SwtDrkKandie

Some of you so called DOM's on here really need to learn. Just cause you say your a Dom or a Master does not make you one or at least not mine. Calling me names is not gonna inspire me to respect you. Get to know me and maybe just maybe we can go from there. In time hell I may even learn to call you Sir. But you demanding such will not get you far. You are just another person till then to me.

Also naked pictures of yourself and next to no profile does not inspire me to take you serious as a dom either.

I think sometimes I make the dumbest choices in my life. I decided instead of finding someone new. I would see where things lead between a Dom I use to be live in with and me. Thinking hey we know each others good,bad, and ugly. We never really broke up and I never really got released. Life just kind of happened and we ended up having to life in seperate towns. But enough of that and back to my point. You would think the second time around both parties would try to make the changes needed to make it work this time but boy was I wrong. Yes I realize he is Dom and I am sub but lets be honest here. We are still people with needs and wants. However how do you expect a submissive to ever evolve and change if you never give postiver reinforcement. Like really if you know I am needy and need constant reassurance why do you flat out ignore my text messages. You know at least answer the damn thing when you can so I know you are still there and not ignoring me. Don't wait till 3 days later when I am tired of trying to get a hold of you decide to send you lots of text messages and decide to yell at me. It is your fault I did it in the first place and don't you realize all your teaching me is in order to get your attention I need to do something I know you hate. Isn't this kind of backwards? Aren't you suppose to reward me with attention and reassurance when I do what you want?

Now if you want to dismiss the thought provoling value of my post due to bad grammar feel free to do so. You were probably to shallow to understand it to begin with.

I wish there was away to warn people on here about some people. What is it with the new age of Dom's refusing to have protected sex and dismissing you because you ask for recent proof of a clean bill of health? Does that not scare anyone else? Make you wonder what they might be hiding and why they are so against condoms? Do they not think about the fact that if the other women in their life are so willing to drop their pants for them and let them stick it in raw. How many others have been in there raw and possibly left something behind. Really guys what is with this new trend?

So let me add to this little bit of information. If you are wanting bareback sex then do not bother contacting me. That only comes in time and with trust. Not when we first meet and fuck. Sorry my life means more to me than a quick orgasm or beating.