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sydisa62

I'm not looking for anyone at this time. I wish you all well on your search and hope you all find what you are looking for. Good Luck. MS (5-19-12). I check messages to keep up with certain people only



Read the whole profile before contacting me. Its evident when you have not and just send random messages.
Welcome,
I look forward to the possibility of chatting with you on Yahoo, meeting you and spending very rewarding, fun times together if there is an attraction.

I am looking for a Real Life, D/s, via a friendship, that could turn into a D/s to M/s relationship at some point. That being the case I have every intention of getting to know that person very well before anything happens.
Just a FYI, I am NOT going to play on the first meeting. I will take some time getting to know you, be it chatting over Yahoo or/and finally meeting. My rules and they work for me.
For the submissive that is looking for a quicky, not going to happen. If and when I decide to sleep with/have intimate relations, it will be with the submissive that I'm in a committed relationship with. Again my rules and they work for me.
I love impact play. I like/love CBT. I leave marks. I love the look of marks. I love the sounds that you will make when you feel and process the pain and pleasure. Love those endorphins. The intake of breath as you feel the cane on your body, and the cry that comes as it strikes. I love hearing the noise that you will make as the clips come off your balls. I know it looks like I'm scarey and that you might not be able to take it, but who knows. There are all kinds of levels to my needs. Compromise and negotiation is important between two people.

There is so much more to me then my fetishes listed. To be honest the list has many shortcomings that really don't describe what a person is like or into. IF you are stuck on that list and believe what is checked off as the only possible choices then don't bother about messaging me. I'm evolving all the time in this wonderful world of kink, I am so much more that that do me list.
I'm creative, looking for fun ways to play. Some of these ideas come from what I read in other forums or ideas I hear about while out and about. I'm interested in learning about things that I feel require me to learn from others before I start placing things in places that might cause harm. I'm constantly learning.
I'm interested in puppy play. To be honest my experience with this is mostly in being a real life dog owner. Right now I have two lovable dogs. My kids will tell you that the dogs come first. I disagree, but its hard to argue that my dogs are spoiled. (they are 80 lbs each and as cute as can be). This would be a learning experience for me.

I love aftercare. The cuddling, watching and listening as you come down to earth. That's as much for you as it is for me. I have the same cuddling need as you do.

Things about me
  • I'm easy going, friendly, happy, smile and laugh a lot.
  • I read a lot. I have a kindle, my Ipod has music and books on it, I usually have something to read with me at all times.
  • I like funny movies, chick flicks, drama and adventure. I do not like horror movies; they give me nightmares and make me tense.
  • I like to garden, well, I like to eat the tomatoes fresh from the vine, but I have to put the work into growing them. I just get a little into it and forget you only need a few plants. Last year I had 11 plants. Everything would have been wonderful but a not so friendly mole came to visit and had something to eat.
  • I listen to many different kinds of music. I am all over the board here. You will have to ask me. Country, Rock, 80's, 90's. I like individual songs most of the time not always the whole album.
  • I think moose’s are the cutest thing. They are soo homely.
  • I will watch sports for a while but I enjoy cooking things to snack on while watching. I do find going to a game way better than watching it on TV. Baseball is better than football but I like football too. Basketball makes me angry. I have flashbacks to school when I'd get penalties for traveling and I see the pros doing it all the time now, with no penalties, grrrrr.
What do I expect from a submissive?
  • I expect honesty. In return you will get honesty from me. (Hiding or not updating your true age is not a good way to start, that is something that is so small to be less than honest about upfront. What else are you willing to be less than honest about? Yes I am 48 or will be on June 2)
  • I expect you to be able to communicate. Honest, open and ongoing communication. Out of *sight* out of mind. This is important to me. I expect a "good morning" and a "good night" text or call, at the very least. I make time for you in my life, make time for me in yours. I can't say this anymore plainly. Make time for me if you want me to make time for you !!
  • I am demanding and reasonable, creative and happy with life.
  • Maturity is important. (Can you keep an appointment or follow through? Can you keep up communication??? Actions speak loudly). My time is precious to me. If you want me to put time in for you, I expect the same for me. I'm a Woman and a Lady, treat me like one and it will get you a lot further.
  • I have likes and dislikes much like anyone, but Mine come first.
  • I don't do drugs or smoke! These are hard limits. Both offend me.
  • I am not into a lot of humiliation, nor any of the extremes in bDsm. (ie: needles, medical, fisting, gs or scat = hard limits).
  • Chastity is such a lovely thing. The right device is such a sight to see. Chastity is a gift given and received. This is not a hard limit but one that I feel can be an important part of the fun.
  • With the right person many things are possible
Ask questions, its the one way that we can get to know each other
Here are the requirements: You MUST be:
  • A Single Male (I don't play with married submissives or submissives that have girlfriends. These are lines I don't cross. No offense, but is seems that Consent is a loose term. = Hard Limit).
  • Age 42 to 52. There is a reason for this range
  • Live within 100 miles of Concord, California (Exceptions to distance might be made for the right person).
  • Be a submissive. I want more then bottoms want to give. Being a slave comes in time with the right person.
  • I am not going to bottom and I seek more then just being a top.
  • At some point if things are right with a submissive, the relationship can turn into a regular or permanent long term relationship. This is not for everyone and I'm not looking for it in everyone. Time will tell.
  • I'm looking for an intelligent submissive.
  • Intelligence comes in many different ways, not just having a degree.
  • Have a good sense of humor.
  • Have a sense of adventure and be willing to try new things. (I'm creative. One idea can lead to another and something new to play with.)
Please be articulate, clean, drug and disease free.
- I will not respond to: - Anyone who has not taken time to fill out their profile. - Anyone who is from out of state, I am not looking to have someone relocate. I am interested someone that lives in my local area.
- Not interested in cyber-domming ! I do not own a Web Cam
- Anyone who is looking just to get laid.
- Anyone who has nothing more to say than Hi, yummy or something
equally unintelligent
5/22/2012 9:53:46 AM

I'm a Gemini.

Love with a Gemini can be challenging and frustrating, but positively rewarding.With the Twins, there's only one guarantee - there will never be a dull moment.
The best love matches for Gemini include Aries, another Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius and Aquarius. (This is what a site says)
Gemini's dual nature means that the Twins get bored easily. Geminis must find a sign that is up for the challenge. Because of Gemini's need for constant stimulation - mentally, physically and emotionally - the Twins are most compatible with signs that will provide Gemini plenty of freedom and excitement.

4/9/2012 6:42:03 PM

OMG I got to play with a violet wand. It was really really cool. Tried it on my arm. Wasn't too bad for what I tried. lol.

2/25/2012 8:39:46 PM

Warrior Submissive.

Warrior Submissive.  This struck a note with me.  I saw this title today while reading postings.

A gentleman with a good heart, intelligence, wit, sense of honor, patience, open mindedness and willingness to learn and grow with me.    A man that can be my companion, friend, lover, partner and my submissive.    He is confident in his self and his service to me.  He has the strength and courage to accept his submission to me. He will know that in return he is revered and cherished. He is my passion, my beloved, my sweetheart and my boy.   He can be an alpha male in the vanilla world, someone who rules his world. When we go out into the vanilla world no one ever need know of the dynamics between us. All the world will see is a gentleman and his Lady. 

This is much like the representation of a Queen and her Knight.

 

2/18/2012 8:20:11 PM

Something new. I don't like needles. Why? Because I traveled a lot as a child and had to endure many many shots all the time, they hurt and sometimes there was blood.

So what is this about you ask. I think a butterflied cock and balls, all stretched out is a wonderful look. I found an interesting way to make it work for me. A ring or two, elastic, and a lot of clothes pins.

I got all the pins on the cock and added some just because. Final count, 35. It was really cool looking. Stretched out and displayed. Now to get the pins off.. LOL, he screamed and made all kinds of beautiful noises. He did sooo good. 

12/26/2011 10:54:17 PM

Lovely boys, I am looking only for boys in our local area (50-100 Miles). For in person meeting/play only. I am NOT looking for boys coming to California to visit, vacation, work or willing to relocate. Ms Syd

 

12/24/2011 1:46:51 PM

Happy Holidays to all the wonderful boys that have sent messages.

 

ForHerBoredum
 
 Age: 29
 Chicago, Illinois