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About ThayerNYC
I'm looking for submissive women who have an insatiable urge to be trained. I am a dominant, white male - tall, athletic, first class educated and supremely gifted in training and molding women across the D/s spectrum. I have been a Dom for over 10 years and have an endless appetite for all types of submissives. The one trait I seek in all my partners is that desperate, unquenchable urge to give up control. I welcome all ages and body types. As long as you are comfortable with your own image and are willing to admit your true desires then we can have a truly amazing set of experiences together.
First timer? No problem. I love taking a girl through her paces for the first time and watching her slowly transform from a curious yet eager partner into a fully broken submissive who opens herself up to her true urges.
Experienced? We shall see just how skilled you are :) Every submissive has their breaking point and we will find yours together.
D/s is about the mental connection between Dom and sub. I expect that you fully communicate your desires, fears, limits, and curiosities to me so that I can better train you to be the submissive you desperately want to be. There is no need to hold back your feelings with me.
You can expect to be treated like a lady while you are not actively submitting. I am well versed in the art of chivalry and believe that a good Dom should treat his sub as a lady in general terms. That said, when you are in submissive mode you should expect to be used completely and fully - within the scope of your limits - in any manner I choose. Your body will be under my full control and I will use it as I see fit.
A few basic guidelines:
Dominants cum first, haha. I am a strict believer in orgasm control. A sub who is fully satisfied is prone to mischief and you can expect to have the number of your orgasms strictly controlled while in my presence. Oh, you will cum, for sure. But your will release on my timeline, when I say so and never otherwise. Orgasm control is not just about denying release, however, and when you do cum I may choose to overstimulate you to the breaking point. Some submissives find this type of control too much to bear so I caution you beforehand; I do not make any exceptions regarding my complete control over your release. If it's not your cup of tea, I'm not the Dom for you.
Mouth, then ass, then pussy. In that order. Not all submissives are comfortable with intercourse as part of their training. That is completely fine with me. Some submissives, however, crave the feeling of their Dominant inside them and beg/plead/negotiate for the privilege of being filled by my sizable member. Know this up front: It will be a VERY rare occaision that I'll place you on your back and fuck you like a common slut. If you want to be fucked you will have to EARN it. When I feel like fucking, it's your mouth that will be fucked first, then your ass, and finally - if you are lucky - your pussy. My big, beautiful cock is something you should strive to obtain - it will not be given to your pussy easily.
Speaking of your mouth... As I mentioned, it will be fucked. That means you will not learn how to suck my cock, you will learn how to get fucked in the mouth by it. The two actions, as you will see, are not the same. Some submissives, even experienced ones, fancy themselves expert cocksuckers. I could care less. You will gag, choke, gasp, panic and tear up as I train your mouth to accomodate me at my pace and my choice of depth. Some girls learn faster than others but rest assured that you will learn, and once your are fully broken you will be able to take the full length and girth of me all the way into your throat for extended periods without panic or hesitation.
Despite the specifics outlined above I am actually quite flexible in terms of the various activities you want to be trained on. Oral, anal, bondage, toys, tease and denial, servitude, humiliation... whatever it is you seek do not be embarrassed by it. Sexuality can be complex and confusing but there is no reason not to fully experience all that you truly crave. I can help you get there.
Please write a detailed note if you are interested in meeting. I only meet in Manhattan and can host in an upscale setting or travel to you if you are more comfortable being trained on your home turf. Include the following in your message:
1. Age, experience and location.
2. Your desired timeline for starting training.
3. Your top 3 goals for training (if you have less than 3 goals that's fine).
4. Why you think we would be a good match for training.
Please do not waste my time. I'm a busy professional and expect that you are serious about having at least a detailed discussion about a connection.
Best of luck in your search,
Thayer
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