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Male Switch, 47, huntington, West Virginia
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Switch Couple, 45, Lancaster, Pennsylvania
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About TheCommander74
Let’s start with the non-kink side of things. I am a renaissance man. A jack of all trades and master of… well, a few. My interests are varied. I like woodworking, welding, and shooting. At the same time I enjoy games (card, board, and video), am quite a cinephile, and am a huge football fan. I read classic Sci-Fi, and alternate history novels, as well as modern classics. I have a lust for learning and enjoy taking classes/lessons for things that I haven’t completely grasped an understanding of yet.
I am a caregiver by nature, an engineer by profession, and a smartass by choice. I believe in taking care of those I hold dear, not because they can’t take care of themselves, but because it brings me joy. I am a gentile caring person that cannot bear to watch those ASPCA commercials with the abused animals because it just tears my heart to shreds. At the same time, I have been referred to as a sick, twisted, sadistic sonuvabitch. I have been granted the title "Fluffy" by some other dominants in the community. That brought my sadistic little heart so much glee.
I want a relationship with somebody who is smart and clever. Somebody that will mentally challenge me and keep me on my toes. A partner and lover first and foremost that can be my match outside of the bedroom, and my dirty little slut inside of it. I am an ENTJ personality type, thus “The Commander,” and am used to leading.
I don't generally like to take things from other pages, but this really does hit the nail on the head for me entirely too well...
"I was a life long bondage and BDSM enthusiast...A very sincere type of fetishist, I was self binding in elementary school and tying up my freaked out girlfriends in high school...I like to think of myself mostly as a helplessness fetishist...whether being tied up myself or tying up women, I enjoy the predicament that bondage itself creates...
My attraction to bondage can be summed up by the ole damsel in distress, tied to the railroad tracks theme...fear and a helplessness to be free from it, peril, worry, struggling...and resignment...Pain and pleasure never came into the equation until later...the original turn on for me was the fragile state of helplessness..."
~ John the Ogre |
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