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About Tamed4UOnly


I ask for Your pardon. Please show me some grace as the tone of these words are not directed at You but I hope that You will read them and understand the necessity of them in this forum.



I am a leader; I have been indeed referred to as an Alpha Male. My past profession, the family I grew up in and my friends I grew up with demanded it. Friends and strangers called and continue to call on me for advice or sometime just to vent as they know I am loyal. I keep their secrets. There was a time when I was called to walk into a room (daily) and ask that those present heed my direction without question. Often my mere presence and a few choice words would get the results I wanted—if not a swift and brutal hand got the job done. This was no game or fantasy—often life hung in the balance.



I am here to reveal a craving deep inside of me to submit to a loving, intelligent, strong and beautiful Woman. Not just any woman. Just One Woman. You. I am seeking a relationship where You are the leader, You make the decisions for me and for Us. You take this type of responsibility seriously—it isn’t a game to You. The type of trust I am eager to place in you is great—I know it won’t come over night. That said, it should be clear that I am not going to turn my life over to someone whom I wouldn’t trust to take care of houseplants or gold fish simply because she has a vagina. The truth is, I don’t care what women want. I don’t seek to understand women. I only care what You want and I only care to know and understand One Woman—You. Trust me, there is tremendous peace in this place.



It is very important to know that I AM NOT SEEKING TO BE ANYONE’S CLIENT. While I have absolutely no ill will or judgment against Professionals I am seeking a monogamous 24/7 female lead relationship. That said, should you be a Pro that is interested in a sexually monogamous relationship then I would be open to that possibility. NOT INTERESTED IN MEN AT ALL. You are Domme, never switch. You are experienced because I am not and I need to be able to completely trust and totally submit.



Curious. Gray area. Open to listening. Are you interested in a household where there is another woman in our relationship? Not a sex slave or play partner but a member of our loving household. Trust me when I say this has nothing to do with some sort of 3some fantasy. I am not even sure I can get into that emotional space but I will hear you out. Obviously, if you are already involved with a woman I will have to accept it or move on.



I am fortunate to lead very flexible vanilla life. One that I think makes me a valuable asset your service. I won’t completely spell it out here. I will say this; I am able to take care of myself so being “kept” is not my motivation. I am in no way rich but my income is steady and passive. I don’t have any kids or real encumbrances (I thank God that both my parents are healthy and don’t require my assistance at this point in time—though they are very important to me). Can you see the potential advantage in owning someone in my situation? My pursuits at the moment are in the creative realm and I absolutely love it and for the most part I make my own hours. If you are a Pro (wanting a serious relationship) I think I would be a particularly valuable commodity to you.



As I said, eventually I would like a 24/7-live-/ marriage/ partner for life type of relationship. Because of the total power exchange I am sure it will take time and I am more than willing to take the time to make something special happen. I wish our vanilla life to blend seamlessly. In public I will be seen as the doting boyfriend, some may say I am pussy whipped—so be it. I am conversant on many subjects and a good companion and escort in many social situations. For the most part no one will know except for perhaps a discrete and fashionable collar I wear on your behalf. I am really hoping you like fetish wear or have a sophisticated edge.



Please know that I am not the type who wants to intentionally piss you off so that I can get punished. Also know that my masturbating habits don’t involve a keyboard, photos or any sort of cyber non-sense. Further, my offer of friendship to Pros subs, Dommes, switches is a sincere one — no ulterior motive. I am a very good listener but I am not looking for pen pals or endless emails. I prefer the phone and in person. I have a really good long distance and international calling plan. lol I have lots of vanilla interest that I would be willing to share with anyone. I am only interested in physical intimacy with One.



I lead a relatively healthy life style and hope that you do as well. I am not a vegetarian but that is something I have done before and am willing to give it a go again. Boxing, lifting weights, spinning, walking, yoga are things I like.



I have intentionally left out anything that is overtly sexual because I feel it better discussed away from this page. This was a long introduction but I think informative and necessary. Should you feel it too much to read—then we are probably not a match.



I need to be tamed not broken. I need direction and discipline but I don’t need to be micromanaged. I am ready to be molded by Your loving and heavy hand.



I will respond to all those who send a thoughtful and informative response. Remember I AM NOT INTERESTED IN ANY CYBER PLAY OR BEING ANYONE’S CLIENT.

Maybe you have read all of this and thought; maybe he isn't for me but I know the perfect Domme for him. I would be more than grateful.



Can you love me hard?


UPDATE: 7/25 I know this is a long profile and I appreciate you reading all of it. I wasn't sure how or if I would use the journal section. But I think I will use it to provide further insight and info about me so that you can get a broader picture. I can't say that the entries will be profound but for those who care they will be informative.


?Hey you worthless dog, come here! Submit to me!?  This was her warm greeting.  Worthless?  I don?t think so. Dog? No way, but let?s stay with this rude train of thought.  Ok, so here I am sitting on my porch, minding my own business?you know,  licking my balls and taking intermittent naps.  So, this troll enters MY yard and yells; ?Hey you worthless dog, submit to me!?  Is she blind?  Can?t she see the size of my balls? I stood up. I am big dog. I could immediately see and smell the fear. Too late!  I am still picking the cheap leather from my teeth and I buried one of her Pay Less shoes in the flower bed.

 

Be nice. I?m nice. If you enter come into MY yard with a whip in your hand you had better have a bone in the other and some kind words on your lips.  Woof!

I would appreciate if anyone may be able to recommend any movies where BDSM is the central them. NOT PORN.  It would be really great if they are available on NETFLIX.  Perhaps there are not any. Which brings me to my next point.

Is there a writer who may be interested in collaborating on writing a screenplay where the premise is around a BDSM RELATONSHIP. Preferably, you are active in the life style--pro is cool and really great if you are in Southern CA. but.......
  How much junk mail do you get?  I get a truck load a day. Today, I heard it all funnel through the mail slot onto the foyer floor. As I started to scoop it all up to throw it away, I noticed two post cards right there on top. The first was from a friend in NYC.  It depicted a panoramic view of central park. She mentioned she had gone for a long walk after eating a canoli she gotten in little Italy.
  Ohhhh to be collared in Gotham City.

The second wasn't actually a post card but one of those "Hey we have moved cards."  A firend and her family has just moved from Adelaide Australia to Melbourne. I really liked Adelaide--I've never been to Melbourne but I have been to Newcastle, Sydney and Brisbane. 
   Ohhhh, to be collared down under--down under meaning Australia, not my balls. Well, I guess that would be up to you huh?
  G'day to you all.

7/24--EXCITED TOO SOON--I am always flattered when a woman approaches me whether or not I am interested or attracted. So, she reached out to me (I thought she was beautiful), and said she liked my profile and would like to see a photo. I obliged, she approved. We exchanged a couple of emails. She suggested we speak on the phone. Great!  Not a cyber dweller. I did ignore a red flag or perhaps, I thought, a typo. She asked; "So you think you can deal with a DOMINATE woman like me?"  Uh, I....., well..hmmmm. I called her.  "Hello, I am glad you called. There are so many men who are out there playing games. I thought it would be good for us to conversate on the phone. So, let me ax you a couple of questions."   DEAL BREAKER! I didn't hear any of her questions.  Yes, I do think I can deal with a DOMINANT woman.  CONVERSATE-I don't know what that means.
AX-a tool commonly used for chopping.
   Look, I find accents and butchering of the English language of those who English is a second or third language (very impressive) charming, even sexy. However, if English is your primary language you must have command of it. I am in no way speaking of a profound or eloquent command. You don't even have to be a superior speller (I sure am not) BUT IN THE NAME OF ALL THAT IS KINKY you must be literate. I know you have a since of humor. :)

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