TheBlackKnight

Greetings Everyone and thank you for reading my profile.

I would start by stating I think it’s fair to tell you I am submissive however I have yet to fully embrace my submission with another. I do not prefer to be a Dom however due to programming from society, the army, and former lovers I do have that outright tendency. It is my hope to someday meet someone who can help me leave my former ways and become a true submissive.

I am a masculine male, just a regular guy type. I am medically retired from the military and now a full time student. I am stable and secure and I can handle my life just fine. I am also a member of the CSPC though not a regular I do enjoy going if I have someone to share the time. I live in Tacoma although I have my own way around and don’t mind traveling.

I have made a few attempts at jumping into the lifestyle that have not been very promising so right now I am easing back and evaluating my approach. Right now I am looking for friends, mentors or others who are willing to try to connect and see what happens from there. My goal is to have a long term relationship with a Dominant Lady/Couple or Poly Family.

Submission is a spiritual thing for me and something I don’t take lightly. I do recognize that I need training. I do not have a picture in my head of who the perfect Domme is for me. I do not have any sort of demands of what a person must be to make me happy. I do need someone who can accept me for me and maybe help me change the things that need changing instead of trying to make me feel bad for being a man. Honor, integrity and loyalty are very important to me, I live by somewhat of a modern adaptation of the old Knights Code.

I am Bi-sexual and have a very open mind. I try not to have too many limits, but everyone does so I will say I am willing to explore limits with the right person. I am also interested in Poly relationships although I have only had exposure to this once in my life and it was from the outside. I am an honest and loving person who tries to think outside the box often.

It is very hard to sum up everything I am and everything I have the potential to be in one of these neat little boxes. I see many on here complaining about fakes and asking "where are all the real subs?" I could ask the same question "where are the real Dommes?" Both sound absurd as though there is some Calibrated Standard agianst which either are measured.Reality depends on many factors I think first and foremost many should ask themselves "Are my expectations realistic?" That seems to be something that hasn't occured to most of the populace here at CM. I am as real as I can be and I have few expectations,but if you want real then you have to accept that all men have a certain amount of expectations. I am realistic with myself as well: "If I look like a Ford then I should never expect to drive a Ferrari." Another realism that seems to have escaped many here. I would ask that everyone stop asking for "real" and be real with oneself, If you can that which you seek could come much easier.

One part of my code I shall leave you with: "Always speak the truth even if it shall lead to your Death".....Its something I came across years ago and its my number one. If honesty is what you seek, that would be me. If I dont fit your blueprint for the perfect Sub you have in your mind,just click right on by and deal with lies. Men and women in our culture by nature are liars. It takes effort and self discipline to speak the truth.