TheDalesman

Well this is written in a moment of re, the world and the BDSM scene I guess.

As in life the scene is full of some great people whether Dom or sub BUT unfortunately it is also full of the Politicians who only pursue life in the scene for their own selfish ends sometimes leaving a trail of damaged emotions behind. There are also the wannabes who pose as something they are not to trap the newbee's and unsuspecting. 

I have met some remarkable people during my interactions with the scene - I have also been manipulated emotionally and then been accused of being the perpetrator rather than the victim.  One can only pursue ones hopes based on the situation as one sees it and eventually like trying to cross a dessert without sufficient water or supplies, one looks at the situation rationally and turns back to safety.

There are those who keep in contact and then there are the cowards who walk away and spread rumour and gossip without having the courage to discuss their issues with the person they have issues with "face to face" so to speak.

Whether you are sub/Dom/Switch or Slave - be true to yourself at all times and then give any partner the respect they deserve. Well thats the Musing over - I am available to chat to those want some life experience passed on. To those who may think they know me read the words above and I will always respond if you wish to contact me.

Getting older and wiser and pretty fed up with the wannabee and wasters who seem to pray on the Scene whether in the UK or elsewhere. I am now just being a mentor to those who want to take the scene seriously and want so sensible advice based on both BDSM and Life experience.