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Sweet, smart, feisty, chubby girl looking for a Daddy or Daddy-esque dominant.
I'm playful, relaxed, friendly, adventurous, spontaneous, creative, offbeat, sensual, affectionate and loving. I'm chubby or zaftig or whatever the current acceptable euphemism for "fat" is. My pictures may not adequately show this so I want to be very honest about it. However, I am active and healthy and I love the outdoors, travel, and adventure - camping, hiking, swimming, snorkeling, boating, biking, etc. I am also low maintenance, a rough and ready kind of girl who is equally ready for camping or a night out on the town dressed to the nines - or just a night alone snuggling or doing bad things to each other. One way or the other, I know how to show you a good time. ;)
I need time to get used to people and develop a connection, so I'm not wanting to meet someone and play right away. I need time to get comfortable with someone and develop trust before I can play with them. I prefer to start with friendship and intellectual connection first before things become physical. Don't worry, I'm not someone who will chat forever and never want to meet, I have no interest in online relationships, but it is an effective way of getting to know someone on an intellectual level before pursuing the physical. As such, please do not ask or pressure to meet me right away without making any attempt to get to know me. Along the same lines, please do not start roleplaying as my Daddy right away. That's an emotional relationship that has to grow over time, not something I can conjure up right away for a stranger - nor would the right man for me want me to.
I am also not interested in casual sex in any form - I am not looking for cybersex, cam, or one night stands. While there's nothing wrong with that - no moral judgements here! - it's just not what I want at this point in my life. While I'm not interested in online-only relationships, I'm open to someone who lives in other parts of the country (or even relocation if the stars should line up that way) as long as the goal is eventually meeting.
What I'm really looking for is the dream - the white picket fence (with the dungeon in the basement!) and my kinky knight in shining armor. I am currently single - while I have lovers, I am not married to or living with anyone. While it's great to meet new people and make friends in the lifestyle, and I'm open to play partners and short term dating in the meantime, my ultimate goal is to find a primary partner to live with and make a kinky, glorious life together.
I am polyamorous, so I am open to me and Mr. Kinky Knight in Shining Armor having other lovers, threesomes and other fun adventures, but I wish to find a man that I can put first before all others, and he do the same for me. As such, I'm not looking to join or form a poly household, but instead I am seeking a primary relationship that allows for openness.
I am primarily submissive, it's what I crave more than anything, but I am capable of service topping and I love to learn new skills - how to tie rope, how to throw a whip - so if you're a switch, that's totally acceptable and even a plus. It's fun to hurt people and be on top sometimes, but sexual dominance is not really in my nature.
I crave being tied up, spanked, flogged, hair pulled, bitten, slapped and all the lovely things that bring one to ecstasy. Knives, wax, electricity, needles, canes, hooks.... these are a few of my favorite things! I desire forced and rough sex as well as cuddling and sensual play. I am very sensual and very affectionate, I have a very high sex drive and I'm very oral. I live to worship my lover with my body. I love to explore and play and try new things. I enjoy the ritualistic and nonsexual sides of BDSM as well as sexual and sensual. I've found that pain can take me to some interesting places. I love the feeling of submission, of wanting to give myself utterly in the moment.
I'm searching for a "teddybear with claws" type, a dom who is sweet outside but can turn very devilish and dominant when the time is right. I'm not looking for a strict dominant or high protocol - while it's intellectually fascinating to me and I respect those who feel called to it, as a lifestyle, that will just never be me. One of the pluses of growing older is coming to know and love ourselves as we are, and who I am will never be the super-achieving graceful sub. I am too much of a klutzy dork for that!
However, I love to serve and make my lover happy in a million different ways. I am not a "do-me" sub, I am very giving, loving and affectionate, eager to serve and please. I also enjoy out-of-the bedroom submission and control - being told what to wear, being ordered for, having "assignments", etc. I don't want to be submissive to every Dom I meet - just someone special. I wish to be treated with care and respect, and I will offer you the same.
Note: To make it easier to navigate, I've put the 'nilla interests under "Like It" and the kinky interests under "love it" and "curious". Hopefully this will make it a bit easier to read.
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