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Hello my name is Shay it's short for Shayla. Yes this is my picture. I am bit full figured but I love it. I had to clarify since I am being asked wierd questions by many out there. I am new to this just checking it out. I like honesty. I don't care if you are in a relationship since for me this is strictly online but you need to be honest up front. If you have questions of a personal nature you can ask I may not give you the information right up front. I like to have fun and to laugh. I look for positives in most situations. In life I feel that wasted energy is just that wasted you cant get it back so make the most of what you do, who you love. Just be honest with everyone so that one day it can't come back to bite you in your arse. I find most women will be tolerant of a man that chats with others here and there if that man is a man and owns it. Women need to realize that sometimes men just need that little extra spice and know if her man loves her it will stay where its supposed to stay. I like poetry and old movies. Like to sing and dance. I like to ask inane questions of the people that are close to me. Yes I have a life away from this computer screen and I keep it seperate from what I do here. I do my best not to hurt anyone and I refuse to let someone else hurt me. I have come to far in life to be a doormat. I want friends that can understand and accept that and accept what I have to offer. NO COERSION with me I am immune LOL.I like where I am who I am and where I am going. I love someone and they love me back its just a case of maybe needing that extra spice. He does his thing online I do mine. But at night its his arms I sleep in.