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About Tal0nz
(Please read all I have written to gain a better perspective of who I am and what I am looking for. Additionally, unless I serve you, I write always in proper English, meaning the words “I” and “you” are written just so. Please do not take offense to this.)
How do I describe someone like myself? I am both a very complicated and simple person. I could very well be one of the most fun-loving and outgoing people you would ever meet, that is once I get comfortable around you. Nonetheless, I like to think that a good balance is key when dealing with the realms of mayhem and calm, and I do it all with a smile :D
I have been in BDSM for over two years now, but I still think I have much to learn in all aspects of it. Unfortunately, work usually interferes with going to BDSM events, but I sure try to make one if I can. I have thought long and hard about whether or not this is a lifestyle for me and have come to the conclusion that is should be. I am a submissive, and am very open to the exploration of my BDSM tendencies, including being a collared slave, though the thought of being totally controlled is exhilarating and terrifying at times.
At one point, I quit the lifestyle for personal reasons but have returned because I never stopped feeling the pull of submissiveness that I can no longer deny. This is why I seek the right Domme who will help me grow into my submissive nature and allow me to offer myself freely instead forcing submission. I am anxious to please my future Domme and submit to any training she feels I need to best serve her.
A wise man I worked with once told me, “Treat your woman like a queen and she will make you a king.” I think a better of this should go something like “Treat your woman like a queen, not only because she deserves it, but in by doing so you can serve her better and hold her higher than yourself.”
I am very safety oriented. Please do not expect to meet me immediately. Something like that will be discussed after there has been significant dialog. Additionally, I am only interested in devoting myself to one mistress, and her keeping only one loyal slave. Polyamorous relationships do not interest me.
We are all in a small community together, so I am very interested in making new friends. If you are feeling particularly chatty, by all means, message me then. Do note however, that I am looking for someone who is real time. I have no problem conversing with people a continent away, but it won’t get further than that, and the same goes for webcam. Please talk me like a human being too. I am not your submissive, and am not contracted to you, so please talk to me as you would anyone else.
My ideal partner is someone who is flawed as much as me. The perfect top or perfect bottom does not exist but as a submissive, it is my job to always strive for this. I want a partner who is not afraid to show their shortcomings to me; after all, this kind of communication is vital in the BDSM community, and I would be better attuned to them because of this.
I am also looking for someone who knows how to get inside their submissive and inspire submission from the inside, thus the Domme would know me better than I know myself, and I would not only be entranced by them, but unable to pull myself away from such a person. This would also allow for the offering of my freedom to become their total slave. That said, I am terrified and excited by the notion of being owned and it would take time for me to come to terms with these feelings at the guidance of my Domme.
Compatibility is always a huge plus. I am looking for someone who is passionate, experimental, and witty in the BDSM and vanilla world. The concept of honor is also important because I cannot entrust myself to someone who is unethical and would misuse me. I will honor those who honor themselves and not waiver from their morals. Intelligence is a must because it is the best thing to be able to talk to someone in serious depth on any topic. Additionally, I want someone who can separate their vanilla and non-vanilla worlds so everyone else only sees a couple…but behind closed doors......there’s not a doubt who owns me. |
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