thealchemist

Firstly, so as to not waste anyone's time unnecessarily, I would like to say that I am interested in making an online connection. If that's not for you, I completely understand, and I won't trouble you to read any further.

Okay, if you're still reading this, I'm going to assume you're open to the possibility of an online connection. I'm looking for a thoughtful and intelligent submissive to chat with, and possible train. I enjoy someone with a good sense of humor who knows not to take life too seriously. My interests in BDSM are in the intellectual and psychological aspects of it. Unlike many, I do not view BDSM as a way to take advantage of or abuse a woman, nor do I think that submission is an immediate expectation. Submission is earned through respect and trust, not by someone claiming they should own you. A BDSM relationship should be first and foremost a friendship and an understanding of mutual interest within a BDSM context.

The things that turn me off are dishonest, disloyal people, and selfish people. I also dislike people who do nothing but play head games.

For myself, BDSM is an exploration of my partner, but also an exploration of myself. Once cannot achieve enlightenment of any sort without first knowing one's self. If you happen to be interested in more than just the appearance of BDSM, then I would be pleased to chat with you. So, if any of this is your cup of tea, feel free to contact me and let's chat!