SunRiseMale

Morning Pleasure:                    It's a warm weekend spring morning and you are naked in our apartment.  I decide it's time for your first orgasm of the morning.  In the living room floor I place about 4 blankets, each laid over the other to form a padded area on the floor.  I then have you get down on your hands and knees.  Crawling on the floor beside you I position your wrists and knees all very close to each other, and using a piece of shibari rope tie them in a soft bundle, so you are kind of balanced, just a little precariously but still safe.  I then retrieve a vibrator and a tube of KY jelly.  Kneeling again now behind you I take a seated position and place my legs over your legs, my thighs over your calves, giving you a little support from falling forward.  As always I admire your beauty.  I then take the KY and very carefully lubricate your bottom area, working the lube into the small folds of your tight bottom muscle, and also lubricate my left index finger.  With a gentle push I then insert my finger into your tight bottom warmth so it is almost all the way in.  I then turn on the vibrator and position this also in my left hand, using my thumb to hold it against my hand, so that it is pointing nearly straight down, and position the tip right at your now glistening clit.  Using my right hand I open your wetness a little more to expose your clit as much as possible, and give it a few light rubs with my fingers, then park the vibrator tip over it, with gentle pressure.  For about 2 minutes I hold it things there, left index finger still in your bottom, vibrator on your clit, and rubbing your inner thighs, belly and back randomly with my right hand all at the same time, as you start to build toward climax.  Watching closely I can start to see the signs of approaching climax in your body, tightening muscles, breathing, and as that builds I then take my right hand, place it over your right bottom cheek, and then push you forward a short distance, almost off my finger but not quite, and also almost to your balance tipping point, but again not quite.  I then look at your clit, and can feel the ache you have for release, and your frustration as the vibrator continues to humm just a few inches away.  Slowly then I use my right hand to again pull you back, your beautiful bottom riding my finger on the way back, and again park the vibrator at your clit.  Again I wait for you too build, this time just a little more, and again I push you away.  We repeat this about 8 times, each time coming as close as possible to that trigger point, until your clit is purple and throbbing, and your wetness is dripping out.  Finally I kiss your bottom gently, pull you back towards me again, and say ... "Ok baby, come this time for me."  I then reach forward with my right hand, and am just able to reach your right nipple, which I give a gentle squeeze to further this time take you over the top.  After a few more seconds you yell out, and climax hard against my hand and the vibrator.  I leave it on just a few seconds until just after you reach that super sensitive stage, then pull it away, watching your contractions as they continue for a few more seconds.  "Humm, so very nice" ... I mutter, and reach down and undo the rope, so you can spread your arms out and get more support back.  We then sit in that position for a moment, and finally I give you a little smack on the bottom and we both stand up.  I can still see the blush in your face.  I then give you a hug, we go about our relaxed morning business, but in the back of my mind I am planning your next orgasm of the day, which will be a few hours later.

(creative writing)

"The after shower inspection"  ...........    She showed up at 8pm right on time.  I had been in from work about an hour and was comfortably relaxed.  I had the heat set on a very comfortable 74F.  Upon entering I gave her a big hug and she proceeded to get undressed.  I then placed my small collar on her neck.  As always she is beautiful.  "Please shower and then come back here," I instructed.  She gave me a small smile and disappeared down the hall and I soon heard the water running.  A few minutes later she reappeared, a towel around her waist and stood before me.  Without words I moved behind her, removed the towel and gently for a few moments ran my hands over her shoulders, upper back and neck, trying to relieve some stress from her day.  I then moved my hands down to her waist and for a second held her very firmly .... "Please bend over and grab your ankles," I then instructed.  With that gift of female flexibility she did so, and grabbing two silk scarfs I then knelt down and tied each wrist to each ankle, more of a symbolic gesture then anything.  "Wait here," I then instructed, and quickly moved to the bedroom to grab one of our small play bags, containing oil, a small selection of butt plugs and a few other items.  Open returning I moved my office chair very close behind her and lowered it as much as possible, bringing myself directly up to her very sexy bent over form.  After yet another brief pause to admire her body, I then started massaging her inner thighs and upper legs, alternating between a firm rub and that very light touch that just brushes the skin, and makes the skin ache for more.  I then moved to massaging her very sexy ass checks, from time to time grabbing them and lightly spreading them to keep her as fully exposed as possible.  "Are you ok?," I then asked, as she can only hold this position perhaps ten minutes before becoming a little uncomfortable ... "Yes" she softly replied.  I then grabbed one of the bottles of oil and lubricated my hands and also poured a small amount of the oil on her lower back.  At first I then generally massaged her ass checks, but soon started to focus entirely on her sphincter area, adding additional oil and making small circles with my finger to work the oil into those tiny folds of skin.  I also started to dip my finger inside a little at a time, probing her.  I then grabbed one of her smallest and favorite butt plugs, only about 3" long, with a nice small round ball on the end.  "Are you ready?" I asked ... to which she gave a small nod.  After applying a little oil to that as well I gently slide it in and felt the ball tip pass the ring of muscle and lock in.  She gave a small gasp at the insertion, but once inside she quickly adjusted.  I then moved my fingers down over her beautiful genital folds, touching the folds of her lips, pulling the lips gently and running my fingers generally up and down her now glistening and moist form.  Briefly then I ran my index finger in small circles around her clit, not enough to bring her to release yet, but enough that I could feel her heart and body responding.  I then stopped abruptly, leaving her aching for more (to come later) and untied the silk scarfs.  Gently I helped her stand again. Pushing the chair away I moved to her front and gave her another long hug, then bent over and kissed each breast.  Again she gave that shy smile.  "Let's grab a little food in the kitchen and then move back to the living room", I suggested.  We then moved to get a small snack in the kitchen, her naked form moving beautifully around the house, always an amazing pleasure.

Women often masturbate using a single finger in a circular motion over their clit.  Another powerful technique for stimulating their clitoris is to put your index finger just inside their sex, and your thumb just outside, feeling for the shaft of the clit and then very gently squeezing the shaft of the clit between your finger and thumb (gently, not too hard).  Once the shaft is trapped and held like this it can be gently stroked, gently pulled, teased and lightly rubbed, leaving the head of the clit aching to also be touched as well.  Once enough arousal is achieved, a finger tip from your other hand or even your tongue then very lightly touching the tip of their clit is usually enough to send them into a crashing orgasm.  It is important to establish and maintain a nice pace, not too fast, not too slow, feel for them to respond to help set this pace.  If you want to tease them a little, as they start to build to climax slow the pace just a little, and keep slowing to prevent them from coming right at that moment.  Then as they relax a little build the pace again, keeping them on the crest of that wave of pleasure just before climax.  If they are not bound, you can also instruct them to squeeze their own nipples at this same time.  Holding their clit in this manner can be very very powerful, there is no higher density of nerve endings on either the male and female bodies then the female clitoris, it is a beautiful thing.

I wake up around 3am and quickly visit the bathroom, after having sipped 2 glasses of wine earlier in the evening.  After quickly urinating I take a wash rag, wet it with warm water, and lightly clean myself.  I return to the bed to see her stirring just a little and rolling over towards me from her side of the bed.  At night in bed she wears a nice wide velvet lined collar and a very short leash, only about a foot long, so it never accidentally gets caught in the bedding at night.  I lay down again beside her and gently grab the short leash, slowly pulling her down to my waist.  Her still semi sleeping form quickly responds, and moves as I direct.  With my right hand I grab my manhood and hold it erect, and with my left hand I grab the hair on the back of her head, guiding her downwards.  She automatically responds, opening her mouth, and I guide her to my manhood.  For the next several minutes she pleasures me, I hear gentle murmurs as she sucks and tongues me, and I lay back and close my eyes in the pleasure of the moment.  Finally I feel my pressure building and grab her hair more tightly, holding her in place.  She too senses my building pressure and slightly quickens the pace ... after a few more seconds I explode into her mouth.  With my right hand now I gently cup her jaw, holding it firm, and with my left I gently squeeze her nose.  For those few beautiful seconds she cannot breath, is focused entirely upon me, and is forced to swallow.  I can feel her still sucking, swallowing, intoxicated in the moment, and after my contractions finally ease I release her nose and beautiful face, and pull her head again up next to mine.  For a few seconds we look at each other in the dim light, each never speaking a word, and then I kiss her passionately.  "You are so beautiful" I then say, and she smiles.  After another hug we both roll over again, and fall blissfully back to sleep.

An Actress in Hollywood once said words to the effect of .... "Sex is what keeps a man hard."  There is truth to this but there is also truth to .... "The anticipation of sex, and the foreplay before sex is what keeps a woman dripping wet."  There is nothing quite like the sight of a woman's arousal running down her thighs, seeing her sex completely open like a bursting flower, and breathing in her phermones in those precious moments.

During paddling and/or spanking of a beautiful submissive woman, it should be remembered that though the impacts can and do impart pleasure, pleasure also comes from the anticipation, waiting for the next "touch of the paddle", feeling their own breaths and heart beats during that time of waiting, hearing the swish of air a second before and knowing for a brief moment that it is coming, and finally introducing soft touches of the hand and fingers between the strokes, to electrically re-ignite the skin, like soothing water and hot fire.  It is a full dynamic that many outside do not understand, but incredibly intense when the two are fully in tune with each other.

The fine line between pain and pleasure (or at least perceived pain) is the point where the heart races.

Shibari as a form of artistic bondage has a number of very nice qualities.  First the process is usually conducted somewhat slowly and deliberately, heightening the experience of being tied.  It also puts a great deal of rope surface area against the skin (arms, legs, torso, neck, etc) this too is very tactile and very sensual, almost like many hands being placed on the body at once.  Thirdly if done correctly it can be used to form the body for a specific time period, almost like bonsi wire forms the growing tree, suggesting additional activities later, i.e. paddling or spanking.  And finally, as it was slow going on, removal can also take some amount of time.  There is an intensity to this as well, knowing that instantaneous release from the bondage is not possible, it will take some seconds or even minutes, therefore trust must be given.  All of this can be used to heighten the submissive experience.

"We are not human beings having a spiritual experience, we are spiritual beings having a human experience."     An old but wise quote, source unknown

We should not be embarrassed in these things we do, as long as love and giving are really the core values.

Those outside the lifestyle may not understand, but there is a certain absolute beauty to a sensual sub or slave lying naked on a bed on her side, arms cuffed behind her back, ankles also cuffed, and then arms and ankles also roped together behind her back.  She waits patiently then, for a touch, a spank, a hug, any one of a hundred things.  It is human sensual poetry.

The female orgasm is actually a beautiful almost poetic thing.  Endorphins and all kinds of healthy chemicals are released.  Even better are multiple releases.  There is a great joy in working to build that pressure, gently teasing, and then watching that beautiful "explosion of her pleasure", the contractions, breathing, etc., leaving her completely weak for those few minutes.  It should be embraced, and always respected and cherished.