies, let me know. In the very near future movie production will begin. I am getting full distributership. These movies will be everything from mild fantasy fulfillment to hardcore s/m. If you are interested in doing this, your limits will be respected and placed accordingly.

my website is sandgfetish com

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