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Be local. Experienced or novice....... attitude and honesty is crucial. Grey hair on sides and back with short pony tail, bald on top, full short white beard, brown eyes and a deep commanding voice.
I am honest, loyal and require the same from anyone with whom I associate. I am naturally dominant but never abusive in any way. I see D/S relationships as power sharing and in order to be successful they must be symbiotic.
I'm not a player. I work hard and I'm much more particular with whom I spend my time than what I am doing. I am bright, intelligent, witty, am most comfortable in very casual attire but I do clean up well and still own a suit. I am white collar, blue collar and no collar all rolled into one man.
DO NOT mistake my kindness for weakness. I know who and what I am and don't feel the need to show off to express it.... ever.
Experienced in what matters to me but open minded in many ways. I'm not a player and not looking for one. Honesty above all is important. LTR is what I seek with the right woman.
I am not a sadist in any way but can handle masochist's needs in many ways. Lets talk about what you need and what I can do to meet them. I am not interested in degrading anyone but seek a true power sharing synergistic relationship.
I am an excellent teacher, mentor, coach and am not afraid of novices or beginners. Am most attracted to women younger than me but I do not rule out anyone just because of age. Be somewhat fit and at least able to be physically active.
If you want to know more read my Journal and if its not there then ask and I'll give you a straight honest answer.
Are you ready to blossom?
“And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight inside the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.” – Anais Nin
“You give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.” -Kahlil Gibran
And when you take that away, you take away everything........... Me
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WoW... been a while since I have posted here and a lot has happened. I fell in love and got my heart broken. My fault not hers. Finally found a worthwhile woman on here but it didn't work. No one's fault really just the way it is. Health has been good but had a TIA (mini stroke) a couple weeks ago and now my cardiologist is at war with my parts trying to figure out why and how. Lots of tests and more doctors. I am getting to really hate this life. Way too much running from one doc to another and all I still want is one quality sub woman to settle down with. Why many liars and fakes? Why is this so hard? Is it all worth it? |
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Been a while since I have written anything here. Tomorrow is special so perhaps that has nudged me to write tonight. I had recently found someone who interested me enough to write and who is close enough in distance. The deion was not one that I found familiar and the picture was incomplete. I didn't recognize this person at all but when I sent my email it was blocked. Obviously someone did not want to be recognized by me at least. SMH Happy birthday to me. On to the next. I don't like what they have done to the highlighting feature on here. I prefer the solid background as it was before.
On the cardio front, my recent visit and testing went well and I am still off the heart meds. Dr. still does not like it but like I told her, "Can't argue with success" I feel better and have less issues and the testing went well so that's all encouraging.
Now if I could just find the right woman while I'm still young enough to enjoy her !! LoL |
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Had cardio visit again today as follow up from last week. There were things left unsaid and not understood. Now its all clear and I am officially off heart meds for the time being. We'll see how I do without them. Next visit is January !! Woohoo !!! |
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I have not written here for along time. Health is OK and it seems that not much changes around this site. Some new faces and profiles as usual and the same rude bunch of women who have no manners and ignore courteous emails sent to them and then complain about the rude men who write them in their Journals. Oh yes and then the operators of this site who continue to lie about what is going on with it when nothing works right and still doesn't after a few weeks and they want us to believe the lies they tell in response to messages we send to SUPPORT. What a crock !! |
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Since my last entry things have not gone well for me. The heart issues have worsened and I have spent months searching out new cardio people I can like and trust. It is SOOOOOO HARD. But last Friday I met with a wonder Cardio and it appears that not only is my search over but she judges my condition as way far less serious than previous docs. In fact she feels strongly and explained her opinion in a way I could totally understand and agree with, that my problem is annoying but that my heart health is wonderful and I am not in any danger based on actual science and test results. She is going to do some more testing and I am to go back on my old exercise routine and we're going to try to resolve the rhythm issues with lifestyle changes and meds. The big thing though is they ARE NOT DANGEROUS or life threatening. YAY !! |
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My recovery goes well and I'm feeling better all the time. Now its time to be getting back to work and that will include the conversation with myself about the possible move further south. Naples is still on the list but that move will depend on the job and I'm working on that too.
Maybe some day the people who run this site will wake up and realize that some people do care about a potential partner's life beyond bdsm. And if they wake up and see that maybe they'll put some other slots for more information on here which will make this site more valuable for us all. |
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OK so I had a massive coronary about 4 weeks ago and the docs said that had I not gotten to the ER as quickly as I did I would not have survived it. So now with 2 stents and a whole bunch of lifestyle changes I'm feeling pretty good and the cardio guy says I am ready for cardiac rehab which starts this week.
And still looking for my Subbie. That task gets more difficult as I get older. Its not the looking that is hard its that there are less candidates out there. |
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Why is it that so many women who discover bdsm feel like (or at least express themselves as if) they invented it? |
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Must be local. Experienced or novice....... attitude is ALL
66, 5'9" 190lbs. grey hair on top and back with short pony tail, bald on top, full short white beard, brown eyes and a deep commanding voice. I have been described by a knowledgeable female submissive friend (long ago) as a man who oozes dominance from every pore in my body but doesn't ever over play that.
I am honest (to a fault), loyal and require the same from anyone with whom I associate. I am naturally dominant but never abusive in any way. I see D/S relationships as power sharing and in order to be successful they must be symbiotic.
I'm not a player. I work hard and lots of hours and I'm much more particular about with whom I spend my time than what I am doing. I am bright , intelligent, witty, am most comfortable in very casual attire but I do clean up well and still own a suit. I am white collar, blue collar and no collar all rolled into one man.
DO NOT mistake my kindness for weakness. I know who and what I am and don't feel the need to show off to express it.... ever.
Experienced in what matters to me but open minded in many ways. I'm not a player and not looking for one. Honesty above all is important. LTR is what I seek with the right woman.
I am not a sadist in any way and would not get along with any kind of masochist or pain freak. I am not interested in degrading anyone but seek a true power sharing synergistic relationship.
I can't relocate but may be interested in someone who can if things work out well. Be able to spend a lot of time here to find out because once or twice a month won't do it.
I am an excellent teacher, mentor, coach and am not afraid of novices or beginners. Am most attracted to women younger than me but I do not rule out anyone just because of age. Be somewhat fit and at least able to be physically active. |
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People...... is it so much to ask that you say what you mean and mean what you say? I'm sure many of us have had this experience on here with a person who writes for some days and then professes not to really want the exact thing that they wrote in their profile that attracted you in the first place. And at the same time they do not edit or retract what they said in said profile. So which is the lie? Hey if you're not interested in me just say so! But don't lie about it. |
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Am seriously considering a move back to the Naples area. I lived there for many years and I really have no reason to stay here now. And there are familial reasons as well so I am looking into work in that area. |
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I was told by a woman on here who professes to be a sub that I come across HARSH because I was direct in my responses to her. She was critical and judgmental and I called her on it. She didn't like that. Perhaps I will re-read my profile for signs of harshness. I don't think I'm harsh but I am direct and don't play word games with anyone. Those that know me don't think me harsh and I have asked. This site is still full of wannabees and wish they were's of all sexes and persuasions. Being obtuse or liars is not limited to the men on here in any way. There are plenty of women who fit those descriptions as well. Too bad we are subjected to all of them but then that is life.
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I was just exchanging messages with a real quality young woman on here. She is new to the site and I'm too old for her and she is too far away for me to be a good match but....... she was so different than the many rude bitches on here. She wrote and expressed herself very well and she has M A N N E R S ! It was a truly refreshing experience. |
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I'm outing another fake here.......itelrod01 is fake:
Thank you for writing but you did not come across my profile because the system here says you have not even viewed it. If you had, you would know I would have no interest in you. I'm not looking for a slave and you are too far away.
Your profile is so fake that even a child could tell that. I would guess that you are probably a fat black man sitting in an internet cafe some place like Lagos, Nigeria trying to rip off people who you believe to be stupid american.
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It appears that this profile attracts many fakes and yet scares some real ones away. What a sad place this has become. |
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Well, I can see that the level of courtesy of new female users on this site has not improved one bit. Why is it that so many rude people seem to find their way to this site? |
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Here is another fake..... my guess is a fat man sitting in an internet cafe in Lagos or some place like that....babeneil ......F A K E |
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OK people just passing on this warning about another fake on here who is trying to play........ Amanda20
Would be glad to pass on copies of communication for anyone who wants to see them. |
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Just what we need around here...... more stuck up people with no manners...... NOT |
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Will be visiting Tamarac, Coral Springs area for a few days of the holidays. Wonder if there is anything around there to get into? |
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Just arrived in Tamarac for a few days on family business. Nothing that I really want to do but things that must be done that are my responsibility. Mom asked and I do. Simple as that. Tomorrow will be an especially difficult day for me. Today was tough enough but I expect much more tomorrow. |
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Nothing much changes around here. Some new faces but the same rudeness proliferates. What ever happened to manners? |
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Leaving for Broward County for a few days again. Family needs me and I must go. Its not a chore but I do dread the drive. |
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Looks as if I will be heading down to north Broward again this weekend. Hard to meet anyone when I'm splitting my time between here and there but family needs come first for me always. |
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Wow !!! A woman who is NOT 3000 or more miles away actually looked at my profile and answered an email. Amazing!!! |
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Taking care of one's aged parents is much like taking care of children. We explain and explain and sometimes they just don't get it. We want to keep them with us as long as possible but sometimes they just don't cooperate. Just spent 10 very difficult days tending to my dad in hospital and at home then back to hospital. What is even more difficult is being a 5 hour drive from them. Some days it may as well be 5 days when I just can't get there. |
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I had a birthday and discovered that they are not nearly as exciting as they used to be. But then, I suppose that I am not as exciting as I used to be either either??? LoL No one on here has known me long enough to state an honest opinion about that so I suppose I'm safe !! |
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Lots of new users here I see...... unfortunately the manners of the new group does not seem to have improved one bit over the previous users. I suppose that is too much to expect or hope for. When one writes a perfectly tasteful, polite message which may or may not contain a compliment is it really too much to expect a simple "Thank you but not interested" ????? |
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Happy New Year to all of my CM friends. I'll be visiting family in Coral Springs and Tamarac over the weekend but will probably check in here a few times. Be safe !!
HAVE A SAFE **AND* HAPPY NEW YEAR |”"”;..,___.
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2011 is coming... post this as your status and keep the train going
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just something that I noticed a while ago and thought it might help some people here who have been having trouble getting their images to display. Check your images and be sure that they are not .jpeg They must be .jpg suffix to display correctly. If any of the ones you are having trouble with are .jpeg right click on the name and just change the suffix to .jpg It won't effect the image in any way but it will allow it to upload correctly and be displayed I think. It worked for me anyway. Good luck !!
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I don't know why.......... but it still amazes me that some women who complain about how they are treated on here in their profile......... and profess to want someone real......... still hide and act fake as hell at the same time. It is just not that hard people ! If you really want what you profess to want in your profile then act like it or just go away!! I guess this site is really full of sick puppies. There are some real people on here and I have communicated with a few but I must admit that I believe that they are in the minority. I'm tired and cranky and going to bed............night all !! |
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Why do so many women take their picture in the bathroom????????????? |
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I haven't posted here for a while and I can see that during my time away there are plenty of new fake profiles courtesy of those fat guys sitting in internet cafes in Lagos, Nigeria or some place like that. Many are so obvious that they make me laugh at first sight of them. Be careful out there people!!
As for my search, it continues without much success. But, I am patient and still awaiting the right woman submissive.
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OK..... so how come there are so many pictures of women on here where they are not smiling? I guess some women think that those strange serious looks make them more interesting or attractive to men. Sure does nothing for me. And another thing........... how about the women who come on here supposedly seeking a partner and tell nothing about themselves and show no picture. Seems really dumb to me. Any thoughts? |
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Today I have been thinking of running away and joining a monastery. Why not? I'm already celibate. And I'm tired of talking to people who don't hear and don't listen. LOL I have renewed my vow, however, to have the right woman or none at all. That isn't changing. |
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After reading so many women's profiles and journals its obvious that there are many disgruntled women on this site albeit for good reason. They complain about the fakes and abusers and liars. But hey, I submit that there are just as many women on here that are fakes and liars too and are just as rude. Fact appears to be that those that are honest, truthful and really available for anything meaningful, are in the minority whether they be male or female. If all you have to write about is the negative experiences I have to question what that (in itself) says about YOU. Men.... women.... just stop bitching and move on to what you are really here for !!! |
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I am finding that for every one nice polite woman on here there are about 50 stupid, rude, bitchy examples of wasting humanity. I am thankful for that one when she appears. |
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The weather certainly is beautiful !! My attitude is positive and forward thinking and now I just want the right woman as my life's partner. |
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Some additional information that I thought I should clear up. As a man I have no idea of the content of quantity of emails women on here get. I have read about many stupid ones...... I never send an email to anyone about anything before I have read every word on that person's profile........ I appreciate the comments sent to me no matter what is said..... Thank you all. |
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OK.... I am going to share some communication here between me and a female CM user. You read it and decide. How come people can't read and they just respond emotionally? Immaturity? I have xxxx'd out the other person's name as I wish no harm to anyone. I welcome email responses and honest opinions. I have no need to have the last word here and therefore did not respond again. It was obviously pointless as this person does not read and understand the same English language that I do.
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TarponBuilder on 9/22/10 at 10:48 PM:
Hello...... enjoyed your profile and am wondering how one who may be interested as I am gets to know more about you? D
TarponBuilder on 10/1/10 at 10:58 PM:
In order to meet that person that you seek you have to communicate. I have written before and received no answer or response. Not even a polite "Not Interested" Open your eyes my dear. D
xxxxxxx on 10/3/10 at 1:05 AM:
i have no mail from you before
TarponBuilder on 10/3/10 at 10:25 AM:
"TarponBuilder on 9/22/10 at 10:48 PM: Hello...... enjoyed your profile and am wondering how one who may be interested as I am gets to know more about you? D"
xxxxxxx on 10/3/10 at 2:22 PM:
well SIr.. that message is no different from any other i have received really.. not much to respond to
TarponBuilder on 10/3/10 at 2:28 PM:
not much to respond to? I asked a specific question because I wanted to know the answer. I obviously had some interest in knowing the method or why would I have written such a question. You obviously want to keep a lot private which I can understand and I was trying to open a dialog and not be stupid and demanding as some on here might be and are.
xxxxxx on 10/3/10 at 9:40 PM:
i dunno what to tell you Sir..
TarponBuilder on 10/4/10 at 9:10 AM:
Please do not refer to me as "Sir" Yes I am Dom and you are Sub but I am not "your" Dom. Again, I ask, how do I as an person who may have interest in you find out more about you? Must I ask specific questions? D
xxxxxxx on 10/4/10 at 8:14 PM:
Sir i address all self proclaimed DOMs as Sir.. it is only respectful.. i do not wish to argue either that is un-sub like.. If you wish to ask me questions you are most welcome to do so.. but as an unattached sub i retain the right to refuse to answer.. i try and do this in a polite way.. for you to scold me at this time is not appropriate.. as you sid yourself you are not my Master at this time
TarponBuilder on 10/4/10 at 9:22 PM:
You may notice that I made that as a polite request not a demand. I demand nothing from those not part of my life and am always respectful to everyone. If it pleases you to refer to me as Sir that is your privilege. And, I did not scold you in any way. I can now see from this dialog that there is no point in continuing this conversation. It is not worthy of my continued attention. Good luck to you. D
xxxxxx on 10/4/10 at 9:58 PM:
no need to insult me Sir.. sorry you are displeased with my respect i try and show. |
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It seems that some of the women on here plan to post lists of men who don't live up to what they say... etc... list is good idea....... and maybe some of the men should post a list of all the rude women on the site who don't even give the courtesy of a NOT INTERESTED response to a polite and respectful email message. Trust me the list would be as long. |
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ok so women on here are always complaining about the messages they get and what they read....... check this out "Hello, i am 26 i have been in the life style for ten years (since i was 14)" does anyone besides me see that this person can't add simple numbers? |
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Well live and learn. Found out that some of my messages were going into the Bulk folder of at least one person I had written to and she didn't even know it. So now I wonder how many other messages that I have sent have ended up the same way and those people don't know its there either? I can only suggest that all check their settings as it appears that some messages that may be wanted are not getting through to the main inbox for some people. |
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OK so what is it about the women on this site (and others) who talk big but can't even be civil enough to send a polite "No thank you" when someone sends them a polite email ???? I just know their mommas raised them better than that !! |
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visiting family in Coral Springs this weekend |
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Made some adjustments to my profile. It was wayyyy too long. I think its better now. |
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You look but you do not write........ I write but you do not answer. Are there any real and honest women on here? |
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Wow it seems that the Jacksonville area has gotten very active tonight. Wonder what's going on up there? |
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Do I have a sign on my profile that says, "STUPID" ? The fat men from Nigeria continue their trolling daily on this site. Its time to show the IP location of every writer. I belong to an international business site that does that. |
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There comes a time in life when you need to walk away from all the pointless
drama and people who create it, and surround yourself with people who
make you laugh so hard that you forget the bad and focus on the good. Life is too short to be anything but happy. |
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Actually if that is what you are then save your energy. I am way too experienced to fall for your garbage. I recognize you fakes just looking at your profiles. For you real women who live close enough and are real enough I welcome your introduction. |
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Well, so far this site has been quite disappointing. Why do young women from very far away keep throwing themselves at me? Could it be that they are really just fat men sitting in some internet cafe in Lagos, Nigeria? I think so. |
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