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Female Submissive, 56, Alamogordo, New Mexico
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Dominant Couple, 40, roselle, Illinois
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Female Dominant, 39, lebanon, Pennsylvania
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About SwtnSpyc
PLEASE READ THIS FIRST: Please have some respect for the fact that I really don't care to have you send me a message with everything hanging out. Anticipation is half the fun! Back to the regularly scheduled program.
I took a very long break from the lifestyle due to life's interference. I am very happy with who I am, comfortable in my own skin, and just looking to move forward to where I want to go.
As for me, I am sorry if I don't respond right away to any messages. I am extremely busy: life, work, and pursuing my MBA tend to take up most of my attention at the moment, but never fear, I do get in here to check it every few days.
I now have four favorite mottos:
- The brave may not live forever, but the cautious live NOT AT ALL.
- Just because you CAN, doesn't mean you SHOULD!!
- No good deed goes unpunished.
- No act of charity goes unresented.
Here's another thing to know about me: I don't do drama. I don't play games. I won't tolerate stupidity. I hate liars. If you are WITH someone - you are unavailable (be it bf/gf, married, separated, dating)! I will NOT mess with that.
I am real. I am intelligent. And yes, I've been independent for a long time, this is not my first rodeo, and NO! I do not need to be "rescued" by the whole white knight thing either.
The tough stuff being said now, hopefully you're still reading.....
About me: I'm truly old school - that's how I was trained and that's what I know. I came into this life at age 19 - as a slave to a Gorean Master. I lost Him to a drunk driver after 3 lovely years, and I drifted for a long while making many friends in the lifestyle. I met a wonderful Goddess at an event - after much deliberation and consideration - She offered to mentor me under contract for a year and a day to train from the bottom up. Goddess and Her boy taught me many many things - taking me under their wing and showing me what the total power exchange relationship really can be. It was one of the greatest experiences in my life - it was FAMILY and Mentorship in the truest sense of the words.
Experiences and years passed. I was accepted into the House of Mastery (HOM) by a lovingly sadistic Dominant Couple from Boston where I enjoyed their tutelage in many areas of the lifestyle. Long distance was rough but we made it work for more than a few years. Tragically, all things - good and bad, must end.
I have met many in this life, and I hope to meet many more. There are players, and true lifestylers: tops, bottoms, Doms, Dommes, Sadists, masochists, and every aspect you could ever imagine. Celebrate diversity - it makes the world go 'round.
On a lighter note: I have a sense of humor... seriously. I LOVE to laugh - it makes everyone feel better. I make sarcastic comments just to get people to laugh, but mean no real harm with them. Laughter perks everyone up! So I LOVE to laugh - I LOVE life!! Do you? Grumpy takes too darn much energy better used in other pursuits! That is, unless you deny me my morning coffee - then it is GAME ON. GRRRR A woman has standards, ya know! wink
Also, do not mistake my observation mode to be shyness. I am just as comfortable in the shadows watching silently. People-watching helps weed out the ones who have to thump their chests to show their dominance from the ones that inhererently just are. I will more than likely come out with a zinger or two as I get to know you. (I do so love the shock factor.) And shy or demure (HAHAHA) are not words that even remotely describe me. I do like to sit back and process for a bit. I love the inherently gallant and romantic souls, the slightly shy appeal as well. The bad boys do not appeal - they tend to mainly be looking for attention. For some reason, I enjoy challenges but detest the arrogant.
Recently, a friend hit it the nail right on the head when describing me... she said: "She's brash, vivacious, and sassy. Don't ask her the question if you don't want to know the answer. It can be disconcerting, but you'll always know where you stand with her." I take that as a high compliment. It's the truth. And sometimes the truth hurts (even when applied to myself).
Ask me and I'll tell you what I think - I tend to be brutally honest. Sometimes to my own detriment. grin But don't lie to me. It's one of those things that if you come clean right away.. you MIGHT get another chance, but it better be a damn good reason. And guarantee, there won't be a second. Play games, do the wishy-washy crap, or be a drama-whore, and I'm done. Say what you mean, mean what you say, do what you say you're doing to do, or have a damn good reason why it isn't going to happen. Life doesn't give anyone anything - you have to EARN it. (That includes respect!)
I cherish my friends, am intensely loyal, and have a fierce protective streak for those I consider in my circle of trust. Do not try to hurt them or I will take you down at any and all cost to myself. I do not deny that I have a that demon within - nor do I deny that I can be intimidating, protective, and sadistic.. but I also cherish and take care of my own. I am what I am.
As a wise man once said: to find the greatest pearl, you must first crack the shell without crushing it to bits. It takes time and effort to polish a gem by hand. I just hope to someday find one that has the patience to enjoy the journey.
Until next time... Slainte! |
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This is something I wrote a while ago... but it's been the feelings have been coming back more and more lately, so it's still valid. Enjoy. 
The darkness passes over her like shadows before sunlight
An other-wordly feeling of guidance and strength fills her
Her thoughts wander and she questions her past
What decisions and choices brought her to this point?
Her journey is difficult, both physically and emotionally
Yet once given of free will, it is a gift of an open heart and mind
One to be cherished and valued as priceless as gemstones
Honesty, Integrity, Honor and Respect
Are the cornerstones of her beliefs and values
A one-sided coin means little in the life of a beggar
A two-headed coin means even less to a thief
The true coin of this lifestyle is more valuable
It is indeed a treasure without measure. |
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Well I just created a new profile after being gone from CollarMe for a very long time. I guess this is it. :)
I am looking out the window at all the snow falling and how lovely it is. The end of the year is coming soon and I reflect back on the year that has passed. There has been trials and tribulations, laughter and tears, good times and bad. How does that saying go? "That which doesn't kill us, makes us stronger." Well, that is the truth. Each day will dawn again whether we want it to or not. It's how we choose to face that dawn that determines how well we will live.
I choose to face it head on. How will you choose? |
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