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| New in FL and looking for new friends. Just moved from Europe to the southern FL area! Will work from my house so are flexible and open for sugestions...where is a good place for a drink or 2?
After some time away from here, I'm now single and back! So, lets start to describe me. Well, I'm a very open-minded person who is looking for a female or couple for fun and hopefully something more if the chemistry is right! If the chemistry is not there, maybe just likeminded friends!? Would like to get to know new friends to eg. visit openminded clubs/parties with, etc.
I like to try everything once…maybe twice, just to make sure! Just out of 2 long D/s relationships and are looking what this site could give me! Like to travel and travels arcross New in FL and looking for new friends. Just moved from Europe to the southern FL area! Will work from my house so are flexible and open for sugestions...where is a good place for a drink or 2?
After some time away from here, I'm now single and back! So, lets start to describe me. Well, I'm a very open-minded person who is looking for a female or couple for fun and hopefully something more if the chemistry is right! If the chemistry is not there, maybe just likeminded friends!? Would like to get to know new friends to eg. visit openminded clubs/parties with, etc.
I like to try everything once…maybe twice, just to make sure! Just out of 2 long D/s relationships and are looking what this site could give me! Like to travel and travels arcross the states + Europe/Asia for business, so maybe just visit a club?
I'm looking for both beginners and more experienced kinksters! Have done many things, from soft play/roleplay to more hardcore. Have had sub/slave girlfriends before and even a sub couple. Like group fun and is also something that is interesting to me + have some experience with it! So mail me so we can start to know each other......... the states + Europe/Asia for business, so maybe just visit a club?
I'm looking for both beginners and more experienced kinksters! Have done many things, from soft play/roleplay to more hardcore. Have had sub/slave girlfriends before and even a sub couple. Like group fun and is also something that is interesting to me + have some experience with it! So mail me so we can start to know each other.........
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9 levels of submission
1. The outright non-submissive masochist or Kinky Sensualist
Not into servitude, humiliation or giving up control; just pain and/or spiced-up sensuality, on the masochist's own terms and for the masochist's own direct pleasure (i.e. turned on solely/_toply by one's own bodily sensations rather than by being "used" to gratify one's partner's sadism).
2. Pseudo-submissive non-slave
Not into even playing "slave," but into other "submissive" role-playing, e.g. schoolteacher scenes, infantilism, "forced" transvestitism. Usually into humiliation, but NOT into servitude, even in play. Dictates the scene to a large degree.
3. Pseudo-submissive play slave
Likes to play at being a slave; likes to feel subservient; may in some cases like to feel one is being "used" to gratify partner's sadism; may even really serve the dominant in some ways, but only on the "slave's" own terms. Dictates the scene to a large degree; often fetishistic (e.g. foot worshippers).
4. True submissive non-slave
Really gives up control (only temporarily and within agreed-upon limits), but gets her/his _top satisfaction from aspects of submission other than serving or being used by the dominant. Usually turned on by suspense, vulnerability, and/or giving up responsibility. Doesn't dictate the scene except in very general terms, but still seek _toply her/his own direct/ pleasure (rather than getting one's pleasure _toply from pleasing the dominant).
5. True submissive play slave
Really gives up control (though only temporarily; only during brief "scenes" and within limits) and gets _top satisfaction from serving/being used by dominant-but only for FUN purposes, usually erotic. May/may not be into pain. If so, is turned on by pain indirectly, i.e. enjoys being the object of one's partner's sadism, on which the submissive places very few requirements or restrictions.
6. Uncommitted short-term but more than play semi-slave
Really gives up control (usually within limits); wants to serve and be used by the dominant; wants to provide practical/non erotic as well as fun/erotic services; but only when the "slave" is in the mood. May even act as a full- time slave for, say, several days at a time, but is free to quit at any time (or at the end of the agreed upon several days). May or may not have long-term relationship with one's Mistress, but, either way, the "slave" has the final say over when she will serve.
7. Part-Time consensual - but real slave
Has an ongoing commitment to an owner/slave relationship and regards oneself as the dominant's property at all times. Wants to obey and please dom(me) in all aspects of life-practical/non erotic and fun/erotic. Devotes most of time to other commitments (e.g. job) but Dom(me) has first pick of the slave's free time.
8. Full-Time live-in consensual slave
Within no more than a few broad limits/requirements, the slave regards herself/himself as existing solely for the Dom(me)'s pleasure/well being. Slave in turn expects to be regarded as a prized possession. Not much different from the situation of the traditional housewife, except that within the S/M world the slave's position is more likely to be fully consensual, especially of the slave is male. Within the S/M world, a full time "slave" arrangement is entered into with an explicit awareness of the magnitude carefully, with more awareness of the magnitude of power that is being given up, and hence is usually entered into much more carefully, with more awareness of the possible dangers, and with much clearer and more specific agreements than usually precede the traditional marriage.
9. Consensual Total Slave with NO Limits
A common fantasy ideal which probably doesn't exist in real life (except in authoritarian religious cults and other situations where the "consent" is induced by brainwashing and/or social or economic pressures, and hence isn't fully consensual). A few S/M purists will insist that you aren't really a slave unless you're willing to do absolutely anything for your Dom(me), with no limits at all. I've met a few people who claimed to be no-limit slaves, but in all cases I have reason to doubt the claim.
Which are you, if any?
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| Age: 21 |
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