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SunshineMistress

Sunshine
Female Submissive, 55, Everett, Washington
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SunshineMistress - Female Dominant, Long Beach CA California | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About SunshineMistress


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I like to punish naughty grown-up boys with canings, spankings or floggings. Heavy masochists are preferred. I'm not looking for sex or a sugar daddy, nor am I interested in your genitalia. I just want someone who enjoys the above.
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Looks are less important than you think. Emotional maturity and good (physical/mental) health are of utmost importance to me. This means that if you have health issues of any type, you are getting proper medication and treatment, including therapy. To make things clear: I will not disqualify you due to mental health issues as long as you are seeing a psychiatrist/therapist and taking your medication, but I require honesty.

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I prefer gentlemen over the age of 55 but under 80, however, 40 is the youngest I would consider at this time. Please understand that depending on circumstances, I might ask for references in the local area. It is for your protection as well as mine. I am not a pro-domme, therefore, I am not here for your fantasy fulfillment. I do this because I enjoy it. I will not hesitate to block someone who either doesn't meet my criteria, or has their own agenda.

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I do not Skype, text or cyber, so if you are not in the Southern California region, I have very little interest in pursuing a relationship.

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I do not play on first meetings, and I will most likely have a male escort with me. If you are uncomfortable with meeting in a vanilla venue or talking to me so I can get to know you in front of other people, then perhaps you should go on to the next profile.

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Did I Visit Your Profile?

Congratulations! You caught my attention, and that's not easy to do. If you like my profile as well, message me, and let's see where this goes.

PLEASE TELL ME ABOUT YOUR EXPERIENCE IN SUBMITTING

This is probably the most important request I'll make of you, and it is the one thing that most people stumble over. I understand. Really, I do, but this is your chance to shine, and 99 out of 100 of you can't answer it. So for my benefit as well as yours, I'll give you an outline:

 

EXAMPLE A: (Little to No Experience)

I'm very new to submitting, and I don't have any real-time experience, however I'm eager to learn. I've attended classes at (name of place) and taken the following classes (name classes) If you haven't been to classes, that's okay too. I just want to know as much as possible about your experience.

 

EXAMPLE B: (Minimal Experience)

I haven't had the privilege of serving anyone exclusively, but I've attended parties at (name of dungeon[s]) and played with a few people. I’ve also attended classes at (name of place) and taken the following classes (name classes). I also recently started attending the following munches. (Name and place of munches)

 

 

EXAMPLE C: (Only Experience with pro-Dommes AKA: Pay to Play)

I haven't had the privilege of serving anyone exclusively, but I've seen pro-Dommes at (Name of dungeon) What I'd really like is to be with someone who lives the lifestyle.

 

EXAMPLE D: (Over 1 Year Experience)

I've been active in the lifestyle for (length of time). I most recently served (name) from (place/city/area) for (length of time) and we would occasionally/frequently attend parties at (place). Our relationship ended because of (reason with details). I attend the following munches (Name and place of munches) OR I haven't attended any munches/ I've attended/participated in the following events/classes (name them please)

 

Remember: The more detailed it is, the better.

A Harsh Mistress...

I'm not. I take pride in my patience with people. Still, there are those moments when all I want to do is squeeze the life and joy out of a person because they've pushed the envelope too far.

Although there are some who would like to think I'm a goddess, I'm a human, and I have feelings. Sometimes those feelings are strong and come out sounding like a bellow instead of a whisper.

Some suggestions:

Rather than asking me what I will do to you or for you, ask me about me. Better yet, tell me about YOU. Your interests, your hobbies, your (non-kinky) likes and dislikes. Treat me like someone you want to get to know instead of a kinky Mrs. Santa Claus or genie.
I think most female Dominants feel the same way as me.

Don't send unsolicited pictures of your penis, or pussy, or breasts. Make sure you read my profile and journal. If you message me, I read yours. Oh, and speaking of messages, I'm under no obligation to answer yours, especially if it's just one sentence, "hello" and nothing more, or you send one asking "Permission to speak?" Please take my no as a no and not a maybe.

The more complete your profile is and your first note to me is, the more likely I will be to answer you. Thank you!
Why I Insist On Face To Face Meetings Early On

My momma didn't raise a fool.  I can't tell you how many times over the years I've gotten interested in someone over the phone or emails only to actually meet them and feel nothing.

I don't want to waste your time or mine, which is why I insist on meeting a person if their messages "speak" to me. I invest lots of time just reading messages that go nowhere, so if I ask to meet you, it means you touched me in some way, and I want to show you who I am.

This doesn't mean I'll want to play with you, it means I want to see if the "sizzle" is there so we can decide if we want to pursue something. Rejection doesn't bother me, but leading me on does.

Hoping you have an enjoyable day, week, month, and year.






PLEASE

Don't call me ma'am.  Don't send me penis pictures, and, most of all, be patient.. There is only one of me, and gawd-knows-how-many of you.
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