thebeatnik

It is a bit of a cliché but most people say I am different. Actually I am more different than they realize. This is not pride talking, more like a painful truth.

I come across often as extroverted but like most people am vulnerable inside. I am a university academic and use mathematical/computer model to simulate situation of interest (animals, people …). I am an atheist who strongly defends the absolute (and perhaps God given) right to believe. I believe that belief is the only way humans understand the little that they understand.

I love life, people, animals, the sea and the land…. (I do not know if that is everything)

I love women as a whole and some in particular. I like to spank women who enjoy it. I have dominated women (straight and gay) at organized BDMS parties using bondage ropes and floggers etc. with a sensual mood rather than sexual. I can also be sexually turned on by spanking and it can be a complete fully clothed sexual experience for me.

Unfortunately (for some), I am married with kids. My wife is completely vanilla but is aware of my “other” orientation. I attend a BDMS group once a month and organized parties with her full knowledge. I am looking for BDMS relationships where I am straight dominate and/or friendship but with NO other components.

Hope this helps

Cheers