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Male Dominant, 38, London
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Male Switch, 25, London
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Male Dominant, 44, Edinburgh
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About thedifference
My entire life I have had an affinity for the best. I like nice homes, cars, and clothes. If I need a new suit, I swear I will walk into the store,without looking at the prices, and choose the most expensive one. I am good at picking out quality and stubborn when holding out for it. What I will hold out for the most is an amazing woman. Sure you can buy one (not literally), but the best aren't for sale.
When it comes to BDSM, I compare it to science fiction movies. I love a good SciFi, but a bad one is unbearably terrible. I can't do over the top and corny. If I am going to enjoy something, then I have to be able to take it serious. If I am not enjoying it, then I won't be motivated to perform. I have pride, anything less than true excellence is unacceptable.
So, I really am a switch. Mainly I am dominant. I am sure you can tell I like things a certain way. When I am in control, I make it happen. Doesn't matter your experience, I know how to run a scene. I kind of like virgins to this, I can train them the right way.
And the submissive side. I get great satisfaction out of pleasuring a deserving Mistress. She must truly impress me and command that side of me. This does require experience, intelligence, sexiness, and most definitely confidence. When I am Dom, I can control the entire feel of the situation. I can't do that if I am not in control, so I need someone that I can share a dynamic chemistry with.
My view on this type of activity is the same as I view all pleasure, it is good in moderation. It is ironic how being out of control is easy and yet this entire lifestyle revolves around control. Many people say that they need this, that is half true with me. My life does not revolve around this. But the longer you go without something you want, the more you crave it. I don't know if I could completely do without, but I know I don't want to.
SUBMISSIVES
I believe a Dom has to earn submission. I like a challenge and the feeling that I have conquered something. Similar to climbing a mountain, putting alot of work into it and then finally getting to the top.
To be a good Dom you have to be in control from start to finish. And you can't just take control, you have to demand it. It has to be an aura that permeates the air. In the end I don't want to dominate but inspire submission.
My ultimate fantasy is to take a weak Domina and convince her to submit. Ironically, my hope is that I fail. It would be then that I knew I met my match.
Above all else, I love to dream. The day I stop is the day I die. |
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