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As I chronologically get older , sometimes I feel insecure about being a little. I wonder am I just immature, crazy, or even worse simply not well mentally. As this body reflects the experience of my years, it makes me feel at times as if I am wrong in some way being me. I can't help that I am just a little girl at heart, but what does that look when I get to 50? When does it stop being cute and just plain gross? Or does it?

I don't know just some fears and issues I have with my big mature me. How to continue to live and express my little side when everything around me says...get over it you freak....

I wonder if any other more mature littles feel these fears or thoughts. As, I browse Tumblr I am struck with all the 17, 18, and 19 years little girls, yes they are confused as well, they are not feeling little , they actually are little girls...lol

The 18 year old posting to find a Daddy, does she even know what that means? Has she the slightest clue about submission? She is a not little at heart, she actually is a little girl trying to make sense of her sexuality...there is a difference. I am well aware of my sexuality, and I enjoy, and naturally am little in the arms of a good DaddyDom. This kid is just being what she is chronologically really, and I am stuck wondering when did being an actual little a girl become what a 'little' is?

They say nothing trumps youth , for me nothing trumps experience mentally and youth physically. These two rarely if ever exist symbiotically.

So, i am helping out a friend. Honestly, a lovely giving girl with a very sensitive little side. She relays to me the something that if did not make me so sad and make my tummy hurt, would have me enraged.

Said little meets so called Daddy. They correspond he lures in with promise to help with a current goal. First week or so he is attentive, dominant and caring. He visits, he spanks, no he BEATS her silly. She tells me she was left with welts, bruises, and bled. She tells me about tools such as 2 inch thick metal paddle with holes, belts, straps, a freakin' pizza peal.....this ass even broke a bathtub brush over her bottom.

Now, this goes beyond the pale of a hard needed spanking, this is not "little" arena stuff this is sadistic slave beatining (which if that is your thing great). To make it worse, he then ignores girl for days after this session.....umm what in the world? Girl has BPD and anxiety which she takes medication for, which she is always forthright in explaining to any prospective Daddy so they can decide if they want to deal with such emotional stuff. Fake Daddy said it was no issue, he was fully aware of these challenges girl has.

When she realized she was not being supported after this beating, just the occasional one word response to her text, then nothing at all, even though she pleaded
"please call me".... Girl gets like most littles do; insecure, wonders what she did wrong, feels uncared for....gee i wonder why this could be she feels this way?

Girl in a desperate attempt to get what she should and would have been given freely by any true Daddy, lets the fake daddy ,who is really just a sadist beastmaster, know that she is having some trouble. She is going through a family crisis and due to insurance issues has not been on her medication in a month. I mean, does it take a rocket scientist to figure out this is a real bad situation? Girl gets more ignoring and casual if not cold treatment. Girl end up having anxiety attack and is taken to hospital. Girl tells so called fake daddy she is at hospital; he actually responds and asks "why"?....ummmm DUDE! Are you totally stupid or just that big a buttmunch!

Girl recovers, gets medication and insurance is worked out. She contacts the idiot to tell him she feels he is cold, callous, and not very daddy-like. To which he responds, he will not take the blame for anything, and if she is telling the truth, then she does not need a Daddy she needs to fix herself first. Ummm,.... MORON, you were supposed to help her not beat her silly then leave her out to dry! GRRRRRRRRR i am really so mad typing this.

I am happy to report girl turned to an safe-sane-experienced Daddy after this horrible experience, was treated well, cared for, talked down, and got a scolding for trusting this shit bag in the first place and not making sure she was up to date on insurance so she could stay on needed medication. Girl is doing much better, girl is glad this is past her, and so grateful Daddy gave her the freedom to learn what happens when you don't listen to Daddy.....hahahahaha!

This emotionless douchbag has "discipline" (from Az) in his name. His profile is very sparse, no pic, no information just that he will discipline and help people, it is what he does. Littles beware, this guy is not a Daddy he lacks the emotional make-up to be such. I would like to know who you help douchbag? Please from the story I heard, that was far more in-depth then what i have reported here; your not a Daddy not even close, your a sick, dysfunctional predator who wants to hurt people and get your rocks of on trying to ruin people. My guess you have deep seeded "mommy-issues" and really small dick.

Another one for "The Little Files"

sometimes a girl just needs a hug from Daddy, even if it won't be ok, it feels like it will be for awhile.

Well, just trying to clean up the Xmas chaos. At this point , don't really care how it gets put away m, just that does, i will deal with the mess next year and repeat the cycle.

Started my "dream room" wish list, hoping Daddy will see it and be thrilled with the idea of spanking me in pigtails in a pinkalicious room....LOL a girl can hope. Do you know they make a pink television!!!!

Feeling moody today, been through a lot this December, family crisis, work drama, personal episodes of melt downs..so glad the holiday season is finally coming to end and life can resume at normal pace. Every year it gets to be too much work for me , i just want to hide.

it seems to me some Daddy wanna-bees need to understand a little is not all cute fun wrapped in pigtails and pink.....littles are an extremely sensitive overly emotional lot at a times. It is a huge responsibility to take on a little. Yes, there are those lovely sweet pinkalicious moments, then there are those down right scary moments. I found this post on Tumblr and wanted to share for those out there who think they are a Daddy, can you handle this mess? Daddy Dom is not for the faint at heart....lol

Little not so cute BPD things-

-uncontrollable fits of rage
-screaming at everything
-substance abuse
-hypersexual!!! Sex repulsed!!!
- I love/hate/love you!
-do you love me??? Why haven’t you messaged me?? What have I done wrong??
-I’m sorry I’m sorry I’m sorry I’m sorry I’m so-
-fuck off why the fuck are you even near me! Wait come back I didn’t mean it!!!!
- self harming when distressed
-self harming when bored
- better put myself in dangerous situations!!!!!
-they’ll finally notice me if I do this *insert potentially life-threatening situation here*
-IM SO ANGRY IM GOING TO SMASH MY ROOM UP
-I cannot do this basic task without constant motivation from Favourite Person
-IMPRINTING!!!!!!!
- I ADORE YOU!! FUCK OFF I HATE YOU!!! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!! FUC-

i continue to be just floored by the young so called subs on here that express they have no limits. Ummm, do you even know what this means? Are you totally naive or just stupid?

Just read a profile which basically stated " i am new to this, looking for a older Daddy Dom, i have no limits, will meet after 2nd message. Now either, your a FBI agent or a down right moron!

Okay, so your inexperienced and you want to meet-up with an older man who claims he is a experienced Dom and you want to have no limits.........can anyone say dead in a canal.....you do realize new one, that no limits could mean you find yourself bound an gagged by someone you do not know then have a blow torch taken to your girly bits....exciting, surely every girls idea of a fun time!

Get a clue, get some sense, be safe, and for the love of all that is holy, do not ever say you have no limits. If you do not know your limits yet, then figure them out.

It is nice to read comic message first thing in the morning, even they were not meant to be funny.

I get a rather illogical message from a so called Dom. I chalked up the message to innocent ignorance and sent a proper nice reply. To which i receive a response of "call me Sir"........it just made me giggle. I informed moron that he was not my Sir, and prefer Daddy anyhow so that was not going to happen, that I don't know him from the moon, so why in the world would i do such a thing. Suggested he read the profile not just gawk at photos before sending a message.

He apologized and stated he was just used to be being called "sir" he was like 24 years old. I called B.S. and educated him a bit on what a fool he was making himself look like.

Another bites the dust.....it did make me laugh and i needed to laugh this morning.

Another one for "The Little's Files"

So, girl meets guy. Guy and girl correspond for 3 weeks Guy seems great, Guy meets with girl in person. Guy takes girl out to eat. Guy puts gas in girl's car. Guy gets a blow job. Guy says the right things. Guy promises to meet again. Guy never calls girl back. Guy does not return calls or messages. girl is left feeling confused.

Come on guy, at least give poor girl some closure. What a punk.

And, there goes another one for the Little's File. **Guys name has "naughtytrucker" as part of it.

Well, i spoke with a little today who relayed a really sad story if it had been so amusing i would have cried.

She met a so called Daddy right here on this lovely site.....he seemed ok to her. They spoke for several days, he talked a good talk. Then he asked her to meet, she agreed was scared but eager. He then asked her to meet for coffee. She was excited a bit scared but was happy to meet and see if they were a match.

This scum bag then informed her, that for payment for the coffee she would have to give him a blow-job in the parking prior to him buying a cup coffee....What in the world? When she protested, he told her if she was a good girl she would be more than willingly to do this. Mind you had corresponded all of about 3 days. When she said she was not comfortable with that, and did think it was very Daddy to ask such a thing and make it reliant on whether she was a good girl or so early on, they had not even met- he then turned on her. Said he did not want her anyway , she was mental, ugly, and fat. Yet, just a moment prior he was trying to get a blow-job out of her.

First off, surely a head job was worth at least a Big Mac!!!! Whahahahah, second, what a scum bag! I can only assume he does not buy many cups of coffee...his screename contains CEO, beware littles, this guy is the ultimate jerk and fake.

Another for "The Little Files" how truly sad this man must be.

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