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Male Dominant, 50, lockport, New York
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Male Dominant, 40, Pottstown, Pennsylvania
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About TarnsmanOfGor
Update: April 26, 2012 My wife and I have been discussing more and more about me finding a sub to become a part of our world and so I am going to be looking harder to try to find the right one for us. Just as a clarification for people, my wife is a part of this process although she is not listed on this profile for the simple fact of she is not the one the sub is for, the sub is for me, but the sub will need to be able to mesh with my wife on a personal level. At this time my wife has no desire to Domme, although personally I think she would be a good one.
Hello I am returning to a world that I left several years ago when I decided it was time to step away for personal reasons. After a time I met and married my life partner who got me interested in a different aspect of the kink world and that was swinging, she and I have had many great times and she has encouraged me to get back to a part of my sexual world that I have been missing. Prior to my marriage I was active in the BDSM lifestyle and I had several submissives and two slaves over the years I was in the lifestyle.
I am looking for a special submissive/slave that wants to be controlled both mentally and physically. I am looking for a woman that is intelligent as well as easy going, if you are someone that is turned on by mental manipulation that is a huge plus.
I learned early on as a Dom that the true power in the D/s relationship is held by the sub/slave because they have the power to say stop. If you do not understand that as a submissive/slave then you are not the one I am looking for. There is no rush for me to find someone and I plan on making sure that I find the right sub/slave that will fit into my world.
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I think I should clarify something that seems to be an issue for some people. I am not trying to find a sub as a way to build a poly house. First of all poly implies that the sub would be able to see other people and have relationships with them. That is not what I seek. I am looking for a sub to be mine and not shared with anyone. The only exception to that would be if my wife were to decide that she wants to explore this lifestyle. I tell people about my being married so as to not have anything hidden. But I think to many people on here don't understand the term polyamourous. |
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This is for those that have asked. My wife is involved in this only as a observer for now she is curious about this lifestyle and is unsure of what her role in it will be. I am the one that will be selecting the sub/slave and she will be having some input but the ultimate decision will be mine. So in answer to the 2 people who have asked yes I am still married but this account is not for a couple because of my wife's lack of experience and at this stage she is only curious about the lifestyle she has never participated in it. We are swingers and she enjoys that aspect of our lifestyle and she is always willing to explore new arenas of fun. |
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