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LOCAL PEOPLE ONLY PLEASE!I do not seek a cyber pal or long distance relationship of any kind. If you dont live here in San Antonio (or close enough for an in-person meeting), I sincerely wish you the best on your search, but I am not the person you should be contacting. Please dont take it personally, but I dont wish to converse with people that have no intention of actually meeting. Im real, and seek someone real, and local. NOTE-words that are lacking an apostrophe or punctuated with a dash instead of a slash are not my fault, they are automatically changed by this site. Im a sane, intelligent, attractive, kinky and diverse lady that is pretty well-versed in most aspects of BDSM, but dont get nearly the amount of play and focused attention I crave. Ive been active in the scene here in San Antonio for more than 22 years. What I seek in a play partner Dominant, experienced, local person into bondage, sensation play, choking, breathplay, CNC, flogging, trampling, rough body play, sadism possibly pet play and wrestling and much more. I LOVE bondage, love expertly applied pain, and am not a S.A.M. (smart-assed masochist). I am, without a doubt, the most fun and reactive play partner youll ever have according to those who have played with me. Im a very strong person, but for the right partner, that strength is given freely. Redhead, Sagittarius, born in the year of the dragon. The person I submit to must be the right mix for me close to my age or at least over 40, smart, sober, experienced and naturally dominant-male or maybe female, though must be no-drama. African-American is a plus, but not a requirement. Non-jealousy is also a must, and non-negotiable! What Im definitely NOT interested in is people that just wanna fuck. I am seeking an intense and real relationship with a dominant man. Im not seeking casual sex or play. Ideally, it would be at least 1-2 times per week. I like to get to know someone deeply in all aspects, and dont care for drive by dating with people who happen to be in town. I seek a real relationship with the frequency to build trust and intensity and am open to other things that may develop. I have some weekdays available, and weekends if you host, though I am deathly allergic to cats, so thats a consideration if you host. Im told that redheads are more sexual and passionate than others, and I believe that. I thrive on focused attention, though Im not high maintenance and I never chase after people. Its just not my nature. Im not a doormat submissive, and Im really not 24-7 slave material, nor am I interested in a purely sexual relationship. My back tattoo was done all at once (2 one week sessions, every day, 67 hours total!), so Im far from a wimp. I love extreme sensation and my reactions, Im told, are truly amazing. Im married and poly, and completely honest with my husband. Yes, he knows everything-no problem with you verifying that. No, he is not present when I play, and no, he is not my Dom or cuck. Ive never had kids, dont drink or smoke. I like pain if properly built up and can almost cum at the end of a flogger. I also love sensual play, and the humiliation-degradation side of things. Set in stone hard limits Leaving or lying to my husband, relocation or someone relocating for me, drama, children, lies, cybersex, orgasm denial, journaling and slave type tasks (though we definitely can talk about workout rewards!), scat (including ass-to-mouth), piss, sex without condoms, 24-7 (though weekends are usually available!), jealousy, long-distance relationships, permanent damage, and constant back and forth small talk with no substance. Im willing to communicate about anything (though you will have to initiate it-I am very shy about initiating conversation). I need and give open, honest communication and cannot submit to someone unwilling or unable to communicate. The strong silent type with a blank profile, one-line intro note, or the ask me anything line doesnt work for me. Quality communication does. Im heteroflexible, though I am very disillusioned with the male-female-female dynamic. I hate feeling left out, having to take turns, or putting on a show for the male Dom, if I meet with a couple that wants to play, they must both be dominant-Im not a unicorn. What I have to give for all of your hard work is a mind body willing to explore the darkest corners of fantasy, honesty, sincerity a huge sense of adventure. I am very open-minded with a large appetite and the stamina for fun of all kinds. I give all, and want to be with someone who does the same. I need to stay close to San Antonio have very little time to travel. I would consider Austin if its not me doing all of the traveling all of the time. If you message me, you are telling me that you either travel to San Antonio frequently (at least twice a month or more! Ideally, Id like to play -at least- once a week), or live pretty close. Traveling to other states sounds fun, but in reality is not very practical or fulfilling. Im seeking a quality play relationship with the frequency to be able to build deep trust, communication friendship, and maybe more. Strange as it may seem to shallow people, I really do not care what people look like on the outside. Im not a teeny little young model any more, so if you are stuck on age or body type, mine is the wrong profile to peruse. Im not perfect, but Im working on it! I value people for what they are on the inside. Thats what really turns me on. We all get old, and we all have flaws, but the people I like to hang with are not stuck on societys concepts of beautiful, instead, they see the beauty inside, as I do. I know there are a lot of Doms looking for that devoted 247 permanent, lifetime live-in slave. Im not it, though I may be able to fulfill your desire for true power exchange. A Dom with no sub is an unfulfilled Dom. Hopefully, we can remedy this situation together. He whispered to me in the darkness as we lay together, Tell me where to touch you so that I can drive you insane, tell me where to touch you to give you ultimate pleasure, tell me where to touch you so that we will truly own each other. I kissed him softly whispered back, If you want my body, touch my mind. If you want to possess my being, touch my soul. Author unknown, but very much appreciated!

11/7/2017 7:02:14 AM 11/7/2017 Tried on my computer and tried on my phone to answer messages. I get an error every time I hit "send" this is frustrating!

2/6/2017 7:20:01 AM How hard is is to fill out your interest list? There's a little tab on the upper left hand corner in your "Edit Profile" section that says "Interests". Click the tab, and check the boxes next to your kinks. Why do people not want to fill this out? If it is not filled out, your kinks should be listed in your profile! Why all the the secrecy?

11/5/2015 10:57:44 PM Why do people not bother to read profiles? I put a lot of thought and work into my profile, yet I still get messages from New York, Indiana, Canada, even India! I do not want a cyber relationship. I will not move, nor will I carry on a long distance relationship. I don't want a pen-pal, either. If you only visit San Antonio once a year, please move on. I am not looking for one-night stands. I would like to find someone who can play once a week. I finally updated my mail settings so that everyone who writes to me from another state or country, is submissive, under 35 or a couple will get sent to the bulk mail folder. When I do get around to checking it, I will simply block these people.

4/27/2015 6:09:58 PM I also can't help but wonder why some Domly types think the quiet, mysterious type is what every female on CollarSpace is looking for. Not hardly. Blank profiles, no fetish list, and no city listed are all things that make me wonder why you are even here. If you don't fill out your profile and list your city (Texas is a huge state!), how are you ever going to find what you seek? Then there's the lame statement "ask me anything". Why do I have to ask everything? Why are you not volunteering to communicate about yourself? Are you not confident enough in what you have to offer that you cannot write a bit about yourself? These Domly types that don't even bother to say a little something about themselves actually expect a woman to submit to them? You are not willing to give a little of yourself yet you expect a woman to give of herself? That's an equation that simply doesn't work for me.