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Hiya!

I have no experience in this vein! :D This is my first time dipping my toe in the water, so I'm not really looking for any subs who are super experienced (though I can be flexible). That said, I know what I want, I have a pretty clear idea of how to get there, and I am serious about making that a reality for myself. I only ask for the same in return. I also can be pretty type-A, so I believe that open, honest communication and planning up front will be to the benifit to all. So, on that note and without further adieu....

About me:

Under usual circumstances, one might mistake me as a mishchevious person. I get it. I love to tease and watch people squirm. For just about as long as I can remember, I have always found the look of bewilderment that comes from pushing people outside of their comfort zone to be irrationally pleasing. This however, doesn't accurately address that which I consider makes me distinct, and that is my god-tier ambition. I want to be great. Not good. Not famous. Not glorious. Great. Now, that probably won't make a lot of sense unless you know anything about my value system, but suffice it to say that while I am generally always down to be jovial, have fun, and bring levity to any situation, the ultimate underlying motivation to everything I do as a human being is my ambition to do the best for myself and the best by those around me. Whew! Now that's a sentance.

What I want from this site:

I want a pet. I want to train and mold a person into my perfect little sub; someone who get's wet just from thinking about what she can do to please me. I also want the opportunity to nurture this seed into the flower of my design with love and care. I want the obedience, loyalty, and complete control that can only come someone who trusts you completely. I've already made a point about how important personal efficacy is to me, and while I don't expect anyone else to match my intensity in that, I do expect progress and effort. I am here to train someone to attend to me in the manner of my choosing. This means learning my sexual preferences, learning the behaviors that I like, and learning other technical skills (cooking my favorite meals, rubbing my shoulders, etc). As previously mentioned, I don't have any experience in this, so there will have to be some learning on my end, and for that to work requires patience.

What I am willing to provide:

If I have contacted you, I'm already okay with everything that you've listed, unless otherwise specified. If you're contacting me, than I'd rather we talk about what your looking for so I can decide if I can meet those needs. To that end, I am pretty self-aware, and I believe in being honest (else why come here?), so rest assured that I won't waste time if I don't think I have what is being sought. That said, if we can agree on terms, know that my aim is to treat you as close to your wish as I can possibly manage. Thank you for reading. If you identified with any or all of this or you would like to see some pictures before moving forward, do the responsible thing and send me a message (or favorite my profile if you are shy).