Oh the joys of collarme.com. For the last few days I have been looking to find a connection with someone even if just to exchange some emails and become friends. Many of these profiles are spambots and reposts. Some of these "users" require donations, tributes and financial reasons to become involved. This fascinates me because in real time I have no problem finding friends, dates and people to just "connect" with. My conclusion from using this site over the last couple years is that is it much more effective to meet some one on the street. Build a relationship and experiment with the idea of BDSM with someone you can actually connect with. Maybe I should post more pictures of me in leather, whipping a young woman's buttocks, would that get me results? If I looked more like the "type" of guy that is a Dom, would that get better results? Or should I imply that I have loads of experience, which I don't, in order to draw in newbies?