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TheAnax

ABOUT ME:
Greetings from a strong, domninant, honorable, confident, and masculine man who has no fear of commitment! I am heteroromantic and I’m a horror/sci-fi/fantasy game dev, artist, and author living my dream in every way but for someone to love, so I’m on a quest for my female life partner to share cozy nights and a deep connection. I am already living a happy life and want a woman that adds to this.

I am an old school, traditional, kind of man, and chivalry is not dead so long as I live. I feel my purpose is to bring stability into a woman's life, make her feel protected and cherished. I want to be her safe space. I want to be the man who she comes home to- to get away from the stress of the world, and know that so long as I can wrap my arms around her- she’ll never be alone again. I want to take the stress of life away. Car breaks? I fix it. Plumbing messed up? I'm on it. Need a hug? I've got you, always. I problem solve. I’m fiscally independent, emotionally intelligent, and loyal to a fault (never cheated, never will).

I am on the spectrum, so I find comfort in structure and smaller, meaningful circles (my fan base keeps me company!). I am more of a homebody, occasionally going out for dinner or a movie- not a bar or party guy. I’m also a paranormal enthusiast- ghost hunting, anyone? I am mindful and do everything with intent. Bonus points if you’re a night owl too- I’m rarely up before noon! I tried to give a few different pics. I'm down about 35lbs. I do go to the gym Mon - Fri and ride a bike with my dog! I am a big, strapping, healthy guy, and often people think I am still in my 30's, which goes to my head lol

WHAT I DO:
I literally create video games and visual novels for a living (think horror/sci-fi/fantasy) and I LOVE doing it. It's not even work when one wakes every day and just follows their passion to create! I worked very hard to get to this point in my life, and look forward to doing it until the day that I die. I have a huge love for 80s culture and I like to stream movies, tv shows, cartoons, and even commercials from when I was growing up.


I'm from Texas and lived in NYC, St. Louis, and now Utah, and I am definitely ready to settle down! I have had a couple Master/slave relationships, my longest relationship has been 12 years. I have very specific views on men and women. Men are, on average, more oriented toward detached, systemizing, and logical cognition, whereas women are, on average, more oriented toward empathic, relational, and emotionally responsive cognition. I see man as the “head,” oriented toward order and provision; woman as “heart,” oriented toward nurture and relational cohesion. Together we make a whole completeness. I am definitely also demisexual- I cannot have sex unless intimately tied to an emotional love and bond with a woman. So I am NOT here for hookups.

WHAT I AM SEEKING:
I want a woman that understands that the male leads and the female follows. An emotionally mature woman that understands compromise, because I do. I want to love and be loved, I require reciprocity and I will take nothing less. I want a woman that has asked, "Where are all the good men?" so I can be the reason that she stops asking. As a masculine man, I need a woman that can listen to what I say without being offended, and will respect me and my boundaries. A woman that sees me as her teammate and not as an enemy. A homebody woman, not a party girl, who knows the difference between a comfortable routine and being bored. A lady that wants a solid, loving relationship for life. Someone who wants to settle down.

For me, your profession, college degrees, and wealth- while wonderful that you have achieved these things- have absolutely no effect in regards to me being attracted to you. Whether you have several degrees and are a CEO or if you have a GED and work in fast food, I would date you. So, don't hesitate to message me, regardless of life circumstances. Your professional achievements are no reflection on your personal relationships. I care more about the type of person that you are. I have maids clean my house and I cook for myself, so I am not looking for a housewife (though I'd take one lol), however, I'm definitely looking for a woman who embraces a feminine, warm, and nurturing nature- someone who values harmony, loyalty, honesty, and a relationship where the man leads and she feels safe following. I need submissive. The more submissive, the more attractive and the more I will go out of my way to provide for and protect you.

I'm interested in courting you- taking things slowly, planning thoughtful dates (even if LDR), and building a connection over time. I am not looking for any immediate expectations of commitment. But many ladies are "looking for friends" or casual sex, and I am not here for platonic friendships or hookups- I am exploring a potential romantic partnership with intention.